What should I do if I see my boyfriend s mother feeling inferior and ashamed?

Girl, this question is how much you are afraid of! No matter how good-looking your boyfriend's mom is, what does it matter with the two of you? This only proves that his father is very discerning, and the genes inherited by your boyfriend in terms of appearance will be better!

As for the two of you, your boyfriend likes you, not his mother, in fact, you should understand this truth: no matter how beautiful a person is, he will have aesthetic fatigue after watching it for a long time, and he should not feel anything after looking at his mother for so many years! Besides, you are still so young, and his mother is not of the same age, so such a comparison is not objective at all, so you don't have to think about your appearance at all, everyone's aesthetics are different, maybe your boyfriend thinks you are good-looking!

Besides, finding a partner is not only based on looks, but more importantly, whether the personality and personality are compatible, this is the most important thing! So you don't have to feel inferior at all, think about it from another angle, since your boyfriend's mother is so beautiful, but he still likes you, this proves that you must be very good, at least you have a lot of things in you that attract your boyfriend, you should feel very happy and proud, right! So be confident, you know, confident young women are the most attractive!

As long as he likes it, you're OK, his mother can't marry her son even if she is a fairy She has already been game over that round, so don't worry ha!

Maybe he likes something else about you.

You can read TV, you're not as good as your mother.

It's a question on your mind.

In fact, if that man really loves you, he won't care at all, but will be better for you...

Silly boy, what does this have to do with finding a boyfriend??? If your boyfriend doesn't have a relationship with you because your mother is stupid, then don't want such a boy, boyfriend wants to be nice to you, happy and happy with you, and the boy who really loves you won't care about that! Be confident!

In fact, you don't have to feel inferior, two people live together, it's good to be down-to-earth, you don't have to care about how he used to be, even if it's good, it's still the same as before, since he is willing to live a good life with you now, then you naturally have your own advantages, if you like him, then just be with him wholeheartedly, be good to him, if you really don't have any advantages, it's not good at all, believe what you said, people like him won't care about you, right.

No matter how good it is, at least it's yours now.

One is that you exaggerate the happiness of other people, in fact, they may not be, maybe others see you and think the same way, there is no need at all, remember that love is a matter of two people, and it has nothing to do with unrelated people.

The second is that habits make you feel aesthetically fatigued and ignore your boyfriend's brilliance, which is the most common in marriage, but it cannot be ruled out that he does not have merits worthy of your appreciation, if so, it is better to separate early to avoid delaying yourself and others.

In fact, the key lies in yourself To accept yourself Cultivate self-confidence Don't be arrogant I am born to be useful Inferiority doesn't help Why bother How good it is to be positive.

Fantasy law, treat him as the most handsome.

Hypnosis, this goes to someone who understands.

Rational law, leave him.

Reasonable law, tell him to go for plastic surgery.

Changing boyfriends is such a simple thing!!

Sometimes it's because you didn't really fall in love with him. It may just be a habit, but it doesn't rule out other possibilities.

The only reason is that you don't really love him yet.

As if this is not a subjective aspect, if you are sure that your boyfriend is in a relationship with you, and then find out the following reasons, find out why, how can his mother oppose you? Normally, it's too late for a mother's son to be happy when he finds a girlfriend, but how can he be so opposed to a future daughter-in-law? Talk to your boyfriend about finding out the cause and then prescribing the right medicine.

The main point of view in this aspect of marriage is still yourself, don't retreat when you encounter difficulties, your boyfriend is caught in the middle of you to see how he resolves, life is not just love, there is no happy and harmonious family, no matter how good love is, it will be broken by life in disguise, happiness is your own, so no one will bear the sadness for you.

It depends on whether the matter is separated or combined, calm down and think about it clearly. If you love someone, you have to take your time, and you have to leave someone quickly, so that you can cut through the mess with a quick knife.

First of all, why is his mother against you being together? What caused her to be so unreasonable? If you don't figure this out, your question will always be a dead end, you can ask your boyfriend this question.

If it's an irreconcilable reason that causes his mother to be dissatisfied with you, then it's better to withdraw as soon as possible! After all, marriage is not as simple as two people getting married together, and the entire family of both parties is involved. If it's a problem that can be solved, then you should talk about it calmly and try to solve it.

Have you ever wondered why his (your boyfriend's) mother is against you being together, trying to find out this problem, since you love your boyfriend, you have to love all of him, including your boyfriend's mother, pity the hearts of parents all over the world, for your future to understand, empathy should be able to solve! If you don't mind, you can go straight to h! I hope it can help you.

Alas, this mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problem has been in China for thousands of years, if you really have a lifetime with this man, you must consider the future, after all, for his mother, you are the woman who snatched his son, the problem cannot be solved immediately, to please the future mother-in-law must care about her every day like her own mother to be able to touch her heart, but this is too tiring. If you really can't accept it, forget it

It is advisable to break up! At the beginning, if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled well, it is the daughter-in-law who suffers first. Unless you're a lot stronger than his mother, whether she's dead or alive, and only care about yourself, then you might feel better.

Otherwise, you will be bullied even worse! Your boyfriend won't help you, let alone you. If you don't break up, you can only continue to suffer, and it will be even more painful in the future!

