How to let go of someone who doesn t like me at all

The first is to treat troubles correctly. Trouble, like happiness, is just an experience that will disappear naturally or for a lifetime. That is, the affliction is changing, and if you despise it, it will disappear; If you value it, it breeds more troubles.

The second is to maintain a peaceful mind. When the external environment cannot be changed, people should take the initiative to adjust their mentality, adapt to the environment, and live safely in the existing environment. The reason why some things in the outside world affect an individual's mentality is that the individual takes himself too seriously.

In fact, people are just like dust, and when society doesn't need you, you can be thrown away as garbage and never see the light of day. When society needs you, it will treat you as fertilizer, soil, or even a treasure to make you shine and enjoy glory. It is to be a big tree, there are also different fates, some big trees live in the deep mountains and old forests all the year round, not known by outsiders, once found by outsiders, they are respected and admired by thousands of people.

The third is to drug the cause and eliminate the root cause of trouble. If a person is troubled by troubles and is in a situation where he is struggling, he must get to the bottom of it. Is it a personal self-inflicted passion?

Or is it that others are entangled in other things and involve themselves? Or do you feel that family, work, society and other factors make you feel that life is better than death? ......Start from yourself, find it out little by little, and then dissolve it little by little.

Find someone you love and who loves you more. It's solved.

Will you really let go of someone in love, we naturally want to possess, and this is a choice determined by our human nature. But the drama that often appears in TV dramas is that the second male is willing to let go in order to fulfill the love of the female protagonist, so can you really love someone at the highest level? Many people actually can't do it in a relationship but still have to let go of the fact that they love each other, but this is based on the fact that both of them love each other.

When it is clear that two people love each other very much, one party may give up because of practical factors, such as mismatch of material conditions, etc., which is difficult to judge whether it is because I love you too much and don't want to affect you or because I don't love you enough and dare not have the courage to struggle. But it is also certain that there will be situations of letting go when loving someone in the case of love. In fact, I have always believed that people living in this world will only live for themselves once, and it is very lucky to really meet the person who can move their hearts, if you really love someone, please don't let go, first work hard and finally lose to fate.

Of course, there is also a second situation, that is, when a person is unilaterally in love with another person, although he really likes that person very much, he thinks that the effort will not only be tiring, but also a burden to another person who passively accepts. This is what we mentioned earlier, the unilateral love of the second male in idol dramas belongs to the type that will let go directly in the later stage. This kind of is a way to use one's own feelings to fulfill the other party, and it is also a relatively sad choice.

Therefore, it is possible to break up and leave for various reasons when you love someone, but I still believe that loving someone is a state where you want to possess and want to work hard for the other person.

If you can't let go of the other person, you will want to listen to him and talk to him again, but the more you do this, the more you can't learn to let go. Maybe you understand everything, but you still have some reluctance in your heart, you can actively contact him, you can chat with him as before, and you feel at ease to keep this situation.

But, is it really reassuring? You have chosen to separate, so at this moment, everyone is already the connection of 2 strangers, and what is the real identity of contact? The key to letting go of a person is to refuse to contact him, don't think that you can still be a good friend after a breakup, even if you still have contact, just be a passerby.

After breaking up, most people will continue to expect the other party to turn around, and expect the two to follow up and return to the beginning again. But since they have all come to this point, it means that there will be problems between each other, and if the problems are difficult to solve, even if they are together, it is useless.

You can't let go of him, most of it is still out of attachment, maybe unwilling, maybe reluctant, maybe there is still love for him, so I always look forward to seeing him and reuniting with him.

In fact, you have broken up, just face the reality and face it bravely, refuse to expect from him, even if he takes the initiative to ask for a relationship, you have to think twice. No matter when, people still have to be clear-headed, so that they will not make mistakes again and again, even if they are reluctant now, they firmly believe that it will always be better for a while.

I firmly believe that you have heard of this phenomenon, every time you see some people separate, you shout "I don't believe in love anymore", but does other people's love and hate have anything to do with you?

When you come to yourself, when a relationship is completed, especially after being damaged, it is easy to become more and more heartbroken, and even close your own heart, and do not want to accept others to move in.

Maybe you have your stubbornness, but what's the point of going on like this? Even if you just think about the past, it is unlikely that everyone will become what they used to be, and it is not as easy as calmly coping with it and starting life again.

Even if you are separated, you must refuse to close your heart, listen to the real sound of your heart, know new things, and worship you will be fine.