What to do in the face of other people s bad words

Don't be like the other party, be generous, scold and scold without pain anyway, people will only think that he has no quality, I think so! If you are relatively strong and the mood is definitely not convinced, then scold, "scold", but you have to scold with quality, which means that you are not dirty, and you are helpless to scold.

Smile and leave. In this way, you can reflect your high quality and cultivation, and make you ashamed of yourself. If he is a pestering person, then there is no need to entangle with him in itself; If he is a cultivated person, then he will realize his faux pas and apologize to you.

Only one's own tolerance will be exchanged for the respect of others.

For example, what if you get bitten by a dog? You can't bite back, you can only walk away with a graceful posture...

In fact, you also know that if you scold him and her back, then your posture will be ugly, "dog eats dog, a mouthful of hair" is said to be this situation, so endure for a while, take a step back, let him touch the ruthless person, why do you ruin your reputation for a lifetime!!

Heaven does not generalize people", that's what he said, he and she always meet the opponent! Let's take a step back and watch the show!!

The above is not only a fact, but also a word of consolation, I wish you a smooth work and a happy and happy life!

In public, the best solution is to pretend to be innocent, pretend to be pitiful, and win the sympathy of others. Later, there will be a chance to fight back, so that he has no chance to turn over.

Take a step back and open the sky and endure the calm for a while. Of course, if you don't want to endure it, then fight back with a smile, you know, for an enemy, a counterattack with a smile is always the most perfect, the most impeccable counterattack, as for the content of your scolding, it depends on your improvisation, and you can't change it and ask again.

Ignore your choice to speak ill of yourself.

Do you need to bite back when a dog bites you?

If it continues to bite, it proves that it is really a dog.

As the saying goes, only dogs will die and bite people.

Don't fight dogs].

I wish you the best of luck every day.

To be angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others.

Hee-hee......

I think it's still a matter of mentality. Maybe you think about it from his point of view, in fact, you will think that such a person is ridiculous and pitiful. Isn't there such a saying that getting angry is taking other people's mistakes and getting along with yourself?

Although it is not your fault, the key is that the knot in this person's heart is not opened, and it is still projected on you.

I used to be angry, but now I don't at all. Haha laughed, if everyone around laughed, it immediately solved the awkward atmosphere.

But then, I would never be friends or associated with such a thing.

Ignore him, because no one is going to kick a dead dog! If you really quarrel with him, you will be divided between the winners and losers at that time, and in the long run, in fact, both will fail! So the same should be the same!

The scolding is very ugly, which means that he is not literate, and you must not scold back, otherwise you will not be literate. As the saying goes, only dogs bite people, no one bites dogs, and everyone has their own judgment on who is who. If you're in a hurry, I think you can fight...

Explain in a calm tone, if the other party doesn't listen, you can ignore it, others will not say that you are cowardly, but will only say that the other party has no quality, and the wise man is speechless.

The more you give some people face, the more he doesn't want it, then there is no way, you can't let others on our heads, counterattack is the best, don't scold a word, just incite.

If he has no use value for you, you must deal with him, and if there is use value, continue to kill him after using it.

Why bother with it, people who do this are themselves people with bad qualities, so why bother with it, we have to be proud that we are not such people.

Think about it seriously, if you really have such a problem with flowers. Just correct it, and if you don't have it, ignore it...

Ignore him when he is air, and madman.

Warn him, record what he scolds you, and sue him that he has hurt you.

I'll be very calm with him, she said.

You're drunk"

If someone gives you a gift and you don't accept it, then whose gift is it?

If someone hits you, you don't dump him, and after a long time, they are just deceiving and humiliating themselves, you know,

Just as if he was reincarnated as a beast.

Don't care. Smile slightly.

There are also skills in dealing with verbal violence, in life, we are inevitably ridiculed by others, when others attack you with bad words, you can't scold him like a shrew, such behavior not only seems to be unqualified, but also lowers your own image. So, what to do?

