I m 10 years younger than my boyfriend, will we be happy when we get married.

Updated on society 2024-04-18
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It depends on the life after marriage

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since the relationship between each other is so good, of course they will be happy!

    Girls naturally like to think more, always worry that their beloved will leave them, worry that they will be unhappy, in fact, everything is man-made, especially the relationship between two people needs to be carefully managed, good management is your success!

    I wish you all happiness

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    See if he has machismo, if not, it's fine, if there is, there may be a problem.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In my opinion. Find someone older than yourself to marry... It will be very happy.

    Because he's bigger. Will take care of people.!I think you'll be happy.

    As far as you said, your relationship is very good. I am sure you will be happy. So don't worry about it!`

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is a sentence, I think everyone has heard, age is not a problem, height is not distance, weight is not pressure, I think this sentence is very accurate, haha, love is like this, nothing can hinder it,

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Although as the saying goes, a man can't be a big man, and a woman can't be a big one, this is because age makes the difference between the psychology of the two people cause a lot of conflicts; But there is also a saying that height is not a distance, and age is not a problem. Good feelings don't care about objectivity.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If it's not a career strongman! The age gap is slowly exposed as the years go by! Think carefully!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Whether he can be happy does not depend on his age, but on his personality, family background, work and career, your interests and preferences, his habits and other aspects!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes, as long as you love each other

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Get married, there are very few good men left.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Of course, this situation is okay, as long as the two of you are more affectionate, discuss everything, and respect each other, of course, you can get married together and live a very happy life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes, age is not an issue, as long as you like each other. But don't say 9 years younger, my boyfriend is 3 years younger than me, I think he is like a little doll, I am more and more like a with him, men are more and more mature than women, not to mention 9 years younger than you, if you decide to be with him, you can only tolerate everything from him, and you have to endure any hardships yourself, if you are angry with him, he will be more hairy than you, you quarrel with him, he will quarrel with you In short, find a man younger than yourself, destined to be a lifetime.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Your boyfriend is nine years younger than you, so of course you can get married. Fang Shu is ten years older than Tu Honggang. I also got married that year.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can marry him age is not a problem, as long as you both have each other, but the boyfriend is nine years younger than you, you must have a kind of pressure to live with a child, because she is younger than you and his mind is immature, sometimes you will live a very tired life, but as long as you feel happy, I wish you well.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    As long as two people truly love each other, they can get married, although age is important, but it is not the most important issue. Age differentiation can lead to a generation gap between you. Pay attention to communication at ordinary times, don't let the age issue become a generation gap between you, in addition, marriage is to live together, living a life of firewood, rice, oil and salt has become an important issue, whether he is to live with you, or just an emotional impulse, this issue must also be clarified.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The marriage difference between men and women is nine years, which is not much, because there are many of them are more than ten years apart, you should have a sense of confidence, he will not change his mind in the future, and when he has a child, your relationship will be stronger, and it is okay to marry him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    As long as the two of you think it's suitable and love each other sincerely, then it's no problem, now there are a lot of sibling loves, age is really not a problem, the key is to see the emotional foundation between you and whether you are suitable for each other.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's better to think carefully, because your boyfriend is much younger than you, he is still immature, he is still indefinite with you, and he has a stable job on his own? Will he be able to support himself? It may be appropriate to be in a relationship with you, but to get married, but to get married, he can't afford the whole family, and it will be constantly changing, in case he has an unstable job in the future, are you willing to support him?

    He is 9 years younger than you, if your relationship is really bad and separated, he is still easy to find a suitable one, you are not easy to find, and he is too young to really afford a family.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    As long as you really love each other, age is not a problem, but there is an important premise, the boy must be mature and responsible, even if he is younger than you, but he can take care of you and support your family after marriage.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Our marriage law stipulates that the legal age of marriage for men is 22 years.

    You obviously can't marry him now.

    You were nine years older than him, and it would take him another six years to reach the legal age of marriage, and you were thirty-one years old.

    Thirty-one years old is a more embarrassing age for a woman to choose a marriage, and she should think twice.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Maybe it's love now, but it's a very real problem after being together. If you decide to be together, you and him will face a lot of unexpected tests, and to be honest, I don't think about it, if you only pursue affection, the purity of love and that spirit.

    Soul stuff, you can accept!

