What kind of dad is most liked by children?

Of course, it is a father who is willing to accompany his children!

In today's China, more and more fathers are busy with work and neglect the family, and they are justifiably not taking their children. Leaving the housework and taking care of the children to the mother, the mother is tired, not to mention, for the child, the lack of effective companionship of the father is very detrimental to its growth and character development.

One of my colleagues is that his husband lies on the sofa and looks at his mobile phone as soon as he gets home, and rarely takes the children, and the children are limited to teasing the children, but the children want their fathers to accompany them very much. And Dad is either busy with work and always traveling, or lying on the sofa and playing with his mobile phone. The child said to his mother, one day I want to invent something to make a mobile phone**.

It can be seen how much children want their father's company!

My two babies are very happy, when we get home from work, their father will pick them up as soon as possible, kiss and hug, play games with them, and even when the child asks for a hug during meals, he will put down the dishes and chopsticks and hug the child. If you are really hungry, you can eat with your child in your arms. After dinner, I played various games with the children, and they enjoyed being with my dad and at the same time lightened my load.

So the happiest time in my family is playing with my kids every night.

Because of the long-term companionship of their father, the two children have very cheerful personalities and love to laugh. Dad is also very gentle and rarely murders children. Erbao often hugs his father's face and kisses and hugs, and I am jealous.

Judging from the performance of children, the companionship of parents is very important, a father should fulfill the responsibility of being a father, this responsibility is not only the need for you to take the money home, the child's emotional needs are higher than the material requirements, the father should try to share a part of the energy to accompany the child, and the child who grows up in the company will be healthier.

Erbao mother: There are two treasures at home, an intermediate Montessori teacher, a parenting columnist on many platforms, and a self-**** person.

Fatherhood is a great profession, fathers and children get along with a lot of knowledge, every child hopes to be able to have a good father to accompany their life. In fact, no matter how old we are, we are all children in the eyes of our parents. What are the characteristics of a good father?

The first point is that you can play with your children.

As a child, I think everyone hopes to have a father who can play with us, sometimes I hope that my father is a child king, and when we are free, I hope to be able to take us to the playground to play, even if we don't go to the playground, I hope to be able to have the company of our father, to be able to make us happy, and to feel relaxed with my father. When I make a mistake, I hope that my father can help us resist my mother's anger, and my mother will always be a united front, and my mother is the big boss. The two survive together under the clutches of their mother.

The second point is to understand children and educate children.

In fact, we are all growing up from children, we have all experienced children's days, children also hope to be able to get the understanding of their father, is now life has become better, but children still have their troubles, do not want to make up so many classes, fathers can understand us, know the difficulties of children, so that children can have more freedom, can do something they like. Help your child solve their problems. I hope that the father is kind, can educate the child well and kindly, don't beat the child at every turn, I hope that the father can teach by word and deed, so that the child will remember it for a long time.

Educate children in the right way, so that children can know how to behave and establish correct values.

The third point is to protect the child.

Children need to be protected, I think the protection of the father is the most important thing for the child, the child hopes to be able to grow up healthily under the father's arm, the child thinks that the father's back is broad, when the child encounters difficulties, the father can stand up to help us shelter from the wind and rain. Even if your child is a little wrong, but you must stand on the side of the child, the child needs care at this time, and when the matter is over, the father is educating the child.

Fourth, leave a good future for your children.

It is very important for everyone to have a good family foundation, if the father can work hard for the child, or some life capital, for the child in the future will be able to struggle for many years, so the father can give our children to prepare for the future is a great help to the child. Such fathers are very popular with their children.

Fathers give us life, in fact, we as children should not pick on fathers for anything. Father has given us the most precious thing, and we should love our Father.

It is more understandable and understands the child's heart, whether it is a father or a mother, it will definitely be more able to make the child like it. <>

Authoritative patriarchy can be stressful and restrictive for children.

Because authoritative fathers are mostly very strict and not very sympathetic, he also expresses his reluctance to take the initiative to understand you, not very good at listening to your ideas, and not very concerned about your opinions.

Most of them do what they want as parents. And it's irrefutable. But for such active and immature children, there will be a lot of conflict.

It is super easy to have a relationship with your father that is either very "hot" and will cause conflicts; Either it's very "cold", and the two don't know what to say when they're together. <>

And, of course, there is no authority, and children can not "take their father" in their eyes at home. Such fathers have a good temper, but they do not have the momentum of "head of the family".

It doesn't build credibility in your children's minds, and they don't listen to your advice.

The best one is the rational understanding type. Such a father is as enviable as a melon seed face.

They can pay attention to their children's learning and life in a timely manner. I won't be forced to study, but I will never relax. They prefer to communicate with their children in a friendly way rather than forcing orders.

Let the child be coquettish, tell humorous jokes at home, be able to understand the child's interests and hobbies, and encourage the child to do what he likes.

The point is that they are not compulsory, do not burden the child's heart, and accompany the child's growth in guidance and understanding.

And with such a father, the whole family environment will be more relaxed and pleasant. The relationship between the child and the father has not only deepened, but also increased.

