Tell us about how your views changed before and after going to university.

Before I went to college, I thought that I didn't have to go to class every day in college, and I could play whatever I wanted. After going to college, I found that everything was an illusion, but the teacher was really not so strict, and if you often skip classes, the consequences will be very serious, and you will not be able to complete your studies. Therefore, I would like to advise future generations that you should pay attention to your university studies.

In my opinion, what has changed is my view of the world, before going to university, I thought it was only superficial things, but after going to school, I thought about how to make myself a real important person, how to become a more valuable person.

I think before I go to college I think about how to live, and after I go to college, I think about how to live a high standard of life.

In the past, people told me that it would be easy to go to college, but after going to college, I realized that it was not the case at all, and my daily life was full of arrangements, which was really more tiring than high school.

Before going to college, I wanted to graduate as soon as possible so that I could work and earn money to reduce the pressure on my family.

When I used to think that university must be very mysterious, very profound, but after I went to school, I found that college is actually like this, and it is not so mysterious.

I think my view of learning has changed a lot, and I no longer have the same stressful learning as before, but I feel that learning is just a habit.

The biggest change in my view of what needs to be learned is that I no longer simply know how to learn, but I can conduct in-depth research in my own subjective consciousness.

In my opinion, the biggest change in my perception is the perception of society, which used to be just like the general public, but after going to school, I was able to see the essence of things from some simple things.

I think that this is the benefit of going to college, and I don't want to be presumptuous anymore, and I can look at many things from an adult perspective.

I take care of the feelings of the people around me, after all, I have never lived in a group dormitory before.

1. Learning is no longer the whole of life. Before going to college, most of the time in my life was occupied by studying, and my classmates were working hard for their grades, and some of the top students even communicated with each other to study after class. After going to university, of course, studying is still the main task of college students, but there are many things worth doing that can enrich your life and improve your ability in addition to studying.

For example, student organizations, clubs, competitions, volunteer activities, and social practices.

gigs and much more. In the same way, judging a person's excellence is no longer purely based on grades, but based on the comprehensive quality of a person's ability. Therefore, in college, grades are not everything, and a person cannot be judged simply by this.

In universities, due to the different directions of people's efforts, there are not a few students who take academic performance as the main direction of efforts, but there are also many students who strive to improve their practical ability and work ability. Therefore, university study is no longer the whole of life, and of course, the difficulty of excellence will also increase.

2. Know how to observe. University is actually a small society, there will be different people with different personalities, and in the process of dealing with different people, I gradually learn to observe. For example, the characteristics of each person, observing a person's words and deeds, and so on.

In this process, you will find a lot of things that you haven't paid attention to before, but important things, and you will gain a lot of insights and insights, and you can also find real like-minded friends.

3. Know how to think and plan. After you go to college, you will not have parents and teachers watching your life and study like in middle and high school, everything becomes your own arrangement. So, gradually, I learned to plan.

College life has changed significantly compared to secondary school life:

Changes in learning requirements. In the study at the university level, the breadth and depth of knowledge have been greatly increased, and the professional direction has been basically determined, so it is necessary to vigorously exert the initiative and creativity of learning. In addition to the compulsory courses of public subjects, basic courses and professional courses, each major also offers elective courses, and students can choose related courses according to their personal interests and abilities, so that the free study time is increased and the initiative of learning is greatly enhanced.

University libraries and various information are abundant, and the channels for acquiring knowledge are more diversified, and proficient use of libraries and the Internet to collect materials and grasp information has become a necessary learning skill for students. It is an important feature of university learning to extensively dabble in relevant knowledge, master scientific learning methods, and cultivate the ability to think, analyze and solve problems independently.

Changes in living circumstances. After entering the university, students leave their parents to live independently, and many students are still far away from their hometowns, and they have to rely on their own daily life such as clothing, food, housing, transportation and school. Students come from all over the world, and there may be differences in hobbies and living habits, so it is necessary to take the initiative to strengthen communication and exchanges, and to understand and care for each other.

Students with strong self-care skills will adapt quickly and cope with it easilyStudents with weak self-care skills may misplan and neglect one or the other. Therefore, students should adapt to the new environment as soon as possible, not only learn to live a group life, but also learn to deal with various practical problems encountered in their study and life independently.

Changes in social activity. After entering the university, the number of organizational activities such as party organizations, youth league organizations, student unions, and class committees increasedThe activities of various student clubs voluntarily organized by students with similar interests and hobbies are rich and colorful, and the opportunities for students to participate in various social activities have been greatly increased. Therefore, students can actively participate in various activities according to their own characteristics, hobbies, time and energy, reasonably arrange their extracurricular life, and exercise their organizational and communication skills.

Going to college, for rural children, is an opportunity to change their destiny, a big springboard. Facing the loess with their backs to the sky, the farmers who have been dealing with the land for generations are really hard, and there are really not too many roads for their children to choose.

First, there is no backer, and second, there is no background, rural children want to have a piece of the world that belongs to themselves, and they must rely on their own efforts. When you go to university, you can learn more knowledge to arm your mind, and you can also meet classmates and friends from all over the world, and someone may help you on the road to entrepreneurship in the future.

When you go to university, you can get in touch with a wider world, increase your knowledge, and get more opportunities. Jumping out of the farm and letting yourself in the big family of society will enrich yourself more, replenish your brain, and let yourself get in touch with more friends who are helpful to you.

