My girlfriend is spoiled, what should I do? How can a spoiled woman be remedied?

Divide it, since she is no longer as attractive to you as you used to be, and you are no longer willing to love her as much as you used to.

Educate her well...Hmph.!Women...If you don't educate, you're cheapPack her up. Conquer him.

Alas, brother. I don't know much about this either.

But I still know a little bit about women, because I am!!

You have a good talk with him, find a good opportunity to tell her about your troubles, and I believe she will understand you.

Good luck ha.

You must communicate, but pay attention to the way to avoid self-defeating

Nietzsche said, is it to go to the woman? Please bring your whip.

Find out what's wrong with you. Once one person's impression of another person is determined, it is difficult to change.

Tired, sleepy, drinking Red Bull, I slept.

Come back tomorrow.

Don't scold me, you're the last post I watched offline, and you're still very face-saving, hehe.

Summary. Hello, dear, it's normal for a boyfriend to spoil a girlfriend, but you must not be too spoiled, let alone spoiled. It's not a question of how you don't want to be so nice to her, it's a question of where you stand, to her"Okay"The position does not mean that you have no dignity, it does not mean that you have no personality, nor does it mean that you have no feelings and no self-needs, you must learn to grasp the position, you must also learn to have your own position, be respected and valued.

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Hello, dear, it's normal for a boyfriend to spoil a girlfriend, but you must not be too spoiled, let alone spoiled. It's not a question of how you don't want to be so nice to her, it's a question of where you stand, to her"Okay"The position does not mean that you have no dignity, it does not mean that you have no personality, nor does it mean that you have no feelings and no self-needs, you must learn to grasp the position, you must also learn to have your own position, be respected and valued.

Every woman will always have a little girl living in her heart, and she hopes that her other half can pamper herself, this need is human nature, even if she is an independent woman, she also has this need in her heart. It is said that women are made of water, and the "softness" in a woman's heart is innate, and a man treats a woman gently, so that the two hearts will blend for a long time. Otherwise, if a man is a stone, it will inevitably stir up contradictions if thrown into the water, and it will never be able to dissolve.

However, there is a degree to everything, and the same is true of a man's favor for a woman. You can pamper, but don't spoil it, otherwise you will spoil your love and eventually break up, and it will be difficult to get it back.

The starting point of pampering is love, and love is divided into two kinds: one is explicit and the other is implicit. The so-called explicit love is the kind of very intuitive love that we usually give, which can be seen and felt, and is good to a person from the heart.

Implicit love, on the other hand, is not intuitive enough. To give a simple example, parents love their children, usually one sings red face and the other sings black face, which actually means: one gives explicit love, and the other gives implicit love.

Only when these two kinds of love are combined, it is true love, because you not only have to love her, but also help her grow and improve, love when you should love, and criticize and guide when you should criticize and point, so that not only do you love very principledly, but also really be good to her. If you really love someone, since you want to spoil her as a child, you have to be fully responsible for her, a single person with a red face and a black face.

The starting point of spoiling is also love, but only one of them has been achieved, that is, only explicit love. In this way, although your starting point is good intentions, but you don't remind and point out the problems that exist in the other party, and you don't pay for the hidden love, it is not real love, or not complete love, so that after a long time, it is easy to spoil the other party. Once you spoil the other person, she will be more and more demanding, and you will do more and more, but in the end there will always be a gap, and you will gradually not be able to meet her requirements, and then she will be disappointed in you, saying that you don't love her anymore, and then she will break up with you.

Many people's love is ruined by spoiling, it is they who spoil their love, which is an act of self-destruction of love. I hope everyone pays more attention, just because you haven't experienced it doesn't mean that this kind of thing won't happen to you.

If you love someone, you should indeed spoil her like a child, but you must grasp the proportion of pampering, no more, no less, just right, is the best state.