How to leave a man who shouldn t be together?

First of all, it should be clear what is the cause of the problem that should not be together.

For example, it's because this person is not good to you, even if the conditions are better, but he doesn't care about you. Well, there's not much to say.

Formally propose to break up and tell him that you are not suitable.

Breaking up in the process of falling in love is such a positive thing. Find a café, or Starbucks, order a cup of coffee, and talk about life, and then there are so many people that there won't be some stalking.

For another example, it is because of the actual conditions, such as the car, the house, the ticket, or because of the separation of your mother.

In this case, you really need to judge whether you shouldn't be together.

Even if you don't have these material conditions now, it doesn't mean that you won't have them in the future, but you may love each other, and it is because of the material things that you may feel pity when you think about it later.

If it is really because of these reasons to break up, maybe the reason for the breakup now is one house, and the reason for the breakup in the future may be two. That's not the point, it's what exactly you want.

For example, you may have liked it before, but you don't like it now.

For love, confession is the best way to be tolerant, let go of the other party, and let go of yourself.

No matter what, what the reason is, you should take the initiative to face all this honestly, since you want to leave, get straight to the point and talk about it.

Even if the other party has to fight to the death, it is okay to play "missing" in the end, if you feel that you should not be together, just tell the other party what you think.

The body is your own, the heart is your own, the legs are your own, and the brain is your own.

Now that you know that you shouldn't be together, then give yourself the determination as soon as possible and take this step bravely!

When it comes to leaving, leaving is often tough. No matter what it is, whether it's a relationship, life or family, leaving is always painful and sad. However, some departures are not necessarily wrong and sad.

On the contrary, it is also the beginning of a new life, a door that opens the sun. Therefore, if you can have a correct and free understanding of leaving in your heart, then your departure will be smoother and more natural.

Making the decision to leave, a person's psychology is often the most difficult to break, especially a woman. Women value feelings, once a woman is seriously invested in a relationship, wants to leave, wants to let go, it is like digging her heart and cutting her flesh. But now that you've realized that this relationship shouldn't be, this man shouldn't.

Unless, unless, there's a special case where you can't escape his clutches, then it's complicated. In real life, there are indeed such terrifying people, when they want to end, but they can't help themselves. If this is the case, under the premise that your family is not disturbed, you can only secretly go to live in other cities for a while, cut off contact with him and give up pestering you, so that you may be able to get rid of him!

In either case, as long as your heart allows you to leave, then nothing else should be a problem! As long as you are determined to leave, nothing will be able to stop you. I wish you a speedy liberation, leave this man who shouldn't be together, and get the happiness that truly belongs to you!

Thinking about this question from a different perspective may help you find the answer. Why would you be inseparable, what is the reason why you know that he shouldn't be with you, knowing that it's fire, and being a moth to put out fire?

Is it because this man can give you what you want for the time being? Maybe it's money, maybe it's vanity, maybe it's his affirmation of you, in fact, it's nothing more than two kinds: material and spiritual.

If what he can give you is material, then these external things cannot bring you real satisfaction and needs, which cannot make you feel happy, even if you are sitting in a BMW, carrying a gucci, living in a villa, and others see that you have a good man, and cast envious glances at you.

He gave you these, but you know in your heart that this man should not be together, that's because he can't give you feelings and real inner support, then you need to change your heart, not exchange these empty things for your happiness, change your own opinion.

If it's spiritual, this man can give you spiritual satisfaction, but you say it's someone you shouldn't be with because he can't give you a proper identity? If he has a wife or girlfriend, then you have to think that he can swear to give up his bad wife right now, so in the future, how can you guarantee that he will not betray again, this is his irresponsible performance, recognize him as he is, and leave him.

Or if you think that he can only meet your spiritual needs, he understands that you care about you and considerate you, but he can't give you the life you want so you feel that you shouldn't be together, then you have to think about whether such values are correct, materialistic society, how many people are looking for spiritual comfort, but you have already gotten it, then you may have to think about what kind of people should be together and should not be together.

You shouldn't be together because of your parents' obstruction or because of the estrangement between the two of you, in fact, there are many reasons why you shouldn't be together, if you really feel that both parties are not suitable, you can choose to break up, and isn't love like this now? Since we all know that we shouldn't be together, let's walk away in style!

It's better to choose to leave decisively if you understand things that you understand, don't you think you shouldn't be together anymore, and you have to continue to do so? Love is not something you can live well, you have to dare to leave the wrong person, of course, I don't mean to say that this person is the wrong person, but the person you think is not suitable.

You can sit together and talk to each other frankly, because sometimes when you feel that you are not suitable for being together, you will keep looking for each other's faults, although there is nothing wrong, but in your eyes, all his words and deeds are infinitely magnified, and then there may be quarrels.

In fact, it's nothing, don't be reluctant, two people who shouldn't be together in the first place, even if they try their best to be together, are a little hanging, when you know each other better, when you find something wrong with each other, these are also problems to face, feelings are simple but actually very complicated.

Let it go! If you can all get rid of each other, then don't be together, bravely turn around and leave, let the love that shouldn't exist go away with the wind, and you don't delay each other, otherwise it's not good for you to continue, a few words are not very good, I would rather get in the rain if I can't find a suitable umbrella, so since I know that we shouldn't be together, then forget it!