It is recommended that you break up, it can only be sad to drag it on, and the sadness in the future can only be borne by you, many things are not said to be done, the society is very showing, but if it is only because of the family conditions of both parties, other aspects are very harmonious, you are thinking about it, but there is no way to solve the situation of his mother that you said, you can only say that your affairs should not be known to his mother, after all, it is you who will live together in the future.

For example, you still look young, and if I do the same at your age, I will be so happy......

The food is so delicious, no wonder ** (boyfriend) always praises you in front of me......What do you like to eat? Oh, I like to eat too, and it seems that we are very close to each other.

There are so many topics to talk about. But some girls don't like to talk, especially in front of strangers, and it's best not to force their daughter-in-law to always say nice things to themselves, but it sounds like they're lining up that ......But since the old people like to listen, it doesn't hurt to talk about it! Isn't it nice that everyone is happy so that they are happy?

You don't have to make everyone else like you, but don't let the people who matter to you hate you!

You won't be nervous to treat her as your own mother first, and then it should be better to talk to your own mother, hoping that your boyfriend's mother will like you, because I also want my boyfriend's mother to like me

Just care more about their bodies and talk about some topics that the elderly like, it doesn't matter if they don't understand, they just want to find someone to talk to.

Naturally, my former girlfriend and my mom didn't like it very much, and in the end she broke up with me because of my dad's words. You'd better figure out whether you love him or not! If you really love him, work with him to make the family relationship better!

I don't know what I'm talking about.

Why care about others. If you really love each other, why care about others.

If you really can't do it, you don't need to force yourself.

Say something mom loves.

It's just chatting with the elders.

My mom too, it feels normal. There was a guy who had been chasing my mother, and it seemed that he had already succeeded.

Needless to say, you can hint, for example, if you tell your mother to be cautious about making friends and not to affect the family or anything, your mother will consider your suggestion.

I guess it's best not to tell your dad right now

Talk to your mom first

If not, you can talk to the man

I don't know if you're a man or a woman, but if you're a girl, it's best to get one of your best friends to come with you (be sure to find a boyfriend, because men don't usually have the same tongue as women).

Take your mom out for a walk after dinner, and then tactfully tell her about the fact that you found out she has a boyfriend, and listen to her thoughts first.

Don't tell your dad just yet.

You should talk to your mom first, and if not, you'll have to find your dad.

This has to be solved, otherwise the family will be in trouble.

Don't guess.

If you're sure, it's enough to deter the man's screams when you see them.

Don't fall in love first, wait until your boyfriend's mother forgets to talk about it, and you can't use your mobile phone to communicate in the future, you can only communicate secretly somewhere

You should first let your boyfriend have a good talk with his mother, if you really have the necessary and conditions to fall in love, you can continue, and also, you should prove to his mother that you have the capital to fall in love with his son, if this is useless, then end it...

Don't talk about it first! Let's talk to you after you graduate! (His mother is afraid that you will fall in love with him.) It will affect both of you academically! Don't overthink it! ~

Little sister, still young. Don't take it too seriously, don't get too involved. Talk a few more times while you're young, or you'll regret it later.

Ask your boyfriend to go back and say that he has broken up, pretending, and then every time your boyfriend texts you, you come back, or break up.

I'm just like you. I came in by accident by checking a question about this. It was discovered once in April last year, and then he told his mother that he had broken up, and then secretly contacted the present, but today he was found again. It's been a whole year, and I hate April.

In a word, if you love him, you will insist!! Don't break up ... I may not be much older than you, but it would be a pity to give up on you ... Come on, come on, come on!! Go Underground !!

Don't give up because of parental opposition. Otherwise, when you grow up, you will feel that this is the thing you regret the most.

Divide ah 13 years old What can you understand when you fall in love?

Your parents are also for your own good, the age of study, how can you put your spirit in love.

Isn't that ruining your own future?

I think you should break up with that woman, and you should focus on your studies.

Junior high school students It's a little early, depending on what age you are.

Why have low self-esteem? Your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend is good-looking, so you should be happy! Since he used to have such a beautiful girlfriend, it means that your boyfriend is very good, and he chose you, which means that you are not bad!

Think of the good in everything and don't make trouble for yourself. Besides, no matter how beautiful his girlfriend is, it's a thing of the past!

There's nothing to be inferior to, because he is choosing you now, and he is also very good to you!

It's just that you should be sure of your own choice, if you really want to be with your current boyfriend, don't think too much about it, shape the space between the two of you, and make your life just as worth remembering and cherishing! Just as much to cherish!

Be yourself, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, put more effort into your own advantages, don't compare your own shortcomings with the advantages of others, then no matter how you compare them, you can't compare with others. ok？

Since a man is willing to marry you, it means that you have your characteristics, and men don't have to choose good-looking, very beautiful people feel insecure, so many men still choose ordinary girls.

Why do you have low self-esteem, no one is perfect, your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend has a better side than you, and you also have a better side than her! When God closes one door for you, He will open another door for you.

There are so many beauties in the world, what are you inferior, there is nothing bad about women, you try to dress yourself, but don't dress up.

Don't do much, temperament can be cultivated.