Is there any money that you have lent out or not returned?

Yes, so it made me understand that I should leave evidence of lending money to others in the future: when people around me call, send messages or contact to borrow money through other means, you can keep the basic evidence of borrowing money by recording, taking photos to keep evidence, screenshots of chat messages, etc., preferably an IOU, so as not to be falsely accused in the future.

Yes, I thought it was good to borrow, because there wasn't much money, and I was basically embarrassed to ask for it, and I would ask for it when I needed it urgently, and when I wanted it, the other party usually used the excuse that I didn't have money and delayed it again and again, it felt like a joke on the Internet, I had the ability to borrow it, why should I pay it back to you.

Those fox friends are like a swarm of flies, revolving around him all day long, the husband is very righteous, three meals a day, and have to accompany them to play mahjong at night, after eating, drinking and having fun, I have to earn a little from my husband, and the money lent out adds up to tens of thousands, not only do I not come back, but I also have to come to my house for a meal.

Now the people who borrow money are all uncles, and the people who are borrowed are grandchildren, and when they borrow money, they say that they are good, and it is even more difficult to repay the money than to ascend to the sky, and all kinds of excuses are shirked every day, so you need to be cautious when borrowing money!

First of all, I don't think I can say that it's just like that, my hard-earned money, don't say how much, I can't say that it's gone, sometimes I think about the money I give to my parents is not as much as the money I lent out, why give it to others in vain. Let the other party take his own money for nothing, and there is no lesson, so he should grind every day.

See how much he has borrowed and whether he has any bad records. If you borrow less, you will definitely borrow, and those who borrowed money from me before and didn't pay it back will definitely not borrow.

The first time I lent out more than 1,000 to many people, others repaid it, the second time I lent 200 to others, others never paid it back, and once I borrowed 1,000 from others and didn't pay it back, and then I borrowed 1,800 from others and others didn't pay it back.

There are many such times, seek the help of a lawyer and go through the legal process to defend your rights: until the end, it is not recommended to take this step and come up with evidence to send the person who owes the money to court.

My father lent my cousin 6,500 in 1996 and he never came back, and he didn't have an IOU at the time, and then they moved out. In 2000 and 2005, they mentioned it respectively, saying that they had no money and would pay it back later. In 2010, he didn't admit it, and said that my family still owed him money.

Finally, after confronting my father, he said that the money would not be returned! Later, I said, if you don't pay back this money in this life, you have to pay it back in the next life

Too much, too much. I borrowed 35,000 to Wuzhi East Street, Jiaozuo, Henan, Lu Tao, or I won't come back. That guy really wasn't human. Don't be deceived.

Yes, the money lent out, 10,000 yuan, two years have not been repaid until now, and I asked for it twice, and I said that I would pay it back immediately, and then there was no follow-up.

Yes, and there have been several times at most a 10,000 at most

Yes, my husband's classmate is a mess who borrowed money and didn't pay it back, and there are a lot of bad goods.

A woman borrowed 100, saying that it was for her son to see a doctor (zero years), and then she didn't admit to borrowing money! Later, I heard that she borrowed money on a street, and there was nothing she didn't owe money to buy fruits, barbecue, and lo-mei. After a few years, I heard that I left the child and ran away with an old man, and the most annoying thing was the door-to-door son-in-law recruited by her family!

Ten years ago, I earned more than 600 a month, my classmate borrowed me 2,000 yuan, and I haven't paid it back yet, and then I borrowed money, 20,000 yuan a mouth, I didn't give it, I got angry, the relationship between studying will be very good, people will change, and I don't want to think that I don't have so much money.

Yes! Accumulate virtue and do good.

The money I lent out belonged to my brothers, more than tens of thousands, less, 600, and I didn't get it back, and others were old men.

It's been a few years since I borrowed more and borrowed less and didn't come back, and it was more than 100,000 yuan.

God, I borrowed 50,000 yuan to my relatives 10 years ago, and I paid back 30,000 yuan after chasing it for 5 years, and the remaining 20,000 yuan was not followed.

One of them deleted me directly, and a few of them are still waiting.

You should ask if you can get the money back if you lend it out.

Yes, I usually ask for it directly, make it clear, and ask for it every time I see the other person; If you know each other's family members, you can also ask your family members.

This one has, it should be said that I have never asked for it, to be honest, there are not many times, because I borrowed it once and he will not lend it to him again if he does not pay it back, three or five hundred to be honest, I am really embarrassed to give it to my friends, and basically most of the loans will take the initiative to repay.

When those people borrow money for a long time, they will feel that the money is their own. So, when you need them to pay it back, they feel like they've suffered a huge loss. Psychologically speaking, they are very resistant to paying back, especially the one with a relatively large amount, which is tantamount to making them suffer like cutting off their flesh and mending sores.

They must have a strong sense of self-discipline to overcome this nature, but most people borrow money often because they are not able to manage themselves financially, which essentially means that they are a very undisciplined person.

We can conclude that asking the borrower to repay the money is tantamount to making an undisciplined person self-disciplined. What is self-discipline? The essence of self-discipline is to kill a decadent self with your own hands, which is originally a very difficult thing, which is why many people borrow money in real life and do not pay it back.

If you cherish friendship, then it is best not to have any financial dealings with your friend, especially not to lend him money, because the person who borrows money often will most likely not pay it back.

As the saying goes: making money is like picking up soil with a needle, and spending money is like water washing sand. No one's money is blown by the wind, and it is not easy for anyone to save a few dollars.

Some of those who lend money to others should cherish this friendship, not everyone is willing to lend you money, especially in the past two years when the economy is very tight, and there are still people who are willing to borrow money for you.

When I say this, I don't have any confidence in my heart. For those "old lai" who are thicker than the city wall, it is tantamount to playing the piano to the cow, maybe he will immediately reply to me: Yes, the cow is playing the piano.

In conclusion, those who are ready to lend their money, before you lend it to someone else, understand these four points:

First, 90% of borrowers don't pay it back on time;

Second, 80% of people don't want to pay back;

Third, when he borrowed your money, he didn't think that he would become the one who didn't want to pay it back;

Fourth, the money you borrowed is basically going down the drain.

Even though he was sincere when he borrowed money, even though you think he is a very nice person.

Of course, not everyone will be a "lai", and not everyone is not honest, and there are still some people in this world who are trustworthy. But please don't test a person's integrity and character by borrowing money, many people's performance in front of money will make you completely "cold and happy". This is not a prejudice, nor is it a misunderstanding, this is a reality with a high probability.

In this way, there is no doubt that you will pay a heavy price, and he will not lose a penny, and he will take your money around and be happy.