Parents can better make the most appropriate behavior for their children's state and psychology. <>

Fathers who spoil their children, but are not accustomed to many interactions between their children and their children's daily life, are loved by their children.

I remember that when I was a child, I liked my dad very much, because when I proposed that I wanted to go to the amusement park, my dad would keep it in mind, arrange the time, and take me to the amusement park to play, for example, there are some games that must be played by two people, such as riding a bicycle in the air, I myself belong to the kind of people who like to go up, but don't have much strength to ride, my dad knows this hobby of mine.

Every time I go to the amusement park, he takes me to ride the moon bike, and when I get tired of riding, my dad will let me stop, and he will take care of the ride, and that's what it's like to be pampered by my dad.

Sometimes my dad would take me to the park, where there was a place to feed the pigeons, and I always wanted to get close to the pigeons, but I was afraid that the pigeons would get too close to me. Dad would come up to me at this time and make a demonstration, when the pigeon was quietly eating the feed on Dad's shoulder, I would feel that the pigeon was not so scary, because of Dad's demonstration, I would become afraid to approach the pigeon. That's the power my father can bring to me.

I think when children begin to worship their fathers, and when they really like their fathers, if you want to say what a child's favorite father should be, I think there should be a thousand ways to say it for a thousand children, but what will not change is the child's heart of reverence for his father.

I like my dad because he will be willing to listen to what I say, not perfunctory, but take it seriously, and the father who is true to his word is my favorite, because that kind of father will always take his children's words to heart.

There is a slight difference between the parenting style of the father and the mother, so the child's feelings for the father and the mother are also completely different, but most children will have a good relationship with their mother. This is because most of the father's grip is a strict education, while the mother has more patience and gentleness towards the child, so the child's feelings for the father and mother are completely different. But most children don't like their dads, and this is also because their dads' personality traits are not popular with children, so do you know what are the characteristics of dads who are least liked by children?

The first is the father's education method, many fathers will choose to criticize education, but this is very undesirable. Because if you always criticize your child, it will make your child feel inferior, suppress your child's self-confidence, and you will also be bored with your father. There is also the indiscriminate scolding of the child, in fact, the father should first ask the child why he did this, and it is possible that from the child's point of view, this matter is the right thing to do.

Therefore, the father should consider the problem from the perspective of the child, and cannot scold the child indiscriminately.

And then there's the macho father. Most boys will have a little machismo, but there is no harm in mild machismo, but if it is a severe macho premature boredomism, it will cause the child to be offended. Because of the serious machismo father, he does not allow his children and his other half to contradict him, nor does he allow them to oppose him, which will cause the child's inner disgust.

Moreover, fathers should not always be condescending when facing the problem of communicating with their children, but listen to their children as friends, talk with their children, and let the children have a sense of equality in their hearts.

In fact, when children are young, all they have are parents, and children like their parents in their hearts, so we should let our children maintain this kind of feelings, and we can't let children hate themselves because of their inappropriate behavior. If this is the case, it will not only affect the relationship between the father and the child, but also the child's future development.

These characteristics are that they are very disrespectful to their children, often criticize their own children, hate their own children, are very strict with their children, and do not understand their children.

For example, if they have a big temper, don't like to be clean, beat their mother, are unhygienic, and don't accompany their children, these fathers are not easy to like their children.

The father who is least liked by his children is often very disregarded for his family, and often scolds and scolds his children, does not pay attention to the emotions of his children, and will also educate his children harshly. Often do not listen to the child.

The work is very busy, there is no way to accompany the nuclear dust child, and when he accompanies the child, he is always angry, always scolds the child, and only cares about the child's grades, such a father is particularly annoying. Type early.

Preface: Many parents will ask their children such a question, do you love dad or love mom, many children will, love mom because mom spends more time with him. But in the education of the family, the role of the father is also very important, if it is missing, it will have a great impact on the child, and the following will share with you the 4 types of fathers that children dislike the most.

Some fathers have the habit of smoking and drinking, and they will show it in front of their children, which is a bad habit and if it is not disguised, it will have a great impact on the children, because the children are in the process of physical development, and inhaling second-hand smoke will hinder their normal growth. At the same time, the child Duan Dou's imitation ability is very strong, they don't know how much damage this poison will bring to the body, they just think it's very cool. At the same time, if the child sees the drunken side of the father, it will leave a very deep impression on the child.

We all know that father's love is very heavy, but the grip is silent, and it is always shown in some details. But these details can't be expressed by throwing tantrums. If a father always likes to use his authority, lose his temper at every turn, or even beat and scold his children, this will make the father-son relationship more and more estranged, and at the same time, it will also affect the child's personality, they will become more extreme, even rebellious.

Both fathers and mothers are very important for the growth of children, and the love received by a child is incomplete without it. Fathers are usually busy with work and do not have time to spend with their children, but they must find time to spend a perfect day with their children. If the father does not respect his wife, then the child does not like such a father's horn wide acacia color.

The couple quarrels and scolds every few days, which can leave irreparable damage to the child.