    Emotional matters are ultimately decided by themselves, and everything will become memories. As long as there has been a wonderful.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think as long as the two of you feel particularly suitable, you can definitely marry your boyfriend, although the age gap between the two of you is relatively large, but as long as the relationship between the two of you is very good, it has nothing to do with it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It feels like this relationship is very unreliable, you are already 25 years old, and you are not a child anymore. And the other party is nine years younger than you, which is 16 years old. 16-year-old is still a minor child, there is no need to believe the words of a child.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Personally, I think you should think about it, so you are not an adult with your boyfriend, it feels like a child playing at home. In fact, the age of the two together is not a problem, but it is quite rare for you to do such a thing, you should wait until he can be independent when he is an adult.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    From a legal point of view, marriage and love are free. However, 25-9 = 16, 16 is still a minor, from a legal point of view, you can't get married at the age of sixteen.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It depends on your boyfriend's psychological maturity age. I suggest that you don't marry such a young boy too early, the boy himself matures relatively late, it may be just an impulse, you can try to live together for a period of time, and check whether the two people are suitable in all aspects.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No, the gap is too big for 9 years younger, and a woman's appearance ages faster than a man, it is difficult to guarantee that he will not dislike you in the future, so much younger than you, there is a gap between the thoughts of two people, and many times they can't communicate.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    When he grows up, you can marry him. But not at the moment, because he has not yet reached the legal age of marriage, if he reaches the legal age of marriage, you love each other, and the two of you can get married if you want to, and you can get married.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In your life, others have no right to point fingers, but can only give you some pertinent advice. Learn more about character, some parents' living habits at home, and relatives' living habits. Character determines life.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If a girl is 9 years older than a boy, she has experienced the tempering of society, and her personality and other aspects will be more calm, and at this time, it will be more stable to enter marriage, and it is still okay for men and women to get married at 9 years apart.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you like each other and your family doesn't object, then you can get married, the age difference of nine years is not very big, because the age of men is shorter than that of women, that is, in the end, you may be old to the same degree.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    As long as you love each other, you can get married, but think about his financial situation. Today's society is too realistic. I hope your dream comes true, thank you, and give a good review.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Personally, I think that as long as the two of you feel that it is suitable and truly love each other, age is not a problem, and now in this society, there are quite a lot of sister and brother lovers, and I wish lovers will eventually become married!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you are of normal age, as long as the relationship between the two parties is good, you can get married, but you are only 25 and your boyfriend is 9 years younger, so you are only 16 years old, and you are still underage, and you have not reached the age of marriage.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's not a problem to be a few years older emotionally, but if you think you can, you can marry him, but nine years older is not and is not conceivable, because women age quickly, so you have to think clearly, can you marry her? If the relationship is okay, it is possible to get married.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    1. Physiological ability. He may struggle with this, after all, you are 13 years apart! However, it varies from person to person, and if he exercises regularly, it may be good. No matter what, after marriage, you should take the initiative to supervise and urge him to exercise, so that you don't regret it.

    2. Material conditions. If he is financially strong, then you will not suffer in life; If his material conditions are not very good, then you have to be prepared to endure hardships, start from scratch with him, and work hard. Reminder:

    For a good and happy marriage, the necessary material conditions are indispensable.

    3. Spiritual life. Men can be worldly, but not vulgar. He's older than you, so he probably won't be too naïve.

    But it's hard to say, you need to observe and experience it carefully! The spiritual match between the husband and wife is the real match! When you have time, you have to travel with him and observe his way of doing things, how he speaks, and how he adapts.

    4. Living habits. Older men may have more traditional and conservative habits; And you're younger, probably more outgoing and stylish! Therefore, after marriage, you should take the initiative to cultivate some interests and hobbies for him, so that he can be close to your lifestyle.

    If you don't have common hobbies and interests, you will have a lot less tacit understanding and topics!

    5. Educate children. Older men may not have too good energy, such as sleeping and resting when they get home from work, so the problem of children's education may require you to spend more energy and time. Of course, if he is very considerate of you and takes the initiative to pick up the children to school, then you will be much easier.

    6. Opinions of both parents. Marriage events must refer to the opinions of parents, and marriages that are not blessed by parents are generally not too happy.

    In short, I hope you will consider carefully and make a bold decision!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Your parents' worries are justified, getting along well now does not mean that you will be happy in the future, of course, boyfriends of the same age are the best, the age gap is too large, it will affect the inconsistency of views on things, the possibility of a generation gap is very high, and it will have a great impact on the cultivation of feelings.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Love is sometimes not measured by age! If you love each other so much, why don't you stay together! He is older than you, I believe he should love you very much!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    How old are you? How long have you been together? Emotionally, age is not an issue.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Summary. Pro, happy or unhappy, is not measured by the age of the man, is based on the woman's feelings to position, some women feel that looking for an older man will be happy, some women think that find a few years younger than her little man or peers and feel happy. This is in line with the saying that "only your own feet know whether the shoes fit or not".

    There must be three conditions for a woman to be happy: first, she is happy, she always feels that life is full of vitality and vitality, and there is an infinite force to support herself; The second is to live without worrying about food and clothing, she also has what others have in the material, and she also has what others don't have, and can enjoy the happiness brought to her by the material; The third is to have a warm and happy family, know the cold and know the heat and love her husband, obedient and self-motivated children, etc.

    It has been said that "a woman marries because she doesn't know a man, and divorces because she knows a man too well". Happy women are the same, and unhappy women have their own troubles.

    From these dialectical words, it is not difficult for us to see that the indicators of "happiness" have different standards and requirements in different groups of people. The higher the level of a woman, the higher the requirements for the happiness index, the more transparent the understanding, and the lower the level of the woman, the happiness index will also be reduced.

    Will my boyfriend be happy when he is 10 years older than me.

    Pro, happy or unhappy, is not measured by the age of the man, is based on the woman's feelings to position, some women feel that looking for an older man will be happy, some women think that find a few years younger than her little man or peers and feel happy. This is in line with the saying that "only your own feet know whether the shoes fit or not". There must be three conditions for a woman to be happy:

    First, the spirit is happy, and I always feel that life is full of vitality and vitality, and there is an infinite force to support myself; The second is to live without worrying about food and clothing, she also has what others have in the material, and she also has what others don't have, and can enjoy the happiness brought to her by the material; The third is to have a warm and happy family, know the cold and know the heat and love her husband, obedient and self-motivated children, etc. It has been said that "a woman marries because she doesn't know a man, and divorces because she knows a man too well".

    Happy women are the same, and unhappy women have their own troubles. From these dialectical words, it is not difficult for us to see that the indicators of "happiness" have different standards and requirements in different groups of people. The higher the level of a woman, the higher the requirements for the happiness index, the more transparent the understanding, and the lower the level of the woman, the happiness index will also be reduced.

    But I'm only 15 years old, can we still be together?

    That's too small, I guess it's impossible.

    But we all genuinely like each other.

    This can only be answered by time.

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