I took the initiative to break up, but I was uncomfortable and couldn t extricate myself, what happe

Because you think you hurt her, you feel guilty, and then you think maybe you might be better off apart or something.

It will be fine in two days, don't think that you love deeply, you can't help yourself, and how great ...... you areIn fact, it's just a normal phenomenon, it's okay to be uncomfortable, it's strange if it's not uncomfortable, and after a few days, you will find that it's all a trivial matter!

It may be because something makes you think like this, but in fact it hasn't reached the point of breaking up, so you will be entangled, cool down your mood, and think about it for a while.

It's all broken up, and it doesn't matter if it's uncomfortable or not. Time will ** your pain. It's going to get better.

Because you don't want to share. Just angry talk. As a result, the other party did not keep it. That's it. If you could go back in time, would you still say break up?

It's impossible to be emotionless! You are used to many things in you, you have not yet come out of the habit, time is the best medicine!

Do you want to be retained about the breakup?

What a self-deception. Feelings are cherished and maintained by oneself. You can't easily say a breakup. I've done this too, but I've missed the truest love, so I advise you to find it back if you can't let it go.

You can't bear this relationship.

It doesn't matter, just let the time slowly dilute.

Like me, I met a girl with a pure appearance! I don't know what your situation is....Anyway, let's give it a hug first.

Heartache is inevitable after a breakup, after all, I ended a relationship that I once delivered to my heart, and the pain and struggle in my heart can only be understood by myself. The heartache after the breakup shows that you need a period of time to heal yourself, ** the pain in your heart, to face the fact that you have broken up, and slowly adapt to life alone.

At this time, you should face the reality even more, anyway, it will be painful after all, it is just a matter of time, long pain is better than short pain, calm down, clean up the other party's old things, clean up the memories with the other party, and tell yourself that this person can only accompany you to this road, and the rest of the road will depend on yourself. If, after you continue to enlighten yourself and constantly ** yourself, you can calmly face the occasional memories that surface, then it proves that you have gradually come out of the haze of breakup and can start a new life. However, the struggle and suffering of the process need to talk to yourself, reconcile with yourself, and free yourself.

You can try to envision the future and fantasize about the futureThe good lifeThere must be a reason why you break up with the other person, and that reason may be because you feel that you have gradually become irrelevant in the relationship or that you have a strong sense of discomfort, so that you break up. It can be seen that breaking up is not necessarily a bad thing, if the relationship between the two parties has a gap and rift, no matter how forced to be together, it is useless, but in the future life, you can only see each other's shortcomings and have no love. If that's the case, then the breakup seems to come naturally.

And the reason why your heart hurts is because you suddenly left familiar people and things, and you can never find them again, and this frustration and confusion will aggravate your pain. It's not that breaking up is not the right choice, it's good for each other to let go, and each is looking for a new future.

What's more,After a breakup, you must learn to be open-minded, but also learn to be decent, don't deny yourself, and don't say anything about the other partyBad words, leave a love for each other,Regard it as the final mark of this past.

The breakup you proposed, and now the sudden heartache is uncomfortable, which shows that you are reluctant to break up, especially your own emotional investment, so at this time, you should calm yourself down, go to an open place, shout loudly, let your heartache uncomfortable, and completely release.

Now that you've broken up, let's accept it calmly. You can calm your mind, you can meditate, you can meditate. Straighten yourself out.

Or go out for a walk, go out and play, try something you haven't tried before, it's also a great experience, don't close yourself, get in touch with new things, and you will find a better place in the world. Or you really can't accept it, then go back together, think of a way, come on!

I proposed to break up, but now I regret these words and say something to the other party, first of all, let the other party feel the meaning and idea that I regret more, and then see if the other party still wants to be with me, I believe that the other party will still choose to be with you.

Let's go back together, obviously you can't bear this relationship, and you can't give it up yourself, so forget it, get back together and start again.

If you say that you proposed to break up, but now you suddenly feel that your heart hurts, then I think this is actually very normal, and you don't need to do anything yourself. The more you think about it, the more sad you will feel, because at the beginning of the breakup, there will definitely be some painful feelings, you just don't think about it, shift your attention, and then after a long time, you will be relieved.

If the breakup you proposed is suddenly heartbroken and uncomfortable, then you should reflect on why the two of you are together, since you broke up, then there is no need to be uncomfortable.

If you have broken up and now suddenly feel heartache, then I think you should mainly think about the relationship between you, and if you still like her and have feelings for her, you can try to redeem it.

At this time, you must adjust your mentality, talk to your friends about it, and let your friends take you out to play, and you will be able to adjust after a while.

If you didn't think about it when you mentioned breaking up, then if you feel uncomfortable after the breakup, it means that you still have a feeling of liking for the other person, and if you don't want to regret it, start to keep him now.

You are suddenly distressed and uncomfortable now, if you regret it, then you can go and redeem him. After all, you still have room for regret now, don't wait until he forgets you or has a new partner, and then it's too late for you to make amends.

If you feel that your heartache is very uncomfortable, you must communicate with the people around you to share the loneliness and loneliness in your heart, and then keep the other party, I feel very good.

If you mention breaking up yourself, and you feel very heartbroken, then you don't want to break up, breaking up is not a joke, it's not just talking, so when these words come out, you should think it out yourself!

I proposed to break up, and now the heartache is an impulse, and you should sit down with him and talk about it together. You can chase him back.

Well, properly contact your girlfriend and say I regret it, I don't want to miss you, I still want to be with you and we will get back together, and then let's see what the girl thinks.

If you regret it, you can talk to him and see if there is a chance to be together. If that doesn't work, you'll have to enlighten yourself.

Personally, I think that even if your heart hurts, don't look back, go out to travel, change the environment, and tomorrow will be another sunny day.

