Why are today s men not as warm as the men of my grandfather s generation?

You are wrong, in the past, love was innocent, but some were introduced and married directly, there was no love at all, but after that, they lived very happily and were able to tolerate, and the wife took care of her husband the most, because the previous people were simple, and the wife was at home with everything, and the man only ate when he returned home. It's not as realistic as it is now, you see that many people don't even know how to cook now, and the man has to cook for his wife when he returns home after earning the money, many of them are groveling, and it is too common to take care of the confinement. The man gets married once and takes out the whole family's life's work, and finally marries an ancestor to provide for it, not to say all, but now there are too many of them.

The older generation basically came from a hard life. After going through ups and downs, being able to be white-headed together is a kind of happiness in itself. In the past, there would not have been a day of overtime work and no rest all year round.

There are not so many pastimes, and in addition to working, men basically go home to accompany their wives and children.

In today's society, there is a lot of pressure to survive. A man is too warm and revolves around his daughter-in-law every day, which will only make the leader think that you are taking care of your family too much. From a career development perspective, leaders don't like to reuse this kind of person too much.

Those gods in the TV series have successful careers and happy families, but they are just man-made fairy tales. The vast majority of people are still faced with pots and pans, firewood, rice, oil and salt.

To be honest, a man really warms your heart every day, how can his career develop? For example, you want to celebrate your birthday, but he has to go on a business trip.

At this time, does he choose to warm your heart or choose to work? Once or twice, it's good to say, after a few years, does he still want a job?

Men in modern society are not easy to find warm-hearted ones. Similarly, it is not easy for men to find a down-to-earth life. This is a run-in between the two sides ...

Therefore, they are all adults, and they still soak in fairy tales every day and don't come out, which can only mean that they are too naïve.

Today's men lack manliness and are too feminine, I think it may be caused by the fact that women are too strong now, people are selfish now, and the feelings of young people are not as good as the feelings of grandparents, which are loved with life, and now the feelings are loved with money.

First of all, how do you know that the men of your grandfather's generation took care of their daughters-in-law in confinement? Have you investigated? What is the sample size?

Is there any reference value in the conclusion? Or is this wishful thinking on your part? Secondly, when the grandmother mentioned that her husband was happy on his face, did you think that the men of his grandfather's generation were warm?

I asked, no matter ancient or modern, which couple is unhappy if they can live to this age? Those who are unhappy either disperse early, or one party dies early, okay? Emotions affect the body, if you are not happy, can you live to that age?

It's like, if a long-lived person over 100 years old doesn't have cancer, can you conclude that cancer doesn't exist at all? Don't take survivorship bias to encompass the whole world.

Why are men nowadays not as warm as men of grandpa's generation? That's because the men brought by my grandfather are more sensible and understand women better, and now the little men can only play, because they are all only children who are used to it.

Because women are much more powerful than men now, he can't do this to everyone at all, so he still only cares about himself.

I envy the life of the elders, the material level is not high, but they live very happily, at that time love was pure, and the two people relied on each other. Times are changing, and now the level of medical care is much higher, and girls can enjoy a lot of better services when they are confined. Men may be more materialistic.

Maybe the original intention is not so pure. In fact, it is not easy for men to work hard outside. It's good to be considerate of each other.

Today's men are not as warm as the men of my grandfather's generation, in fact, because the times are developing, and the ideas of people in each era are different.

People will be different in every era.

Grandpa's generation had their way of expressing their feelings, and there were not so many rhetoric, but their feelings were dedicated and sincere.

There are also many warm men in this era, who are considerate and understanding, and need a pair of discerning eyes to find.

Nowadays, men are getting more and more tired, they are busy outside and at home, taking care of the old and the young, the pressure is getting bigger and bigger, and if they are not careful, they will be eliminated, so their energy is all in struggle.

