What are the differences between your husband and your in laws before and after receiving the certif

In fact, before and after my theory, my husband and my in-laws have no difference between me at all, the only difference may be that they are better for me, in fact, every woman is a weaker place in this society, and every woman is sentimental, many women choose love, not only choose the person they love, but also choose this family, because we know, Every woman who marries into another family has to be integrated into the life of another family.

Therefore, when we choose a lover, we must consider all of him, see if the other party's family is more in line with our three views, and see if our parents can treat them like their own daughters. If the other party can do all this, then I think this woman's happiness should be particularly beautifulPersonally, before I married my husband, his parents were very kind to me, and every time I went to their house, they would cook a big table of dishes

And everything is considered from my point of view, which is better for me than they are for their son, which makes me very movedWhen my husband returned home with his marriage certificate after we got the license, his parents were even happierAnd the attitude towards me is also more friendly, then I already really belong to their family, so I have never regarded me as an outsider, and even some family meetings in the family will let me go to such an environment.

It makes me feel very warm, and it also makes me feel that I really chose the right familyUntil now, my in-laws have a very good attitude towards me, and there have been a lot of disputes between me and my husband, and my mother-in-law will not scold me, but will blame my husbandHe thinks that my husband didn't protect me well, so that I have a lot of grievances in my life, so I am especially grateful to my parents-in-law.

Before and after receiving the certificate, I don't think there is much difference between my in-laws, but my husband is more different, one is that he doesn't give me holidays on holidays, and there are no gifts, and the second is that he doesn't take me with him anymore when he goes out to drink.

Before marriage, you can only count your fiancé and your fiancé's parents, but after you get the certificate, you will be counted as your husband and in-laws, because the state has recognized the two of you as husband and wife.

There are no major changes before and after my husband got the license. Because we ourselves have lived together for a while. The in-laws have changed, they didn't need to pay special attention to what they said before, and after getting the certificate, they always asked to spend weekends and holidays together.

The difference is the attitude, they are very enthusiastic before they get married, and they are very cold to you after they get married.

In addition to the sense of belonging, the man rarely becomes more industrious, but this does not mean that he doesn't like you, but the small home of the two is used as a place to relax and be lazy.

1. Men become lazy after marriage. When dating, I feel that the man seems to be more intimate and very positive. Let him go far away to buy a snack, and he will run happily without complaining.

But after receiving the certificate, if you make such a request, the other party is likely to think that you are unreasonable. It seems that this is the situation that most married men will have, after all, you are already a family, and you don't have to provide for it like this when you get married, anyway, you won't leave because of this kind of thing. Everyone chooses a comfortable and lazy way to live a comfortable life.

2. I prefer to party rather than accompany my wife. Married men are relatively safe because of that certificate, and they feel that you won't break up casually, and they think that the person who marries the family doesn't need to be too close, and the cost required doesn't need to be too much. So I prefer to start my own circle and meet more new people.

3. Have more interest in developing your hobbies. After marriage, you will find that men become more fond of games, and will spend a lot of time playing, such as on the Internet, or golf. If you feel that the person who marries into the family will not run, then do more interesting things and make up for what you have fallen behind.

Fourth, pay more attention to your own work. When dating, the focus is to coax the object home, so after receiving the certificate, the focus is the newly established small family of both parties. Although this newly established relationship is new, it is fragile and the foundation is still weak, and it requires the hard work of both people.

So there will be a lot of pressure on men to shift their focus to construction.

Fifth, married men are more likely to avoid housework. Laziness is an inherent vice of the human species. When dating, in order to gain the favor of the other party, both men and women will pay attention to their own image, men shape their own responsibilities, and women are mostly virtuous.

However, there is another difference between men and women is that after getting a certificate and having their own small family, men begin to be lazy, while women are more diligent, as if men consume their enthusiasm when they are dating, and many things at home can be done without doing. And the inherent thinking of China is that men are mainly in charge of outside affairs, and the home is women's territory.

Guys will please you in every way before they get married, and they will appear to be very diligent and will do anything. After getting married, the shortcomings were exposed and he became very lazy.

Boys are actually no different. At that time, girls will have a heavier heart for gain and loss, and they will think about how to get married suddenly.

Before getting the certificate, all kinds of things were good, but after getting the certificate, I lost my sense of crisis, it was not so good, and I didn't spoil girls so much, but this is only part of the people.

Boys will do everything they can to please you before they get married, and they will depend on you for everything, but after they get married, they will become very lazy, and they don't even bother to say sweet words, and they don't feel the need to say it.

Boys are immature before receiving the certificate, but after receiving the certificate, the boy will mature and take responsibility for the family.

Before marriage, boys will be more naïve, but after marriage, they will become mature with a sense of family responsibility.

He will become more responsible, and he will become the pillar of the family in the future, sheltering his family from the wind and rain.

After getting the marriage certificate, the boy will be lazy, because after getting the marriage certificate, the boy feels that he has already got you, so he doesn't need to coax you anymore.

Before getting the certificate, everything will follow you, listen to your words, and after receiving the certificate, the original form will be revealed, and you will start to be impatient.

Before getting the certificate, he may be obedient to you, but after getting married, it may not be like this, and he will know how to resist.