On your own. So, you have to work hard, rural children, going to university is the best shortcut to your success!

When I was in high school, I saw the cancellation of the college entrance examination on the hot search, and the college entrance examination is unfair, I flipped down and saw a blogger's point of view, and I particularly agreed that the core of the view is that the college entrance examination is the only opportunity we can "contend with" capital (it may not be too appropriate to use it here), and it is a fair and able way for us to get ahead. Maybe when I was in high school, I just agreed with my opinions, and I also felt that not all of them were earthling, so what was the big difference??

But when I got to university, I really realized that compared with those children who were born in first- and second-tier cities and lived a prosperous life, there is indeed a gap between children from rural areas and them. (There is no disparagement here, I myself am also from the countryside, went to a better university, and I posted this article only because I recently saw a discussion among netizens on the topic of "what does going to college bring to rural children", and the following are just some of my views on this topic.) ）

I admit that going to college gives rural children a chance to lie on the edge of the well and see the outside world, but for most rural college students, they are limited by their own family background and cannot achieve class leapfrogging, and eventually fall into the well.

College students who come out of the rural areas face all kinds of social pressures as soon as they graduate, and college students who come out of the current education system are instilled in school with the idea that the strong are respected, and if they have good academic performance in their student years, they will be welcomed, and their test results will be measured.

After entering the society, they naturally want to be more successful than others, and at this time, the standard of success becomes wealth, so they have to work hard, want to buy a house in a big city to stay, and pursue worldly success. They can understand the injustice of society, no matter how hard they work, the people at the bottom rely on the money they get in exchange for their lives, and they don't have the opportunity to take over the housing prices in big cities.

When they were studying, they might be inspired by the story of Liu Qiangdong's counterattack, which became the motivation for their own learning for a while, but after they went to college, they realized that there are very few rural children who can become rich through hard work.

When I went to college, I felt more sorry for my parents, I was less uncomfortable and shy when dealing with strangers, and I learned to live alone and become assertive.

When I went to college, I stepped into society with half a foot. College is really different from the previous high school and junior high school, and it seems that the previous self only needs to study well, and I don't have to think too much about things and don't have to think too much about problems outside of study. The previous life was very monotonous, and it was also under the control of the parents.

But after leaving your parents and going to college, you have to deal with a lot of things by yourself, and your parents can't help you anymore. First of all, we college students must learn to manage our living expenses, whether our parents give them monthly or semester living expenses, we must learn to use these living expenses reasonably. After all, there is so much money, and there are many places to spend it.

Every time at the end of the month, when I see that there are only a few dozen yuan left on my WeChat, I will feel that it is really too easy to spend money, and it is really difficult to make money, so I really understand how difficult it is for my parents to pay for this family, and every penny is exchanged for sweat by my parents. So gradually I stopped buying big things, and every time I bought something, I thought about whether I really needed to buy it and whether it was worth buying.

Here are three things I think I'm going to do.

1. Learn self-discipline.

From primary school to university graduation, we have to go to school for more than ten years, what is the meaning?

I used to think that it was about learning knowledge, but in the last two years, I realized that it is more important to learn self-discipline.

If you learn self-discipline, you will be able to self-lead and educate yourself, and you will definitely be able to learn whatever you want to learn, buy a book, find some information, and you will definitely be able to learn.

This kind of life has infinite possibilities.

Many people are confused, anxious, and have a messy life, not because they are not smart, not because they are incapable, not because they lack opportunities, but because they are not self-disciplined.

Those who are self-disciplined are outstanding, and those who are lazy are out.

2. Develop a core competency.

Should I join a club when I go to college? Do you want to run for class committee? Do you want to participate in various competitions? The answer is: yes.

In the freshman year, I did addition, and I participated as much as I could, but after the sophomore year, I had to do subtraction, and if I could, I would retreat.

To do addition is to try more, gain knowledge, and at the same time find what you are good at and like.

Doing subtraction is to focus on improving one of your abilities and doing the most cost-effective thing, because your time is the most scarce.

So what competencies should be cultivated?

The second principle is to do something that is sustainable, transferable, and compoundable.

3. Reading and writing.

The thing I regret most when I go to college is that I didn't read a lot of books. Therefore, my personality is not sound and my outlook is unstable, which leads to a bad life for a long time.

Reading is the most convenient and cost-effective way to shape the three views.

To see the world, you have to spend money to travel; When you see a cow man, a cow man may not want to see you.

And reading can break through the limitations of time and space, allowing you to see a larger world; Reading is also a dialogue with cattle people and making friends with great people; That's a lot of value.

If you insist on reading three or four hundred books in four years of college, your cognitive breadth and depth will greatly jump, and you will surpass most people.

Moreover, university is also the best time to study, on the one hand, there is enough time, and on the other hand, there is not much external pressure.

Because reading requires enough time, a certain amount of experience, and sufficient practice to truly understand.

And most of us are busy with work and household chores every day in order to survive, and there is not much time at the end of the day to study and ...... quietly

That's how I feel now, I have too little time, so I can only get up early and squeeze in time to read.

Also, reading books is best paired with writing.

The essence of reading is to learn knowledge, and then through the internalization of knowledge, promote our behavior change.

But if you want to internalize knowledge, it is not enough to just read it, the best way is to practice and output.

The process of writing output will force us to think, and it will further help us break through the knowledge blockage and reach the level of integration.