Because women at that time had low requirements, did not want a large bride price, did not need to buy a house or a car, and wrote the woman's name, the man felt guilty and was naturally good to his daughter-in-law. Now that there is a large amount of dowry, and it is a car and a house, the man thinks that you are bought by Lao Tzu to do housework and give birth to children, you should do these things for granted, do you still need Lao Tzu to thank you?

The current boys are different from the previous boys, because the living environment is different, or the social environment is also different, because of the influence of this environment, so this personality and temper are different in all aspects.

Yes, it's just that you haven't met it now. When two people get along, it's not just one person who pays, you only see the place where you feel happy, and you don't usually see them getting along, perhaps, it's the grandmother who has always been very good to her husband, so his husband is also very good to her.

Maybe it's because the pace was slower, so the man had time to take care of his wife's emotions, but now the pace is faster and the pressure is greater, and everyone is in a hurry.

People can't generalize, there are differences between people at all times, there are good people and bad people, there are warm and cold.

No, today's men are also super warm men, why do you say that? Are there more men than women? If you don't warm up, you can't do it, you can only become a little warmer, there's no way.

There are a lot of personality differences in each generation, and there are people of all kinds of personalities in the older generation, and there are people of all kinds of personalities in our generation, but it just depends on what we encounter, so we can't generalize.

The development of society, people's emotions are not as simple as before, this is a normal phenomenon.

Because society is changing! Something broke down before, it was tinkering! Now that something is broken, it's just a new one!

The times are different, of course that person will change, and the times create different people.

At that time, the carriage and horses were slow, and there was only enough time to love one person in a lifetime'

Because now men are also materialistic.

Yes. There are heartwarming and sad in every era.

It's just that you haven't encountered it.

That's because your mindset has changed.

's husband, the happiness on his face can't be hidden.

Those two ladies have food, drink and nutrition, of course, they live more nourishing and longer than ordinary people.

No, Qianlong lived to be 88 years old, ascended the throne at the age of 28, and reigned for 60 years.

For men, who is the most important, father, grandfather, boy, or grandchild? You can only choose one.

Grandpa if it's the mother's father = grandpa. Then grandpa. If the grandson is the daughter's boy. Then Sun Nan.

There's no way to pick one.

Because of the position as a man. The relationship between grandpa and himself and grandman is the same. So you can only choose two.

Then grandpa and grandson are more important. Fathers and boys don't matter.

Grandpa if it's a father's father = grandpa. Then grandpa. If the grandson is a man's boy. Then Sun Nan.

As a man, it definitely doesn't matter.

As a woman, it must be the most important thing for a man, then the grandman of the daughter's family, then the father, and then the grandfather. The grandchildren of the grandfather and the man's family are not important.

For girls, the first parent of the boy, the second parent of the grandson (the daughter's family), the third parent of the father, and the first relatives of the grandfather. Grandpa and grandman (men's family) are not important.

For boys, the grandfather and the grandson (the daughter's family) are the first relatives. Father, boy, grandfather, grandman (boy's) are not important.

Dad is the most important, the old and the young, with a thousand pounds on his shoulders, responsibility, pressure, everything has to rely on himself.

The three are equally important, if you have to choose, then Dad, grandpa waits for dad to support the elderly, and son waits for dad to support.

Grandfather, father, self, son, grandson, five generations in the same house.

In general, it is always the smallest that is the most important.

I think the elders who love children the most should be the grandfathers, and the men should be grandfathers and grandfathers who love children the most.

A boy other than his father, the male elder who loves him the most is not his grandfather, not his grandfather, but his uncle?

In fact, I think that this male elder who loves boys in addition to his father can't be sure that it must be an uncle, grandfather, and grandfather, of course, in addition to these three, there are many male elders, and there are also those who may be the most hurt boys, in the final analysis, it depends on the male elders who love boys the most in addition to their fathers, and there can be many, many people, I won't list them one by one, the most important thing is the boy's family, how his family determines who is the male elder who loves him the most besides his father.

