Friends often say that they are a little incomprehensible, how to solve it?

In fact, a real friend is a lifelong confidant, only a true friend is called a friend's friendship, but not all friends are real confidants, friends also have ordinary friends, ordinary friends, sincere friends, the most confidant friends, real friends are to make themselves worthy of cherishing and trusting confidants, but also the most trusted people in their hearts, friends will know how to be grateful and return, righteousness and trustworthiness have a conscience, friends should be mutual giving, not taking, People who can share weal and woe with you, who can take the initiative to stand up for you when you need help in the most difficult times, give you comfort, do things for you, help you, and relieve your troubles. A friend is a mutual considerateness, trust, respect, care, support, help, understanding, tolerance, and mutual willingness to pay for each other, and a loyal guardian for each other. Friend:

It may not be reasonable, but it must be knowing; Not necessarily inseparable, but certainly sympathetic; Not necessarily the icing on the cake, but it must be a blessing in the snow; It doesn't have to be in touch all the time, but it's always in mind. A friend is a friend who reaches out to you on the road of your life, especially when you encounter difficulties; When you are happy, it is your friends who laugh and cry with you; When you are most painful, it is your friend who holds your hand to give you strength, the weight of your friend is not in words, not in material, not in wine and money, but in the care, understanding, help, and support between friends、、、 if you are in a lonely journey, remember what your friend said, you will no longer indulge in it, if you can feel your friend's hand by your side in the painful days, the whole person is suddenly full of strength; If you dial your friend's ** when you are depressed, and when you hear that familiar voice, even if you don't say a word, you feel that the hesitation is no longer shrouded, then this is the weight of a friend. The way each of us treats our friends is how we give to our friends, how to always leave an oasis with our name written in the hearts of friends, how to make friends always feel that there is a light ahead, a signpost to guide them, and a heart to hope, express and cherish in the same way、、、 such friends are real bosom friends.

A person will have a lot of friends, but the real confidant is very few, the confidant is able to meet in the heart, can understand each other, when you are troubled, even if he is troubled, will not tell you, confidant does not have mutual possessiveness, when you are happy, he will also tell you his happiness to share that joy with you, confidant only silently dedicate himself, confidant is each other's heart, confidant is each other's heart, life is enough to have a confidant.

When two people are together, there will be quarrels, don't be too dependent on your personality, if you love that friend. "It's not too much to describe true friends (to describe husband and wife)....Be honest about anything, you don't say he won't know. ...As for the incomprehensible, there will always be incomprehension, after all, it's not you.

When you get along with your friends, if you don't understand because you have done something, and you don't have the opportunity to explain it to your friends for a while. will also choose to give time to let time prove that what they are doing must be right, and getting along with friends is not all smooth sailing, everyone will be prone to quarrels when they get along together. And in the face of quarrels, we must learn to explain the misunderstanding, and don't let the contradiction between the two people become deeper and deeper.

Nowadays, when young people get along with friends, they should realize that it is normal for friends to not be able to understand themselves for a while. Because everyone's thoughts and thoughts are completely different, it is impossible to make friends do things according to their own ideas. Since my friend can't understand me, and I can't explain the misunderstanding to my friend for a while, I can only leave it to time.

When it's time to let your friends know, the misunderstanding will be solved naturally.

Every friend will have some misunderstandings when they get along together, even if they have been together with friends for 10 years, it will make two people misunderstand because of some small things. However, some people will be able to understand each other even if the other person has done something wrong because of the long-term emotional connection between them, because two people have been together for a long time. Let each other have trust, will be willing to trust each other, no matter what to do to support each other without hesitation.

Young people should realize that when they get along with their friends, if they regard each other as close friends, they must be clever and know without saying anything. In this way, the relationship between the two people will become more friendly, if they don't regard their friends as true friends, how can the other party give them wholeheartedly. The giving between friends is mutual, because everyone knows how to take, and no one will be willing to serve each other wholeheartedly.

As long as you treat each other sincerely and tell each other any little secrets, you will definitely get the other party's understanding.

You can calm down for a while, and after your friend's mood is stable, send a WeChat explanation to your friend, or explain it to your friend through the third buried punch, or write a letter about the content that needs to be explained by giving a gift, and give it to your friend with the gift, or you can ask your friends to go out together, and then find an opportunity to clarify the misunderstanding.

You can explain it to your friends after a while, and you should also come up with some valid evidence to convince the other party that the two people will get back together.

