What should I do if I feel inferior when I see excellent people and feel that I am worthless?

Hurry up and strengthen your studies, improve your self-cultivation, and make yourself an excellent talent in the eyes of others. If you can recognize your own shortcomings, take action to do your shortcomings, and slowly improve and you will change. Envy others for their excellence, which is earned by the efforts of others.

There are all kinds of excellence, and you also have to see your own advantages, and it is estimated that you are also excellent in the eyes of others. In short, learn more and accumulate more, I believe that soon you will become excellent in the eyes of others, and others will see you differently and have an extraordinary temperament.

I sometimes have this feeling, I can't do anything, I don't look good, I don't study very well, I don't have a job in the future, and the more I look at myself in the mirror, the more sad I become. At this time, don't think so much, do what you should do now, study when I want to study, and work hard when I want to work. I'm really idle, so let's just read a book.

There is a ** house in the book, and there is Yan Ruyu in the book. This is not just talking. Or if you have any hobbies, you can also try to do it at this time.

When I feel that I am worthless, I will choose to learn a craft, it may be to draw a calligraphy, it may be to enroll in a hobby class, it may be to write something in my own space. ‍‍

Work hard and give yourself a goal. Believe that you are better than you were yesterday. Persevere, and you will eventually be better than him!

In fact, what you don't know is that the other party may also envy you at a certain moment. And many things are a two-way process, since you feel that you are not good, then do a lot of things to make yourself excellent, choose what you like and are good at to do, make yourself more motivated, and let yourself be able to be interested in many things. Many times, it's not that you're not good enough, it's just that you don't realize that you're so good. ‍‍

Read more books, reading books can make you confident, appearance can not be replaced, will be reflected from the books you have read, in addition to be confident, do what you like a few times, do better and better, so that you will have self-confidence, to have your own principles, to know how to appreciate yourself, more contact with the outside world, absorb the strengths of others, to improve yourself, smile more, good mood, good luck. ‍‍

Join his circle. This is the wisest choice, doesn't the old saying "close to Zhu is red"? Join his circle, study in his circle, exercise in his circle, communicate with more excellent people in his circle, if you are really inferior, then you can also choose to listen to what they say first, learn what they do, and be exposed to it, isn't it still excellent?

Even if you are in their circle, you will enjoy a lot of honors and benefits, pretending to be an excellent member of them, until you become a truly excellent person, that is just around the corner! ‍‍

Everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, some people are very good in physics and chemistry, but the liberal arts are not good, some are good in the humanities, but ** no talent, in short, there is no one in the world who is all-rounder, a person who is outstanding in a certain aspect, there is always a place that is his weakness. Therefore, you don't have to worry about being inferior to others in this aspect, people are actually incomparable, and you always want to win over others everywhere, and in the end everything is bad, so be the most true yourself, don't be arrogant, full of self-confidence, and you will live well. ‍‍

When we don't care about inferiority, inferiority will leave us. The specific approach is to accept the "negative self" and "recognize the self" from the new. Don't do the "right thing", but do what you can "do the right thing".

In layman's terms, it is to change the angle of contrast, do not compare with others, only compare with yesterday's self. In that case, even if you have low self-esteem. ‍‍

First you have to set yourself a goal and then fight for it. So to achieve the goal, you need to study more, read more, enrich yourself, with the accumulation of knowledge, you will become more and more confident, and eventually you will find that what you are pursuing, you will slowly complete it, and give yourself a good life positioning! Come on boy! ‍‍

In fact, the most terrible thing now is that people who are better than you are still working harder than you, so what you have to do is not to be afraid that you are useless, but to catch up and make yourself a better person, don't compare with others, as long as you are better than yesterday's self every day.

Knowing that you have low self-esteem means that you know that you are not good enough, then the best thing to do is to work hard to make yourself excellent, so that you can work with excellent people in the future and will not have low self-esteem anymore.

Don't have low self-esteem, sit on yourself, and strive to improve your self-cultivation and quality, when you get rid of all your shortcomings, you will be very satisfied with yourself, and you will no longer have an inferiority complex.

I think that many people have the idea that they feel that they are worthless when they see excellent people, but you can't deny yourself too much, you also have to see the shining points in yourself, everyone has everyone's strengths, and we can't deny ourselves too much. Because we will always meet our own Bole.

That is, you are not confident, your shining point is more than that, after all, your own ability is different from others! There is always a function that is more powerful than him, but it is just drowned out in an instant.

There is no harm in life without comparison, I don't think you need to compare, only in this way will you regain your self-confidence.

Some people are very good, but they still feel very inferior, and there may be many reasons for this.

First of all, internal reasons. He may be a perfectionist.

In the eyes of others, he is already very good, but he is still far from his own inner goal, and then in this situation where he often fails to achieve his own goal, he will have a relatively low sense of self-confidence, and it is easy to feel inferior in the long run. Secondly, there are many external factors. It could be an influence of the family environment.

If his family atmosphere is the kind of oppressive and never praised, there is a lack of positive feedback.

It is difficult for him to develop self-confidence, even if his ability gradually rises and becomes very good, he still does not feel that he is good enough, and he is still very inferior. It could also be the environmental impact of his life. The people around him are more excellent than him, and his excellence is not so good in comparison, which may also lead to his low self-esteem.

Some people are excellent, but they still feel inferior. There could be many reasons for this.

