After a breakup, what little things do you can t let go?

Two months ago, I ended a year-long relationship, and the reasons for the breakup were so common that they seemed unconventional: long-distance relationship, college was not in the same place, and he fell in love with his classmates.

We have known each other since high school, a tall and thin boy who likes to wear white shirts, spotless white shirts, and it can be seen that he is a boy who loves cleanliness. He sat at the back table of me, and we used to be noisy. He sat in a place not far from me, and after a long time, we gradually felt that we liked him, but we didn't show any intentions, and I didn't know how he felt about me, which was the premise.

After graduation, the class organized a graduation dinner, which I guess was the last time we saw each other at that stage, and I dressed up for it.

The location was in the small restaurant we often go to next to the school, and when I arrived, the students had already begun to shout and order, and the small restaurant suddenly became lively, even full of people. But he sat quietly in the corner, looking melancholy and deep and quiet. The table was round, and I sat in the middle of the girls, five or six people away from him.

During the banquet, there were various sighs, time flies, time flies, and the friendship between classmates is as deep as the sea. I glanced at him, he was very quiet, and when others were laughing, he only raised the corners of his mouth 30 degrees, how did he suddenly become a quiet and beautiful man?

It was inevitable that I would drink during the banquet, and I was picked up by my drunk father, and of course I was very drunk. Then he drank and vomited, and spit on the ground gorgeously, not to mention how embarrassing it was. I struggled to my feet, thinking about the bathroom and continuing to throw up.

As soon as I stood up, I noticed that my legs were weak, but I was standing upright, and he came to support me. He helped me to the bathroom and patted me on the back to make me throw up. If it was usual, I thought I would be crazy, he actually came to take care of me behind the plane, but I vomited so much that I couldn't care about anything else.

I feel like I'm supposed to finish throwing up and want to get out. As soon as he stood up, he vomited gorgeously again, but this time he vomited on his body, on his spotless white shirt. I was stunned, thinking that I must be finished, he must be rolling his eyes to kill me, he loves cleanliness so much!

I looked at his face with wide eyes, "It's okay, I'll just go back and wash up, are you still uncomfortable, do you still want to throw up?" He asked me gently. Oh my God, he was so bomby at that time!

You know, if you spit on me, I'd have killed you a long time ago, but forget it today." Then he helped me back. That was the first time I felt that he was still nice to me, and then he confessed a few days later.

This is a very small thing, but it is really unforgettable, he was so good at that time, and he was completely like two people later.

My first love and I were in love for two years and we broke up. During the breakup, I was very sad, reminiscing about the bits and pieces we were together, and there were many things that I couldn't let go.

First of all, I can't let go of those beautiful memories. We fell in love when we were in high school, and at that time we were very simple with each other, and we felt that as long as we were together, we felt that each other was my whole world, and we would feel very happy.

However, such an idea is naïve. After graduating from high school, we were admitted to different universities and were divided into different cities, and in this way, we chose to break up, although it was a peaceful breakup, but I was still very sad, very reluctant, and unwilling to be separated like that.

I cried very sadly that day of breakup, and my boyfriend kept comforting me, because the distance was too far, it was very difficult to hold on to that relationship, and the breakup was good for each other, it was a relief.

Secondly, we had an agreement, it was supposed to be good, to choose the same city, to go to the same school, but it backfired, my grades were not ideal, under the arrangement of my parents, I chose another city school, the agreement between us was broken, once we studied together, worked together, fought together for a common goal, but in the end they parted ways and ended with leaving. For this, I can't let go.

Finally, when I knew that the other person had started a new relationship, I couldn't let go. When we were together, I thought he was the best, and I wanted to be with him no matter what, but our relationship was still lost to distance.

After the breakup, we didn't delete each other, and although we didn't keep in touch often, we both paid attention to each other's dynamics. One day, I found a girl's ** in his circle of friends, I saw that the comments given to him by others were all good wishes, and I knew that he had started a new relationship again, and I didn't ask him or interfere with him. Now that we've broken up, I want him to be happy.

However, when I saw his ** with that girl, I couldn't let go of it, I felt that he had forgotten me too completely. Maybe I still have a glimmer of hope in my heart that he will wait for me, no matter how long it takes. However, this is not the case, he met the girl he liked again, he was in love, I should bless him, I can't think about it anymore.

Life after a breakup is very difficult, in the face of a sincere relationship, just give up, it is inevitable that there will be a lot of things that cannot be let go, but I believe that I can forget, and I can slowly let go of the things in that relationship.

The two love each other, and the two love refutes it is just a matter of one sentence, let's break up.

The water that was spilled and the love that was paid could not be recovered. There is experience to grow, and behind every relationship there is growth and great knots.

I thought I was important to you, but I really just thought I was. You've taught me a lesson, people really don't take themselves very seriously.

I keep telling you to listen to the command and follow me to be a new good boyfriend, you are really amazing, and you only did the last thing. It's true that I mentioned the breakup, but you're really so obedient, you don't even want to work hard and let go.

Is your brain circuit different from the average person or am I too much of a failure? I've always wondered if you've been planning to wait for me to say the word breakup, and you've accepted it so calmly.

I don't want to meet people like torn pants and legs, but you are such a cold person who is also drunk, and there is no sadness at all, are you sure you have a heart?

I kept thinking that you still said you liked me the day I left the city, but you didn't keep me at all, you calmly sent me to the station, and then disappeared.

It's really gone, I don't know what I'm thinking now, but you're so calm, I'm not happy.

I'm the only one in the heartache, forget it.

After the breakup, I felt that the most unrelieved thing was that I began to like to eat noodles because of him, and every time I ate noodles, I would inevitably remember that because of him, I changed my preferences.