The old man thinks that since he has registered his marriage with his husband and his husband has changed his words, then you can and should call your parents when you call your parents-in-law **, this is the principle of reciprocity. After all, it's not often **, and there are few opportunities to meet, so just call it! If you arrange a change of mouth agenda at your wedding ceremony, your in-laws will still give you a red envelope for changing your mouth, because this is in public!

Actually, it's a matter of changing the mouth, if you want to give, they won't give you a change of mouth fee because you called in advance, if you don't want to give, you wait until you do the wedding wine and then call people and don't give it. So... Let's call it.

After all, you're already husband and wife. It's kind of getting used to it slowly.

Change! People around you are joking! The old man will give a red envelope, but it's not you who change your mind for the money! ~

Can't change it, your husband called him, you can't call it, and continue to call your uncle and aunt, I haven't changed the tea yet, and I haven't given the change fee, so I will be light.

Don't change your tune. You wait until the wedding ceremony to change your tune, and it can also add to the atmosphere.

If each other's parents are very clear, they are already a family, then it shouldn't matter...

Happy thing, you can boldly bring this up with your in-laws, listen to them, of course, pay attention to the tone and attitude of the speech.

Go with the flow, think too much and be awkward.

The wine ceremony is just a ceremony, if you have done the ceremony and have not registered, the law will not recognize you as husband and wife! In fact, whether to change the name or not is a title, but it is best to change it, because every parent wants their daughter to start a family, and they will be happy!

You should call your parents in person, and you should call your parents-in-law when you mention it to others.

Legally speaking, you are legally married.

The other side has changed his words, and I think you should change your words too.

The difference is significant. If the co-ownership of the house by the two people in the two multiple names is "co-ownership", then:

1. When writing the names of you and your mother-in-law, your mother-in-law accounts for half of the property, and you and the man only account for half of the property;

2. When you and the man's names are written, both husband and wife own the entire property rights.

I didn't have a good relationship with my mother-in-law, and after the quarrel, I went to my girlfriend's house and learned that my pregnant in-laws were moving out of the house. I am a post-90s generation, twenty-six years old this year, and now my husband and I are also married, my husband and I are junior high school classmates, so we have known each other for a long time, but because my husband's personality has always been shy, so before, the two of us were not very familiar, because my own personality is very aggressive, so I am not very willing to be friends with people like him.

But later, the two of us joined the work, after we worked, by chance, we met again, to be honest, I didn't recognize him at first, and finally he called my name, and then introduced himself, I remembered him, but I have to say, he has changed really too much, and now his personality is also very cheerful, and very talkative, this is also a work related to him, since that meeting, he often asked me, after a time he confessed to meand we are together.

The relationship between the two of us has always been very good, and my husband was very good to me, and then we got married, and when we got married, because the conditions of my mother-in-law's family were not too rich, and there was no extra money to give us the house, so we lived with my mother-in-law after we got married. I didn't feel anything at first, but my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been together for a long time, and there will inevitably be contradictions.

I get along very well with my parents-in-law, because we don't usually live together, so there is a lot less friction and conflict caused by trivial matters, and I usually listen to my husband in major matters.

I have a good relationship with my parents-in-law, we get along very well, respect each other, care about each other, and don't interfere too much in each other's affairs.

The relationship is very bad. Because they are harsh on me, there is a generation gap in age and no blood relationship, and the contradiction gradually rises. I chose to run away.

I get along very well with my parents-in-law because my parents-in-law are more sensible and understand our way of life.

I have a very good relationship with my parents-in-law because I often invite them out to dinner, and they are very happy and happy, and we are a happy family.

It's more harmonious, my parents-in-law are very good people, and they don't talk much, of course, I'm also very good.

I have a close relationship with my parents-in-law, they never embarrass me, they take good care of me, and treat me like their own daughter.

I have a good relationship with my parents-in-law, and they take good care of me, probably because their son is very good to me.

The relationship between us is very strange, because the concept of life between us and the elders is different, so in order to avoid conflicts, I choose to ignore it.

I have a good relationship with my parents-in-law, they are very good to me because their son loves me very much, and I am also very good to them because their son loves me very much.

The parents' opinions are just for reference, and the big ideas still have to be taken by themselves.

In such a situation, communication is not good, and the only way to do it is to divorce.

If you want to leave, you will regret it.

I want to say this, you are now an adult, and you are all married, and you have your own ideas and abilities, right? Are you happy with your life? Fortunately, only you know if you are happy, why are you already an adult?

You have the right to be the master, and you have to ask your parents, your parents, if you really like you, see you are sad outside, unhappy, your parents will definitely stand in your position to consider for you, after all, we all know that the love of the previous generation for the next generation is selfless and unconditional, so you tell your misfortune with your parents, your parents will definitely make decisions for you, now the society is so open, don't have the old feudal thinking of the past, feel that you have to live with him for a lifetime when you get married, Even if you are not happy, you have to endure it, now is a new era, if you are happy, two people will be together, if you are not happy, two people will be separated, and the current marriage and divorce rate is very high, so as long as you are happy, happy, your parents will be happy, you will be happy, make a decision early, think about it, don't torture yourself anymore.