How to survive in love and become a better version of yourself

How, exactly? It's about restraining each other's cold violence. This method is, how did he do it in the first place, you will be cold for as long as he is cold.

He can be cold for three days, and he just has this tolerance. He was able to stay cold for three weeks, and that's how he endured. Sisters should be careful when observing men.

In fact, what he did would have already told you enough information, as long as it was analyzed a little. There is a saying in martial arts that whoever makes the first move exposes his weakness. So hold your breath and wait and see what happens.

You know, it's better not to do it than to do it wrong. LZ's point is that, indeed, sometimes, it takes more courage to do nothing than to do something. But it's good to endure it, think about it, I've endured it for so long anyway, and it's over after a while.

Besides, you can do something else during this time, right? You have a lot of things to do in your life besides men.

2.Some men are just elm heads. You also sent a text message, and you also told him, and you think he ** did not do well.

He said, "Well, I see." But he just won't change, are you angry? Actually, let me tell you, he still doesn't realize his mistake.

But here's one more thing, if you can bear the little things, you can bear it, you really can't bear it. If you can't bear it everywhere, then you still need to cultivate your own temperament, and it has nothing to do with him. If he's all changed, he's perfect, what about you?

You will be in a very unequal state, perfect lover and imperfect you. It's dangerous. So how do you make him realize that this is important to you?!!

Most of the JMS practices are: quarrelling, arguing. If I were to tell you now, don't quarrel.

You'll definitely say, LZ I just can't hold it back! Indeed, it is not you who you are holding back. LZ's point of view is that you must make it clear to him calmly, plus be coquettish.

You won't get the results you want with an arrogant attitude.

Sometimes the girl seems to be at a disadvantage in love. But disadvantage does not mean that your condition is poor, so there is no choice in the relationship. In fact, there are many girls on Douban who are obviously excellent in their own conditions, but they are tortured by emotions all day long.

The disadvantage is that the relationship does not develop in the direction you want it to be and is under the control of the other person. Or you clearly feel that you love more, but you can't take back that extra love. Secondly, generally men after work are serious about feelings.

It's not that boys in their school days don't take their feelings seriously, but there are really too many variables in the future. The right time, the right place, and the right people, all of which add up to very important. It's not that deep love is the most important, it's just wishful thinking on the part of girls.

At the end of the day, love is a feeling. There are so many things that can kill that feeling. But in the end, whether you will be together or not will enter the marriage hall still depends on whether you are suitable for the two of you.

Of course, the premise is that you don't talk about it. What man is irrational? So when he calms down and thinks about it, he knows what is best for him.

As mentioned earlier, love is like a blood supply system, so what about its pump? The pump is right in your heart, and it's called Courage. The song sings very well: "Love really needs courage to face gossip."

Why is the man who used to be honest with each other now distracted? Why is he reluctant to tell me so many things? You should pay attention, this is the point.

Any text message is just a superficial phenomenon, and not being honest enough is the most fatal thing - it is simply a breeding ground for juniors.

If everyone treats each other 100% sincerely (this is rare, those who claim to be sincere may not be, sometimes they talk to deceive themselves), then they don't play tricks with pants.

The problem is that if the other party is scheming, you have to have a way to deal with it.

1. If you are determined to win the other party, then you must first understand yourself: "Am I strong enough?" "If your strength is not enough, the other party will also treat you as a tasteless chicken rib, and giving up is a wise choice.

2. If you have the strength and the other party is scheming with you, you only need one trick to deal with it. Appropriate tomato quietly distanced itself. Every day sticks together, the relationship cools down - then you leave for two days, and on the third day you will recover like glue.

There is a point of view that distance produces beauty, don't make yourself too transparent.