Because I have given a lot in this relationship. Suddenly, I want to put an end to this relationship. So I was very uncomfortable and reluctant.

During this time, be sure to go out and attend more parties, meet different people of the opposite sex, and then move on to the next relationship.

When it comes to the breakup that I mentioned but it was very uncomfortable, everyone knows that some people ask why I am still uncomfortable when I mention the breakup? In addition, some people want to ask why they still feel very sad when they broke up by themselves? Do you know what's going on?

People are accustomed to him, accustomed to him, accustomed to all his advantages to bring you happiness, but he also has the disadvantages that he can't get used to, but when you want to leave a person who has been with you for a long time, you may have nothing at first, but after a long time, his shortcomings will fade, and the advantages will be deepened, so it is understandable that you are reluctant! It's good after a long time, and you'll forget it slowly! Because your brain needs to store something new!

Because the two people have a certain emotional foundation, although they broke up, they were also very happy when they were together, so they would be very sad when they broke up.

This shows that you still like each other very much, so you have such an idea, and you can't let go of each other.

It's because you put too much effort into the relationship, and you think you're going to go on forever, but there are a lot of misunderstandings in the process of falling in love, which makes you feel very tired.

Because I have paid a lot in this relationship, and I will feel very sorry that I have not been able to continue with the other party.

Feelings are two-sided. It can only be combined if both parties are in love. Nothing to do with constellations.

Feelings also need to be managed. Only when two people have similar views will they go far.

If there is a problem, sit down and communicate sincerely, otherwise the problem will only get bigger. Find the right opportunity, the right place, with a sincere attitude.

Good luck. The first person to propose a breakup is often the one who is most hurt, and his behavior hurts painfully, so he will take the initiative to break up.

This is very easy to understand, after all, together. It will definitely be very uncomfortable after proposing to break up, and it will take a certain amount of time to calm down your mood.

After all, you have been in love for so long, and you are very affectionate, so although it is not suitable to walk together in some aspects, you still have a deep friendship. This causes you to be in a bad mood with each other, very uncomfortable.

If you have given your feelings, of course you will be sad to break up.

It's normal to feel like this, no one can let go of their feelings so much, if there is only that it means that the feelings are not deep, you can find something to divert your attention to distract your mood, such as going on a trip or learning something new, or starting a new relationship, so that you will not be too uncomfortable. Hope mine is helpful to you.

Because you're emotionally invested. It's inevitable to be uncomfortable.

It is impossible for people to go well in this life, and occasionally there will be a small episode, adjust the hardships of life, wave your hand, turn around in a chic way, and look forward, the road ahead is still very long, and there are more wonderful things waiting for you to discover.

The above is why I broke up with myself, and I am still very uncomfortable? The related content is about why I am still uncomfortable about the breakup I mentioned? shared. After reading the breakup that I mentioned but it was very uncomfortable, I hope this will help everyone!

Will the party who offers to break up feel uncomfortable:

People who have really dated and loved seriously will feel uncomfortable! In a relationship, there are many reasons why one party takes the initiative to break up, but for the person you once loved, it is still sad to break up with him. If the two have not been dating for a long time and the relationship is not deep, they may feel very unaccustomed to meeting God after taking the initiative to break up, but they will not feel particularly uncomfortable.

Is the party who takes the initiative to break up not in love:

Taking the initiative to break up does not necessarily mean that you are not in love, but you should analyze it according to the situation. Most people take the initiative to break up because they are not in love, but there are also other reasons why they offer to break up. For example:

When in a relationship, he has been seriously in love, serious in giving, and wants to be with each other all the time. But he can't feel the other party's love for him, and he can't see any hope for the future in the other person, and he will feel insecure in this relationship.

In the end, although he was very reluctant, he would still take the initiative to break up.

In a relationship, he has seriously loved and paid, and he will feel uncomfortable when he takes the initiative to break up.

It's a little uncomfortable to pretend to be.

When I mentioned breaking up, I thought that I was ready for a long pain that was better than a short pain, stop losses in time, sink costs, and be mentally prepared to plant wax imitations. But I didn't expect that it would be so sad and painful after the breakup, and even the time that lasted for so long and so long, I don't know when I could come out and whether I could come out.

In the final analysis, taking the initiative to break up ≠ no love. When it comes to breaking up, what is needed is ruthlessness, and that ruthlessness comes from the disappointment of the lover and the fear of continuing to be together in the future, because the disappointment and fear accumulate to a certain extent, so you can be ruthless to cut off the relationship. After the breakup, the ex no longer has any relationship with himself and must be the most familiar stranger, the disappointment before the breakup and the fear of the future, because the act of breaking up, no longer exists, so what follows is the infinite pain of losing a closest person, as well as infinite doubt and disgust for himself.

I know that it was me who brought up the breakup, and he would not keep it, and I would not look back. Breaking up is indeed the best outcome for each other. It's just trying to get out of the sadness and pain, it's okay to slow down, time will take me out.

Chase more. I walked out. I don't regret breaking up, and I'm glad that my reason defeated emotion at the beginning. I don't know if the speed of coming out is fast or slow, but compared to the self when I was in love, the current self is myself, and only this self is the self I like.

Falling in love and getting married are not necessary for life, happiness and happiness are indispensable. If falling in love and getting married are not rough, and only do not bring happiness and happiness to yourself, or even make yourself unhappy and unhappy, then it is better to return to a person's life. Returning from two people to one person's life, you will definitely be miserable and sad for a while, but during this period of time, you are actually reborn in Nirvana, and after that, will you be happy and happy, I don't know, at least, you will not be painful because of love and marriage.

I wish you, who see this after the breakup, come out early and usher in your new life.