Don't say anything, try to stay away from your friends, and when this is over, tell your friends the truth of the matter.

1. Adjust living habits: maintain good living habits, reduce staying up late, and ensure adequate sleep. Appropriate physical exercise can be carried out to release stress, make the mood comfortable, and relieve the depressed emotions caused by excessive mental pressure; 2. Confide:

Such people can also confide in their good friends or relatives, and their depression can be improved to a certain extent; 3. Proper venting: You can vent appropriately without hurting yourself or affecting others, such as singing loudly, or doing what you like, such as reading books, raising flowers, etc., which can also relieve negative emotions such as depression in your heart; 4. Divert attention: You can shift your attention to other things, and actively try new hobbies, such as reading, sports, listening, etc., which can alleviate the depressed and sad feelings of the same thing; 5. Strengthen self-affirmation

Inferiority complex may make people have negative and pessimistic emotions, make people feel depressed and sad when they have the wrong cognition of Kaichong, and they can affirm themselves, enhance their confidence, and face them positively; 6. Other adjustment methods: If the psychological depression is caused by some reasons, such as excessive pressure in life and work, after solving such reasons, the psychological depression can be easily solved.

Medical intervention. 1. Psychology**: For people who are depressed, they can accept psychology**, such as talking to the psychologist Sun Juesheng, or entering Qin's cognitive behavior**, etc., which is of great help to alleviate psychological depression;

It is necessary to look at what is specific and analyze it specifically.

The basis of friendship is understanding, but friends may not always understand each other, and mutual misunderstanding or even misunderstanding is a common thing for friends to get along with. Many middle school students often make good friends become enemies because of a little incomprehension or misunderstanding, and they feel very regretful when they calm down afterwards. So what should you do when you are caught in the conflict that your friends don't understand and you don't want to lose your friends?

First of all, you have to be generous and considerate of your friend's incomprehension of you. Life is complex, everyone's life experience is different, and the background in which they stand is also different, and it is inevitable that the understanding of things is "seen horizontally as a forest side into a peak, and the distance and height are different". No matter how good a friend is, there will be incomprehension, and friends need to be tolerant of each other.

Marx famously said, "Friendship needs loyalty to be sown, heat and respect to irrigate, principles to cultivate, and understanding to care." "In short, you have to be able to pretend that your friends don't understand you. Then maybe it's time for you to introspect.

Since you are a friend, especially a good friend, under normal circumstances, he should be able to understand your correct behavior, if he does not understand at this time, then it happens to indicate that our behavior may be deviated from the right direction. It can be seen that incomprehension is not necessarily a bad thing, it may be like a mirror through which we can examine our behavior. Liang Zhu: Of course, if after the inspection, you feel that you are not at fault, you can continue, and you don't need to give up the right thing in order to gain the understanding of your friends.

In the end, it's useless to just be distressed when a friend doesn't understand. Roman. Roland said well, "If you want to spread sunshine to others, you must first have sunshine yourself."

You have to be optimistic, analyze why your friend misunderstands you, and if his subjective intentions are good, you can take the initiative and sincerely exchange opinions with him. When you are angry that he doesn't understand you, he may also be upset about some of your behavior, so you need to take the initiative to explain it to him. When he finally understands your feelings and no longer misunderstands you, your friendship will be a different story. Support.

If a friend doesn't understand you, do I think your relationship with this friend should be very good? Otherwise, you're doing something that your friends can't understand. That's why you have to communicate well. Reasonable communication. As long as you communicate well, you can understand everything.

You can explain it to your friend and tell him what you really think in your heart, and it is completely understandable if your friend still treats you as a friend.

There must be some misunderstanding between two people, and you must talk openly and honestly to your friends and explain your heart.

Then you have to be brave enough to tell your friends about your heart and your truest feelings, so that your friends can fully understand you.

No matter what you do, between friends, you don't ask friends to understand yourself.,If you deliberately ask your friends to understand yourself.,I think it's a friend who said I can understand you, but in fact, your friend is disgusted with you at this time.。。 But because of my friend's face, I didn't say it, but if there was a misunderstanding between friends. I think as long as you are sincere and sincere in explaining to your friends that it is inconvenient for you to say this matter if it is your own initiative.

At this time, it is up to you to understand your friend's heart, not to ask your friend to understand.

You need to understand yourself, don't expect others to understand or understand you, only you are the most reliable. Don't think about having deep friendships with others everywhere, people's hearts are at a distance. Good fences make good neighbors.