The first is to stick to one's own position. Many people's emotions are easily influenced by others, so when the other party insults and abuses themselves, some people will immediately fight back angrily, but after the incident, they often fall into deep self-doubt, influenced by the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, many of us are very humble in society, and then some are not very confident. So when others belittle us, it's easy for others to change our position.

However, people with high emotional intelligence will not do this. When they are attacked by others' bad words, the first move they take is to insist on their own standing and annihilation. They firmly believe that they are right and that they can do it.

In this way, first of all, your position will be clear, so that others will not succeed in looking down on your behavior; secondly, if it can make others feel nosy, he should not judge casually; Finally, show that you are excellent and leave others with nothing to say.

The second is to retreat as an advance and stop and change inspections. In life, people with high emotional intelligence use the second trick in the face of malicious attacks. They believe that when they encounter malicious attacks by others, they do not necessarily need to attack others with hard and simple words, and make themselves embarrassed, which is not the solution.

In fact, a different way of thinking, retreating as advancing is also an offense. The so-called retreat is to first agree with the other party's point of view and let the other party succeed temporarily, and then point out the other party's shortcomings that are fatal than the shortcomings you just admitted. Wouldn't it be more enjoyable to let the other party slap himself in the face?

This kind of riposte is also especially useful, leaving the person who maliciously attacked you to gnash their teeth and be speechless.

The third is a tooth for a tooth. The third trick used by people with high emotional intelligence in the face of malicious attacks is to retaliate with a tooth for a tooth, which is different from the above two ways, this way is more straightforward, there is no turn, how others evaluate you, you will directly attack others in the same way. In life, if you meet someone who is unreasonable and can't understand good words, you should treat him in a-for-tat manner, so that he can also understand the feelings of others.

In life, we all know that being angry is not good for our health, and we can do a lot of unimaginable things when we are emotional, so we should never be angry when facing malicious attacks from others. You must know that if you are emotional, you will let the bad guys succeed and lose a lot of money. Therefore, you need to face these attacks sensibly and fight back beautifully, the above are the three ways that highly intelligent people deal with malicious attacks, have you learned?

In fact, at work, others evaluate what you are wearing because of his attention to you, so it does not mean that he has any ill will towards you, so at this time we can listen to other people's comments, but there is no need to reply, and there is no need to feel irritable because of his comments.

First, don't be complacent, don't be frustrated.

Some achievements may be due to our own strength and efforts, or luck, or the help of noble people and the strength of the team.

So when we achieve an important result, it's just a matter of having a good day. Celebrate that night, start from scratch the next day, start anew, enter a new starting point, enter a new dimension, and start the next round of competition.

Don't get complacent in the face of praise. Don't be discouraged in the face of criticism.

Especially when you hear criticism from behind someone's back, you must not pay too much attention to it.

We only need to think about whether other people's criticism is our problem, if this problem really exists, then we must correct it, if there is no problem in this regard, there is no need to run to the other party to clarify, or to complain in front of others.

Second, don't change your principles because of others.

Some people like to try to influence others by pointing fingers at themselves.

When they saw that someone else was taking on a little more work, they would run over and say, "Oh, you're stupid, I'll do as much work as you want." Don't try. Otherwise, the living simple hail will be more and more. “

When they see someone sign up for a training course, they run over and say, "How much did you spend here?" Does the boss reimburse? Returning to school without reimbursement? Are you stupid? “

When we hear about negative comments or too many interventions, it is easy to shake our confidence, doubt our past choices, and even think about whether to change our principles of life and work, and become more sleek and sophisticated.

Learn not to pay attention. Everyone hopes in their hearts that they can be recognized and praised or loved by others, but there will always be times when people are liked and disliked, and people's strengths and weaknesses are inevitable, so there is no need to be sad in the face of these malice, and learning to be hungry will block these bad words.

Learn to reflect. In the face of other people's malice, you should also think about what the reason is, if it is indeed your own problem, this needs to be improved and solved through continuous learning.

Cryogenic treatment. If the other party does not say it positively, then cold treatment can be carried out, cold treatment does not mean retreat, this is also a quick way to deal with it, some things if the party does not speak quickly will also reduce the heat attention, and the matter will be diluted quickly.

