What should I do in the face of the quagmire of marriage?

Every family has something that they can't bear, and they are relieved.

Freezing three feet is not a day's cold Do you think that a man's self-esteem is the most important A man marries a wife and asks for a lady If you know this, why bother in the first place You are used to your wife's flying and domineering momentum You have become accustomed to nature You can't be hard You must overcome rigidity with softness Curve to save the country Your business is doing well It means that you are still a smart person Use the wisdom of doing business to dredge it up Or just change your face and be hard As long as the man has momentum, women are the same as water.

Men should do things like clean. Lisso. Leave early and live your own life! Didn't go back to rewrite yesterday, but tomorrow will be better!

If you don't want to divorce, communicate well with your wife.

I want to get a divorce and I feel that I can't go on. Confess.

Maybe your son is not as ignorant as you imagined, I think it is impossible to get through without a divorce in your situation, you can try to communicate with your son, so that your son understands your hardships, and today's children are generally precocious, so they may not understand what you are saying.

I think that letting a child grow up in such an unhealthy family environment is not good for his future growth, so it is better for you to communicate with your child first.

When the interruption continues, it will suffer from its chaos, and it will leave trouble!

Mentality first, we must adjust our mentality. In such a situation, it is often difficult to have a good state of mind, and there will be tension, sadness, and even pessimism and despair. However, if you want to free yourself from this influence, you have to have a good sense of mindset!

Otherwise, it can only sink, sink, sink. Otherwise, you can only sink, sink and lose, be in a bad mood, have no energy to do anything, and see no hope for anything.

If you go on like this, you can only be depressed. Most of the time we get along with female friends, but no matter men and women, in what kind of social status, occupation, and when we encounter cold violence in the relationship and betrayal by the other half, the pain we feel is the same, which is what we all have, but everyone's pain point is different, and this is where we are different from others. We have to manage our body well, we can't all be for men, we must let ourselves live energetically and energetically every day, although it is very hard to run a family every day as a woman, we must also take time to exercise, so that our bodies become light and tight.

Only if you become better can you have the confidence to get what you want, such as getting your husband's love, regaining his passion for you, and many other unexpected surprises. What we need to do is understand ourselves. Everyone has their own way of knowing themselves.

Some people read books, chat with others, communicate with counselors, take classes, meditate, etc., it doesn't matter how they do, the important thing is to find their own mirror and know who they are. I forced myself to do menial things, begging the other person to reconcile with me, thinking that this would bring me a change.

They still want to do what they want, even holding"You'll make peace on your own, why should I care"ideas. Wake up! Remember to love yourself, be yourself, and care about what others think!

Loving yourself is never a slogan, loving yourself is a space to grow and explore yourself, but in marriage, don't forget the initiative of the self, we will get rid of the emotional influence and emotional blackmail of others on us, become stronger, and be more able to cope with complex marriages through active learning.

You must learn to find yourself to care more about yourself, and you must deepen communication between two people, understand each other's thoughts more, and keep yourself in a good attitude and adjust your state.

I think you have to jump out of this quagmire, you have to be independent, have your own job, have a stable income, and communicate well with each other when you have problems, so that's fine.

Two people should sit down calmly, put the problems encountered by the two people, face them together, and solve them together.

You need to think calmly. Make a decision that no one will regret. Now let's analyze how my husband kept these four methods when he got divorced.

1. Transmit positive energy, mediation and recovery.

No one wants their partner to have negative energy every day. Then we should pass on positive energy to mediate. If one person doesn't even have positive energy, others don't need to be with you.

For a family that is about to divorce, the family atmosphere must be dark and unhappy. Without the laughter that used to be, if you want to save this love, you have to change the atmosphere and make your family happy so that the pressure is not too great.

2. Change your own problems and reduce contradictions.

We need to figure it out first. What do I think are the reasons for divorce? Will it happen to you?

If it happens to you, you should actively change it and correct it to reduce the generation of conflict. Conflicts will be reduced, and broken family relationships will be further improved. If you always think it's another problem, your relationship will never be good because he thinks it's your problem too.

These two should make appropriate compromises.

3. Understand what the other person really thinks.

At this time, you should first understand what he really thinks. If he really wants to break up and divorce, he doesn't love you or something else. If he doesn't love you, Mingxiang you should let go as soon as possible, because a marriage without love is imperfect.

If you don't have love, why waste time in such a marriage? If he has other reasons, you will explain to her that you still love him.

Fourth, give the other party enough trust.

How to reinstate a husband's divorce? You can communicate well with him. You should give him enough trust to convince him that you love him and make him believe that you believe in him, so that your feelings will heat up and the feelings will be stronger.

Trust is the foundation of love. With trust, there will be love.

There is a kind of mistake that cannot be forgiven, which is to know the mistake and still make the mistake. There is a kind of love that cannot be given up. What is knowing that you love it very much, but you still have to worry about it.