If you look at the family and look at the situation in your family, the character and habits of your grandfather and uncle, and the family factors, if for example, if the grandson's father does not have a good relationship with his grandfather, and the relationship with the prince and grandfather is not very good, he may also reflect the performance of the grandson, and he doesn't like it very much, but if the father has a good relationship with his uncle, he will also love the house and Wu.

Generally speaking, uncles do love their nephews very much, after all, they are the elder brother's own son. And it hurts a lot when I'm not married. Nowadays, many uncles treat their nephews as if they were their own children.

In addition to my father, I should be a grandfather, or a grandfather, if this is the case as you said, it may happen more abroad.

But there are exceptions, but we won't talk about special circumstances.

Whether it's China or the West, there is this situation, you have to use these to analyze it is not good at all, the world is not strange, generally speaking, grandparents, they have a generation gap with us, so it is normal to get along not very well, and the two ages are not too different, they are more able to talk, so it is normal for you to be more cordial.

It's a strange question, not all families are the same, and it doesn't make sense to ask it like that.

Some fathers don't care about it, they just say that they want to work hard to make money and work hard for their careers; Some families may have parents working outside the home; Some families may be single-parent; In some families, every elder loves their children; Some families may lack nothing, but it is ...... domestic violence

These situations exist at home and abroad, and many foreigners envy China.

Cherish what you have, don't make too many comparisons, do too much analysis, so that life is simple and happy, how good.

It is difficult to say the fate between relatives and loved ones.

Although they all have, blood relations.

But many times people smell like each other.

So it's not certain.

Which one is the best for you.

You have to get along with each other to know.

Nowadays, many uncles treat their nephews as if they were their own children.

The boy should be.

Europe, because they don't have China.

This kind of custom of being a long and young, but the uncle and nephew are still relatively close.

It is Chinese, because the Chinese care very much about family affection, attach importance to family affection, and the moral norms formed over the years.

Everyone's upbringing and family background are different, and this cannot be used as a criterion.

I suspect that your husband didn't go back to accompany Grandpa, or that accompanying Grandpa was a cover, and if you have to tell me the reason for reasoning, I'll tell you why I reasoned like this:First, if your husband has been in a good relationship with his grandfather for a long time and often accompanies him, you will not feel abnormal at this point in time, but you will understand your husband's behavior because they have a good relationship; But if you don't understand, it means that your husband usually doesn't accompany grandpa, and their relationship is not so good.

Second, since he usually doesn't accompany his grandfather, he is critically ill and rushes back immediately without caring about his wife having children, and the only possibility is to rob the inheritance. But if your husband's grandfather has 10,000 family wealth, your husband will not accompany you and will rush him to accompany him, but you come to the Internet to complain, it can be seen that his grandfather does not have 10,000 family wealth, so a man who does not have 10,000 family wealth and usually does not accompany his grandfather very much, leaves his wife who gave birth to children, in the name of accompanying his grandfather.

Do you think it is more likely that he will really accompany his grandfather, or that he will accompany his friend's wife? If you are a woman who has all the indicators of pregnancy and the doctor recommends a normal delivery, or everything is normal due to a small reason and the caesarean section time has been determined, it is really nothing to let a few days at this time, unless there is really no one at homeOf course, there is another situation, if his grandfather is only terminally cancered and can delay it for half a year and a year, then he is too much, and he wants his grandfather to make sure that he will withdraw the ventilator tomorrow and the day after tomorrow, and if you don't let it, then you are too muchIf you really don't want to let it, it is recommended to stay in the same hospital.

There are many things worth considering, and when you choose to marry him, you should know what day his grandfather is critically ill, and if he still stays by your side at this time, he will not care about his grandfatherYou have been comforted and cared for, but grandpa's affairs may cause him a lifelong regret, and there is no way to remedy it. I know that girls are very fragile both mentally and physically during pregnancy and childbirth.