People always have a lot of bad roots, the more you care about something, or the more you think that the person who is delicate and easy to talk to, he will especially like to bully you or provoke, and when you learn to deal with contradictions, he will take care of it, so you should learn to make yourself not overflowing.

Of course, self-confidence is also important. On the premise of fully understanding your own brother's return, firmly believe in your own personality, if you do this, other people's bad words will not hurt you much.

He said: Just endure him, let him, let him, avoid him, bear with him, respect him, ignore him, stay for a few more years and watch him.

It is often said that a single sentence can hurt a thousand times. For some reason, we may hear some words that make us feel very painful, and we may even be unable to let go of them for a long time. Some of these words come from our own family and friends, and some come from strangers, but no matter what, they all give us great psychological pressure and harm.

This kind of pain is not easy to disappear, and we need to face and resolve it in our own way. Here are some methods that may be useful:

First, face your emotions. In the face of the hurt and negative emotions caused by the other person's words, we should try to adjust our emotional state. You can relieve your mood swings through meditation, breathing exercises, and other methods to avoid emotional control and lead to inappropriate behavior.

Second, actively seek help. If your emotions are so affected by the ascension that you are unable to adjust yourself, you may consider seeking help from a relative, friend, or professional. Finding professional solutions through confiding, counseling, etc., can help us better cope with and deal with the injuries we have suffered.

Third, change your mind. Sometimes, the reason why it becomes so dark in front of us is actually because of our thoughts and attitudes. Overcoming such difficulties requires us to actively change our thinking and cognition, face problems rationally, control our emotions, and improve our mental resilience and adaptability.

Finally, put it down slowly. Time will dilute everything, and I believe everyone understands this truth. If we can slowly release the pain and pressure in our hearts and find new hobbies and joys of life in the precipitation of time, we will be able to come out of the hurt more quickly.

In short, being hurt by a sentence is indeed an unpleasant experience. However, there are ways we can adjust our emotional state and mindset, resolve negative emotions and hurts, pick up our lives again, and move on.

Hello everyone, welcome to Wen Kui said, I am Wen Kui. In this world, not everyone is kind to us, some people do it intentionally, and some people may do it unintentionally. But no matter what, it is always uncomfortable to face the bad words of others.

Malicious words in the face of others.

Look at your mood. If you are in a bad mood and scold back, if you are in a good mood, you can be civilized and tolerant and appear to be generous.

Dogs are good friends of humans, and even if dogs do something wrong, we humans must forgive them! ~

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In daily life, we often encounter situations where someone hurts themselves with cold words. Such a situation will not only cause harm to oneself, but also have a serious impact on one's life and work. ......Therefore, we need to take steps in our daily lives to properly cope with verbal baoli behavior.

Specifically, these methods include staying calm and avoiding making mistakes on the spur of the moment, rationally analyzing your situation and responding to the other person with appropriate words, and seeking help from your family and friends to solve the problem once and for all.

1. When you are faced with language baoli, you must first stay calm and avoid impulsive mistakes.

When you are in the face of the language baoli, you are easy to make inappropriate words and deeds because of impulse. Such an approach will cause serious harm to oneself and damage one's own interests. ......Therefore, when you face the language baoli, you must keep calm, so as to avoid impulsive mistakes, so as to effectively protect your own interests.

2. You should analyze your own situation rationally and choose appropriate language to respond to the other party.

When someone uses words to hurt themselves, they cannot passively dodge, but respond in a targeted manner, which is the most effective means to protect their own interests. ......Specifically, when responding to the other party's language, you should convince people with reason and respond to the other party with facts. This is a well-reasoned approach and is the most effective way to deal with linguistic baoli.

3. Ask relatives and friends for help to solve the problem once and for all.

Sometimes, when you are faced with language baoli, you can't cope with it alone, so you need to ask your relatives and friends for help, and ask them to help you, so that you can rely on them to give you powerful help, so that you can free yourself from language baoli, so as to effectively protect your own interests.