What is it like to have a desperate mother?

The words of such a mother will drive me crazy, and I feel that I would rather not have such a mother.

I think that's how my grandmother is, she really pushes her daughters out of a lot of the time. She is stubborn, and she relies on the old and sells the old, and she can't tolerate others to make the slightest bad joke on her. These are some minor problems, and she is still very stubborn.

It is normal for an elderly person to live in a child's house, but whoever she lives in, whose house she lives in, will not be happy. It's not that she is not welcome to live, but that she lives there and knows all day long to get you in trouble.

She had been staying at my aunt's house before, and no one had ever picked her up, so that was it. But she still often quarreled with my aunt, and said that she should save her and not force her, and I think her daughter should say this.

I remember once after a quarrel with my aunt, I packed up my clothes and wanted to leave, and I heard my aunt say that she was like this at every turn, not once or twice. And she was not familiar with that place at all, and she was afraid that she would be lost. <>

My parents came home and took her to live with us. Thinking that it is not easy to come back, it is good to stay at our house during this time, and it is time for us to do our filial piety.

But the day after she was picked up, she was clamoring to leave. After more than ten days, my dad has a bad temper, and he sees that she is making trouble every day to leave. I sent her back directly, but the next day after I sent her back, she made a fuss about coming to our house. And say something nasty.

I heard my aunt say that if those people walking on the street don't give her leaflets, she will scold others. If it weren't for my aunt's presence, I really don't know what it would be like to quarrel with others. My aunt had no choice but to point to her head and tell others that my grandmother had a nervous problem.

It's really helpless to meet such an old man, and she can't do anything at all.

I always told me that my family was poor. I've always had a pair of fat pants all year round, laundry detergent to wash my hair, no padded jackets, no toilet paper, no menstrual holidays, not to mention sanitary napkins. When I say it, I will scold me, and I will beat me when I make trouble.

I have low self-esteem, sensitivity, emotional instability, and pettiness. After getting married, let me make trouble for my in-laws, and ask me to go to ** and divorce. Look down on my husband, look down on me, no money.

Everyone depends on what kind of mother you meet.

No. There is a desperate father ......

It's a bad experience, and there's a big reason for it because of the disharmony in family relationships.

Ways to manage a good relationship with your mother:

1. Chat with your mother.

How do you get along with your mother? Accompany your mother to do housework for a while, talk homely, ask your mother more about the trivial things of tea, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, listen to her daily life, and be a good questioner and listener.

2. Help mothers develop hobbies.

If we don't have a lot of time to spend with our mother, we help her develop some hobbies and hobbies to pass the time. The mother is the person I trust the most and is closest to, and then the difference between mother and daughter or mother and son is dozens of years old, and it is inevitable that there will be a generation gap! At this time, it will be much better to cultivate common interests with your mother, but you can communicate with each other.

3. Hug your mother.

How do I get along with my mother? In daily interactions, many people obviously regard their mothers as important people, and if something happens to their mothers, they will inevitably be very worried. However, why do you always unconsciously irritable when facing your mother?

Maybe we are not used to saying to our mother, I miss you, many people will not use kisses to express their feelings when they meet, but we can still hug our mothers often.

Maybe your mother has caused you a lot of harm, but people should take these things lightly, after all, they are their own mothers. There is no contradiction that cannot be resolved, communicate with your mother more.

After a person is drunk, he will call you **, and you must cherish this person, because he is a person who hides you in a clean corner in the deepest part of his heart. Maybe he loves you, and you are his bosom lover; Maybe he needs you the most, you are his confidante; Perhaps he needs your understanding the most, you are his ambiguous lover. Either way, be cherished...

The right shoes, only the feet know; The right person, only the heart knows. The best time is when you are with each other, but you can not see each other; The best relationship is that both parties understand, but they don't need to say it. Companionship doesn't have to be all the time, as long as you have it in your heart; Feelings don't have to be confessed, as long as they are felt.

Language is not everything, feel it with your heart; The oath is not forever, as the old saying goes, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, trust is like a piece of paper, crumpled, even if it is smoothed, it can't go back.

I wish you a happy 2015.