How can you change a boy who can t talk to a topic?

I used to be boring and didn't like to talk, and everyone said that I was an introverted child. Now I have changed a lot, and at work and in life, no one says that I am introverted and much more lively. In this process, I didn't deliberately look for ways to change myself like you, everything was unconscious, for a while, I suddenly wanted to communicate with people, just like that, it was easy to do whatever you wanted, and gradually, I had more words.

I think now that you have the desire to communicate with others, soon, you will change yourself. A few suggestions for you: First, when you are with friends and classmates, you can say whatever you want, don't be afraid to say it because you say the wrong thing, everyone is a very familiar person, as long as you don't say it too much, you won't blame you, you have to say it boldly, no matter what it is.

Second, look for the topics that interest you the most, find like-minded people with you, and you will have a lot of things to talk about together. For example, if you like to listen to songs, then you can talk to others more about which singers have new ** or something, everyone is interested in this, and there will naturally be more words. Third, build self-confidence.

People who don't talk much often lack self-confidence, and you can work hard in a certain way to get everyone's recognition, such as excellent academic performance, or which sport is particularly good at, or outstanding cultural performances, etc. When you are "authoritative" in a certain area, and your self-confidence comes, then I don't think you want to be so silent now. Fourth, the last point I want to say is that as a man, don't talk in ink, you can talk a lot, but don't say it over and over again, it's unacceptable.

I say to many people, to establish your own goal, to move towards which goal, that is, to find something to do in your life, then the level of your whole person will come up. I wish you success in advance!

Hello friend, boys often take the initiative to chat with you, but they don't look for topics, you are asking, he is answering, in fact, this boy likes you and wants to chat with you, but he doesn't know what it means to chat, and the other party has you in his heart.

That is to say, this boy is more wooden, and his personality should be a more introverted person, that is, the kind of person who can't speak, in the case that the other party doesn't know how to communicate with you, you can take the initiative to find a topic, and falling in love requires a process of understanding each other, and you need to run in with each other, understand each other's personality and temper, so that love can get better and better.

How two people find a topic, you can take a look at the following words, I hope it can give you a little inspiration, two people talk about common hobbies, things that they like each other.

If both of you are skateboarders, then you can usually skateboard together and exchange experiences and ideas.

If both of you like to sing, then you can go to KTV to sing together. If a boy can play the guitar, a boy can also play the guitar and a girl can sing, and the two of them can cooperate with each other to enhance the tacit understanding.

Two people can describe how they were inspired by the same book or similar books, and communicate with each other.

This can inspire each other to think about something, and in the same way, it can also avoid unnecessary embarrassment, so as to arouse the common topic of the two people to arouse the interest of the chat.

If you have a common topic, you don't need to deliberately look for it, two people who like each other will definitely have the same hobbies. As long as you look carefully, then you will definitely find the topic!

Finally, I wish you all happiness and love to the end.

The guy takes the initiative to chat to show that he is interested in you. But he didn't find a topic because he didn't want to find it, but he didn't have a topic. If you're interested in him, you can take the initiative to find a topic.

Maybe he's not good at finding topics in the first place, and just wants to chat.

Judging from the above description, I personally think that this Ming Tangerine boy is not very good at chatting, so don't make any noise Huaiqing knows which topics you pay attention to, of course, you don't look for topics.

In life, you can often see such a boy, especially introverted, and do not like to talk, so you must correct your own shortcomings, and also go out to eat or communicate with your friends more, which can help you open your heart and be of great help to your future life. <>

1. Invite friends to dinner and chat

There are actually many introverted boys, and the reason why they do this is just to close their hearts, but if they close their hearts for a long time, then in the future love or marriage, there will be a lot of problems, and it will also increase the probability of quarrels, so you must communicate and communicate more with your friends, and try to go to some places. Secondly, you can ask friends to go out to eat together, or chat about the current situation, in the process of chatting, the whole person is very relaxed, so unconsciously will talk more and more, and you can also ask your friends to go to KTV or go to dinner, etc., in these relatively closed places, you can vent to friends. <>

2. Exercise

In addition, you can also go to sports, exercise can throw out all the impurities in your heart, and you can also make friends with many senior sports people when you are exercising, so that after getting acquainted, you will go out for a run together at a regular time, or play badminton, so this will help introverted boys open their hearts and become more extroverted. In addition, you can also confide in your own family, I believe that parents are happy to see their children dependent on themselves, so parents will also come up with some ways for boys to change. <>

III. Conclusion

Finally, we must recognize our own problems, but also according to our own problems to change, so such talents are very comprehensive and excellent, in addition to there is no shortage of friends, but also in the future life to make more friends, so introversion is not a disease, dare to understand yourself correctly, and make changes is very good.

First of all, you should have an hour of reading time every day, which can improve your logical thinking, in fact, you can watch more humorous **, and you can tell some bad jokes when you are in contact with other people, which can enhance your social skills.

You can go to some extracurricular activities, you can also sign up for an interest class, you can also participate in some class reunions, you can also go to travel, or you can go to a haunted house to exercise your courage.

You can communicate more with others, participate in more social activities, and gather more with your friends, so that you can change yourself.

The reason why people like to chat without a topic is that they are facing the person they like and then their brains are blank, and they don't know what to talk about or what topics to talk about with each other, so that they can arouse the other party's attention to themselves.

Because I like it, I have scruples about saying the wrong thing, and in the face of the person I like, boys should take the initiative to find topics, understand the preferences of girls, and prescribe the right medicine.

As long as this boy chats with you every day, it means that this boy still feels this way about you.

Although it is said that this boy doesn't know what kind of topic to talk about when he chats with you, it is relatively normal, because the two people who just met just don't know what kind of topic to talk about, because they haven't been in contact before, so it must be very strange at this time.

As long as the two of you are chatting together, or the relationship between the two of you is slowly getting acquainted, I think that the stool will not be so awkward when chatting in the future, and will slowly talk about the topic of mutual interest.

So you still don't have to be too anxious, you should still chat with this boy slowly, don't question this boy for destroying you has no feelings, I think that when the boy has no feelings for you, he will definitely not take the initiative to chat with you.

You just can talk, talk more, make him feel relaxed, so that he will also speak slowly, and your relationship will be brought closer.

I think we should care more about each other and talk more about things that they are interested in, so that we don't feel embarrassed.

I suggest that boys learn how to talk to girls. As long as you master the basic chat topics, you won't be afraid of running out of words.

You should communicate correctly with the boy, tell the boy what you think, and coordinate with the boy when he is calm, and you will get a good result.

You can provoke some topics that the other party is interested in, so that you will not be cold.