What do I like to do? At the age of 31, I am in a state of confusion?????

Seeing your state, the first thing to show is understanding, and the year of establishment has not stabilized, and it is indeed very anxious. But I'm sure you're not a waste.

1. The biggest reason for your current state may be that you are not confident, to be honest, you have suffered so many setbacks and blows, you have borne the burden that ordinary people cannot bear, and you have formed self-blame and depression for yourself in your heart, you can't speak, you can't find a way out, you often think about these, whenever you are engaged in a job, you think too much in your heart, and you can't calm down, which is the root of all your current problems.

2. There are many ways to solve the problem!

1) First of all, establish self-confidence, according to your heart, your ability is at least ten times higher than your predecessors, just do your best, don't care what others say, don't consider what others say, don't think about what others say, what others say is a fart, he doesn't live with you for a lifetime, and he won't sympathize with you.

2) Find some reasons from yourself and persevere in everything. Persist in everything you do, insist on doing something meaningful, insist on getting rid of your bad habits, and make up your mind not to play games of those ethereal things, people live for a lifetime, but for decades, the key is to make up your mind and change your mind, from the experience you recounted, you have felt depressed, which shows that your heart still yearns for a better life, brother, you can make up your mind.

3) Find the right direction, it can be said that your experience is still rich, the key is that your inner thoughts have affected your development, maybe you don't like the career you are engaged in, you can clearly tell you, as long as you choose what you like, put it into your passion, you will succeed, a simple example, a postman in a remote border area, over the mountains and mountains to deliver mail to others, a delivery is decades, people do not want money, because he loves this job, and brings convenience to others. For you, do something meaningful, and you will definitely succeed.

4) Money is not the most important thing, just enough food and clothing, it doesn't matter if your English score is good or bad, because the exam is just a way to urge learning, and the standard for measuring success is not more money, less money, more learning and less, the key is how much you give, how much you give, and how much joy and happiness you bring to others.

5) I hope you can come out of your life and find your own goals in the new world, then you can find a career that is respected by everyone, and persevere to the end, such as volunteering, such as environmental protection, even if you go to plant trees, enjoy nature, and contribute to the improvement of the human environment, why not, the key is to persevere, persevere, you are the winner!

In fact, everybody who doesn't succeed is wondering why they're alive and what they're for, and you just haven't found it, and there's always a reason to live, and whether it's a waste or not, depends on what you think of it, and it doesn't matter what other people think.

Sometimes I think the same way, although I am not as old as you, but I am also a Ben San person.

Find a job that suits you and do it well! Character is not a problem! Believe in yourself!

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You can't blindly deny Sun Xiang, he poked in Europe for a season, and there must be an adaptation process when he comes back to practice, don't be too demanding Of course

His performance really made me want to scold the street ......

The idea is very good, but my point of view is: no matter what you want to do, you must achieve it on a certain economic basis, people live in a social group, it is impossible to live alone from society, and in the absence of a certain economic foundation support, doing what you want to do can only be empty talk in my opinion.

Come on, if you choose, you will work hard to do it, after 80, you are still young, as long as the goal is clear, it is never too late, the most important thing is perseverance, perseverance will always pay off, come on!

As long as you want to do it, it's never too late, but if you don't work hard, don't do anything, be a man with perseverance, otherwise you can't do anything well.

It's not too late, whether you're successful or not, set yourself a goal.

Only unremitting efforts can be exchanged for happiness in the future.

If you want to do it, it's not small, and you still have a career.

Accumulate contacts and make good money

The best time to plant a tree was ten years ago, followed by now. If you think the last sentence is too pale, then I tell you, you are not alone, there are thousands of existences like you. In the same ten years, nothing has been accomplished, but different people have different attitudes.

But among the many states, the saddest one is called giving up.

It's not too late, and if you don't want to be like this at the age of 41, then work hard from this moment!!

I'm like you, my youth has passed, and now I can only force myself, otherwise when I am 41, you will feel even more. If you are still useless at 41, then you will be useless for the rest of your life. Struggle, boy.

Send a word, grasp the moment, and start now.

I want to ask you, when you're 21 years old, what are you going to do with this decade?

Yes! Find yourself now! It's not too late.

It's just a matter of starting to change. Nothing.

Have you encountered anything special lately?

Could it have something to do with the hot weather?

Do you usually sleep***?

Suggestion: Have a regular schedule, wake up early and go to bed early.

Escape the heat appropriately, drink some weak tea, mung bean water during the day, and eat some watermelon, cucumber and other heat-relieving foods.

If the condition is severe, it is recommended to seek medical attention, check-up, and adjustment.

You're only halfway through life, you have family, friends, and health these are the meaning of your existence. You can also live a very chic life alone, and you can occasionally go to other places to experience it.

I feel like your mindset has matured.

Self-reflection is a harbinger of a good beginning.

Personally, I think the hair is good.

And you like it too.

We are very sympathetic to your situation.

Would you like to hear a story about you first?

In ancient times, there was a person named Jiang Taigong, he couldn't do anything, his family hated him, and he was kicked out of the house without food.

Later, Jiang Taigong finally found a suitable job and told fortunes. So he studied hard and practiced his skills to the best.

Until one day, the day of Jiang Taigong's emergence came, and the emperor needed a national teacher who predicted the future, so he made a special trip to invite Jiang Taigong out of the mountain.

The story is over. You might as well try to learn from Jiang Taigong, study hard and master a technology, and in a few years, you will not be the person you are today.

Trust you! It works!