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I think it's better for women to find a man who can take care of themselves. It doesn't matter if you're younger than you, but if you're younger than you, it's really hard to be a woman with a small man.
Judging from your example, he is not only younger than you in actual age, but also younger in mental age than you!
First of all, he has no sense of responsibility, so he doesn't have a regular job, and he is embarrassed to spend women when he doesn't have a financial **, and you will worry a lot about it when you get married in the future, and there will be a lot of practical problems.
Secondly, he is not Haihan enough, that is, as you said, he can't tolerate you letting you, and you don't like such a boyish man too, do you? Otherwise you won't feel uncomfortable either. After getting married, you can't take good care of your wife, and you still earn everything with your wife, so you don't call him a man, you call it a boy, you still expect him to get married, and he will get married before he has had enough, and he will live a good life with you?
Third, the attitude towards marriage is very casual, which makes people question. If you have to marry him, you might as well first talk to him about many practical problems after marriage, such as houses, such as property, such as both families, and even children, depending on how he is. If he's still so casual, it only means that he doesn't think deeply about your relationship at all.
In the end, in my contemptible opinion, it is happier to be a woman or a little woman, and it will really be very hard for you to take care of a little man.
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Hey, our situation is similar, my boyfriend is 4 years younger than me, although love is very precious, but you also have to consider the reality of the situation, let's face the reality.
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Actually, as long as he's nice to you, that's fine. Maybe you think he's not a director. But you believe that he will be good to you.
Will and care about you, unless one day he doesn't love you anymore believe that age is not a problem as I have experienced.
He was very nice to me. Although there was no result.
The memories are all good.
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We'll have to wait. When he grows up, or at least financially frees himself from his guardians!
Love has nothing to do with age!
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Do you believe in true love? It's up to you to do this, and you have to find out whether he is sincere to you from many details, and if so, I wish you happiness. Otherwise, the other way around.
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Love is a beautiful thing that makes people feel that everything is predestined by God. Once people fall in love, they will fall deeper and deeper, unable to extricate themselves, and make people lose their minds. Only after the verification of time can we see love and marriage clearly.
I had a boyfriend who was five years younger than me and felt like a little mom.
I'm 28 years old and I've had a failed relationship before, so I cherish it, but sometimes I'm really tired and I feel like I have a son, and I have to think about him and take care of him.
My boyfriend is a hairstylist and is only 23 years old this year. I met him when I was doing my hair. He was tall, thin, and swarthy.
His haircutting skills are pretty good, so I often go to their shop and ask him to help me fix my hair. After a long time, they are cooked. At first, I just treated him as a younger brother.
If he has any difficulties, I will help him. Then they had feelings, and I couldn't believe it myself. So we went out and lived together.
But the trivialities of life really made me feel like I had a son.
One time when I was still at work, he messaged me that he wanted to eat fish and be like a child. I said don't worry, I'll do it for you after work. This time, the unit urgently arranged for me to learn to walk, and the clothes from the washing machine had not yet been taken out.
I reminded him when I was leaving, promising me that I would be fine. When I asked him, he hadn't taken it out yet, and said he had forgotten. A game can be played all day, but it can't be called.
Another time I came home to find that the kitchen pot was burned out and there was black smoke. I lost my temper with him, he was still playing the game and completely deaf to my words.
Once, in order to make me happy, he actually went to buy me a diamond ring in installments.
Although I am very happy in my heart, I also have to think about my family conditions. Not to mention how rich we are, we don't have any savings at the moment, and we don't support such expenses financially, let alone mortgages and car loans. It looks decent, but wait for next month's steamed bun pickles.
Although I love him, I am really tired, and I also feel that sometimes, he can take care of me, care for me, and be down-to-earth. Don't do crazy and irrelevant things to scare me. He is 50 years younger than me, and the sister-in-law relationship is really tiring.
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I will feel very happy, with a boyfriend who is 5 years younger, I can play new tricks every day, and I may make myself much younger, and whoever I am with, I will be affected by whom.
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In this way, you may feel like a mother, mainly because your boyfriend is still very young, and she still needs to take care of each other every day at this time, and the other party will be very naïve and often do things that make people very speechless.
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There may be times in your life when you feel like you're taking care of your son, because the other person's mind may not be as mature as you are and you need to take care of you everywhere. Sometimes I feel very tired.
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It's a very frustrating experience, and sometimes it even feels like raising a son.
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It's a very good feeling, and it's also able to get the other party's favor, and the other party can also treat themselves as children, and it's very happy.
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It's a very refreshing feeling. Because it will make you feel coquettish and pampered from your boyfriend.
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It's not a bad feeling, as long as the boyfriend who is younger than himself is not too childish, he is still very good at taking care of himself.
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There will be a feeling that you have found a son. You have to take care of him all the time. Give yourself a chance to become a mother in advance.
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I must feel very tired, because my boyfriend, who is 5 years younger, is very immature and worries me a lot.
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It is very tiring to take care of him often, to understand him, to take care of his various little tempers.
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will often make herself feel like a sister, often take care of him, care for him.
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