It's actually very normal to feel like you can't let go of it after a breakup. Because everyone will get used to a person and will also have a dependency complex on a person. The second is that many people are difficult to let go because they have been hurt by the other party, so they still hate each other.

In addition, I love each other very much in my heart and can't let go of each other, which is forced to break up, and it will be difficult to let go. <>

First of all, I think people get used to one thing or one person. Once two extremely close people suddenly separated, they will definitely feel unaccustomed, and they can't let go of it in their hearts. Even if a pet around us suddenly leaves us, we will be very worried in our hearts.

Then what's more, it's a big living person, a person who was once extremely close to you, suddenly separated from you, no longer intimate, and turned to be with someone else. Most people can't let go of their hearts, and they can't let go because of habit, which I think is normal.

Secondly, many people have difficulty letting go because the other party has hurt themselves. There are actually many kinds of breakups, some people just have fun, and they break up and break up. Because if you don't give sincerely, you can't talk about hurting, and you can't talk about letting go, you haven't picked it up at all.

However, some people really can't afford to let go, because he gave his heart in this relationship and was hurt by the other party. Then it is very normal to have a hard time letting go of it in this situation. <>

In addition, it is difficult to let go of the breakup because I still love each other. This is a deeper level than the habits mentioned earlier. Not only because they are used to each other, but also because they love each other, they don't take the initiative to break up with each other, they may be forced to break up or because of some external factors.

It is precisely because I love each other very much in my heart that I can't let go of each other.

After a breakup, you will also feel difficult to let go, because every relationship is seriously giving, and you will get used to the existence of the other party after a long time. However, the past is over, and I hope you can get out of the past and welcome the future!

I can't let go, I think there are a lot of people who don't agree with me, and if I am the one who was broken up, it is understandable that I can't feel relieved after a breakup. But if I were the one who offered to break up, people might not understand why I couldn't feel relieved. Because we have been together no matter what, the feelings we have paid when we were together are real, and I don't want to see them break up.

Whether he proposed to break up or I proposed to break up, it was because there was no way for this relationship to go on so it came to this point, and I didn't want to see a good relationship come to this point, so it was normal for me to have no way to let go of it at first. Next, I will talk about how you can quickly get out of this failed relationship. The best way to get yourself out of a relationship quickly is to keep yourself busy, and of course that's just my personal opinion.

Because in my opinion, I only think cranky when I'm very free, and it's more difficult to let go whenever I think about all the good things I've experienced before, so I don't have so much time to let myself think cranky when I'm busy, and I slowly let go after a long time.

I won't feel like I can't let go of it after a breakup; Because I think the reason why two people break up is because the two people's personalities are not suitable, and they are more open-minded, so there is no need to keep nostalgic for the past, but to look forward.

No, because this relationship is over, for better or worse, it will be over, and a new life will begin.

No, it won't. Because most of the breakups were proposed by me, my requirements for relationships are relatively high, so I will not regret it.

I don't feel that way. Because I feel that since the other party is sorry for me, there is no need for me to miss this relationship, let alone miss each other.

When I broke up with my boyfriend at the beginning, I really felt very sad, and even after half a year, I couldn't let go. Because during the period of our breakup, I always thought about what I did wrong to break up with him, I always thought about the good things between the two of us together, always remembered my past, and never took a step forward.

In the days since the breakup, I have indeed been obsessed with my own world and have not been able to get out of it. But one day when I went shopping with my good friend, I saw my ex-boyfriend holding a girl's hand and smiling at the girl with his head sideways, the sun just happened to cast on him, and I saw a gentle temperament from him. In my impression, my ex-boyfriend is actually gentle and unreasonable, because he has always been more irritable when he gets along with me, and sometimes he will be very willful and unreasonable, and he almost never treats me gentlely.

So when I saw that picture, I couldn't fool myself anymore. My boyfriend may not be happy when he's with me, maybe he's only with me because of my stalking, so he doesn't show me such a tender side of him. But now that I see him gently stroking his girlfriend's hair, I suddenly understand that I have failed in this relationship.

But suddenly relieved, seeing him like this, he also found the person he really liked, so he became so gentle. Then I shouldn't always dwell on the past, no matter how much I like my ex-boyfriend, but things always have to pass, and tomorrow always has to come

It was because I saw him walking with his girlfriend that I was able to truly let go of this relationship. There are still many beautiful things in this world, and there are better people waiting for me in the future, so I should learn to let go.

Don't bother my life anymore, this is the best love you have for me, this is the last word that the person I once loved said to me.

When the love between two people is dead, and the relationship has come to an end, there are always some people in life who can't let go. I was the one who couldn't let go, trying to redeem all this, but the sentence "Don't bother, it's the best love" made me feel a little lost in my heart.

After the breakup, the two people have completely different life paths. I used to think that even if two people broke up and merged together, it would take time to separate. But it turns out that from the moment the two broke up, the future path was completely different.

When I still contacted each other after the breakup, and still tried to save the relationship, I didn't know what I did right or wrong, I only knew that there were many unwilling existences in my heart.

But when the other party didn't pick up my ** again and again, my heart that wanted to be redeemed was slowly fading, and I knew that he was really hurt.

Not bothering is the best love, and one sentence makes my heart begin to relax. After hearing this, I began to ask myself from the inside: Do I want to die for myself or do I want him to come back to me?

I didn't find an answer, but since he didn't want me to bother so much, I shouldn't bother anymore. Maybe this is the last thing I can do for him, after all, from now on, the two of them will go their separate ways, each looking for their own happiness.

In fact, the letting go of a relationship really never happens suddenly. It's just a heart that is slowly getting cooler, and we all realize that the past is really the past.

Perhaps time is the best medicine, which can make people forget all the sadness and beauty of the past.