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Have you decided to give up on the relationship?
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Dedicate all your lovelorn heart to your work, you are now in the internship stage, it is very important not to be distracted. Feelings are like a stream of water, you have to go slowly, and you can't be in a hurry. With the passage of time and the change of space, it will slowly fade into oblivion.
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Emotional matters can't be forced, put your feelings on another person, this should be the fastest way.
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Break up, just break up, maybe two people are really not suitable, do something you like to do, work hard, there will be better girls to love you, your one must be waiting for you in some corner of the world. What's more, feelings are not all, and if you lose something, you will gain something.
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Try it this way and you'll know!
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First, I started to lose interest in the other person's affairs. If you still love someone in a relationship, even though you are separated. But you will still secretly pay attention to his every move, his emotional experience, his changes.
But if you really let go, you will not be interested in some of him, and what he has done will not stir up a little wave in your heart. You look at him as plain as if you were an ordinary person. Second, you start to pay more attention to yourself and become less concerned about him.
If you can't let go of someone, you will think about him from time to time. Think of his good, think of his bad. You'll be angry and sad alone.
But when you let go of this relationship, when you are alone, you can't remember him. You only think of people and things that are relevant to you. When you think of him again, you realize that you haven't thought of him for a long time.
At this time, in fact, his position in your heart has been slowly moving away. Third, when you're dealing with someone, you don't compare him to him. If you still have him in your heart, then when you are with other members of the opposite sex.
You'll always compare him to him. For example, without his humor, without his humor, without his handsomeness. If you still have this kind of heart, it means that you haven't really let go of him.
The real letting go of a person should be how this person treats me, what will happen to us in the future, whether he really loves me or fake love me. If you are with other members of the opposite sex, the image of your ex will not appear in your mind. This means that you have put her down.
Fourth, you see that he is no longer jealous when he is with the opposite sex. When you see him walking, dating, and being together with the opposite sex, there is no wave in your heart. This means that you have truly let go.
Because if you love someone, you will be jealous and jealous. And you can accept it all. It means that he has no place in your heart.
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It is not an easy thing to let go of feelings, first of all, let go of the person completely, then you can let go of this relationship.
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In the relationship, only by learning to let go can you not burn your reputation and be controlled by love.
The more hard you love, the more your body and mind are bruised, and letting go in a timely manner is not necessarily a bad thing, so women in the relationship must know how to give up, but also learn to let go, if you don't love to turn around immediately and not take away a cloud, only learn to let go, you will not fall deeper and deeper in the whirlpool of love, and the rose will be pricked in your hand, not to mention that you are holding a cactus, the tighter you hold, the deeper the thorn, the more painful the injury, only let go will not sting, will not hurt!
Only when you put down the cactus in your hand, you will find that the grass on the side of the road is actually quite beautiful, when you don't put it down, your eyes are only the cactus in your hand, when you really put it down, you will be surrounded by bright flowers, only learn to let go, in order to forget the past, in order to go down easily and happily.
In life, we must know how to give up and know how to give up. Give up some things that are worthless in life, and let go of some complicated ones, and make them simple and easy, so that you will not get lost in your feelings.
Once you learn to let go in the relationship, there is nothing that can make you afraid, letting go is a compulsory lesson in life, cleaning the dusty heart, throwing away the pain buried in the heart, throwing away the sadness, letting the happiness fill the heart again, and letting the sun shine into the heart again.
Didn't put it down. Time will dilute everything.
In a relationship, the real letting go is not that you hate him when you think of him, not that you will blame him when you think of him, nor that you remember him badly when you think of him, not to mention that you can't remember anything related to him when you think of him, and the real letting go is a kind of thinking about him, you will still remember the warmth he once gave you, and you still haven't forgotten the bits and pieces that the two people have experienced together, but all of these you know are just memories and experiences. You only regard them as a thing of the past, you will no longer have any unwillingness, no more regrets, and no more thoughts about what you want to do with him, so letting go is not deliberately not remembering, but I still remember, but it is all in the past.
Although it is said that time can forget everything, if you still love him. I can't forget if you don't love him. You will forget to find a way to stop loving him or try not to contact and recall the scenes of 2 people, don't do what you used to do, often go to play with friends, go crazy together, you can also go out to travel, maybe you will meet the true love of your life, love is everywhere, as long as you don't miss it, breaking up will be a new beginning for you!! >>>More
I have the same confusion as you, I think since I know it's impossible, let it go, feelings can't be forced, why bother to make it difficult for the other party? If you really like him, as long as he is happy, you don't want the person you like to be unhappy, right?
No, it won't. Girls are easy to indulge, easy to miss the old, easy to be sensual Women are sensual, and in the relationship, they will invest more time and energy in this time as time goes on. The longer the relationship, the more the girl will develop a sense of dependence on each other. >>>More