One is internal reasons. He's probably a perfectionist. He is excellent in the eyes of others, but he is still far from his inner goal.

Then, when he often fails to achieve his goals, he has a relatively low sense of self-confidence and in the long run, it is easy to feel inferior. Secondly, it is influenced by many external factors. This can be an influence of the family environment.

If his family atmosphere is one of stress, never praise, and lacks positive feedback, then it will be difficult for him to develop self-confidence. Even though his abilities gradually improved and became excellent, he still felt that he was not good enough and his self-esteem remained low. It could also be an influence of his environment.

The people around him are better than him. In contrast, his excellence is not so good, which can also lead to his inferiority complex.

Another reason why you are very good but still have low self-esteem is that you are used to comparing your own shortcomings with the strengths of others. Focusing only on one's own shortcomings and shortcomings, but turning a blind eye to one's own strengths and strengths. For example, if you are short and have short legs, you will always have low self-esteem compared to tall and long legs, so you have low self-esteem.

But you can't see your strengths, such as your good facial features, humor, good popularity, and strong work ability, if you have to compare, you can make a comprehensive comparison with them, instead of comparing your worst items with others' strongest items. It is also necessary to build self-confidence, and when you have self-confidence, you will no longer feel inferior.

A person who is already excellent in the eyes of outsiders also has times when he himself is very inferior. This feeling is the influence of the original family or some things experienced when I was a child, happy people when they were young used their childhood for a lifetime, and unfortunate people spent a lifetime for childhood. Life will not give everyone the answer, only you know best whether you are good or bad, but no matter whether there is a sunny or sunny life in life, we must maintain a positive attitude to face it, life has always been to appreciate the beauty and magic of life with our own body.

You may want to become a better person, so you will directly have this feeling of inferiority, which is also very normal, so you have to adjust your mentality.

Everyone has something he lacks in his heart, and everyone has different requirements and positioning for themselves. You may think he is very good, but he may think that he is bad in some way, so no matter how good a person is, he may have low self-esteem in his heart.

Because people's surroundings are different, some people seem to you to be excellent, but they know that they are much worse than other people around them, and their inferiority complex also arises.

In fact, excellence is a thing born of comparison. Maybe you think it's good because it's better because he's better than others. And he himself feels inferior to those who he thinks are excellent and feels that he is not good enough.

Some of them are very good, but he still feels inferior, he thinks he is not good, but others think he is very good, so his own goal has not been achieved, so he should be inferior.

A lot of good people will have low self-esteem. In fact, the more excellent people are, the more inferior they are, often from their childhood experience, they did not experience enough recognition in the process of self-growth, they were reprimanded by their parents more from childhood to adulthood, or compared with others, in the process of this comparison, they lost their self-worth, and they will become more and more inferior in the process of growing up.

The root of low self-esteem is generally formed at a very young age, and this excellent person may have had a low starting point or high requirements for himself in the past.

Inferiority complex is a feeling and idea in the heart, a person who is excellent in the eyes of others feels inferior in his heart because he is inferior, so he works hard to make others think he is excellent, but the inferiority complex in his heart has always existed.

There are no perfect people in this world. Good people don't necessarily mean they're very confident. On the other hand, some people are not very good, but they are very arrogant.

So this thing is not absolute. Some people are insecure, so they work hard and are excellent, but they always feel that they are still lacking, and they will have an inferiority complex.

His excellence is only reflected in his career or work. Inner inferiority complex is caused by psychological reasons.

A very good person, if the people around him are better than him, more outstanding, then he will definitely be compared, general, people in groups, things in kind, people will only be better if they continue to forge ahead, in this kind of excellent people, if they get carried away, self-righteous, sometimes stop learning, hard work, then naturally fall behind this group of people, and slowly will be inferior because they can't catch up with others, therefore, people must keep pace with the times, so as not to be eliminated by society.

Excellent people will have a feeling of looking up and climbing from a high place, so there will be loneliness and inferiority, excellent people are often a small number of people, an excellent person may be surrounded by more than ten people who are not excellent, and will be incompatible with the circle of people around them, and they will deny themselves and have inferiority.

The root of low self-esteem lies in contrast, if the people around you are worse than you, you are better than others everywhere, and your life is always full of superiority, you will not only be particularly confident, but even a little arrogant, but if you are surrounded by people who are better than you, you find that you can't keep up with others everywhere, you will feel inferior.

Excellent is only relatively speaking, people with low self-esteem and depression will always see what she can't get, and what she is best at is to compare her disadvantages with the advantages of others, people can't be flawless, so the more extravagant expectations, the greater the disappointment. On the other hand, excellent people see through everything and know their own insignificance, so the more they know, the less happiness they have.

Because there are so many excellent people. There are people outside the world, and there are heavens outside the sky, but he still feels that he is not good enough, and he has shortcomings, so he will feel inferior.

Good evening, why does a person feel inferior to himself, not good enough, not good enough, not good enough? Most of them are related to their original family, such as the idea of patriarchy in their original family, or which one of the brothers and sisters is not treated equally, and there is no recognition and praise from his parents, or even belittled, etc., resulting in his low sense of worthiness and inner "I am not good" belief, showing a very low self-esteem, so this is an excellent person, how to make him confident and eliminate inferiority, or start from the healing of the entire original family and truly know himself.

It's the lack of self-confidence in my heart, some people are strict with themselves, others seem to be very good, and they still feel that they are not good enough.