What does it feel like to like someone? I obviously don t like him, why is it so heartbroken when I

Updated on psychology 2024-04-21
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Love is free to give, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since the choice of love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is difficult, when he (she) is happy with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad to him (her) comfort. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. Loving someone wants him (her) to be happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.

    Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a token that does not fade....All this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love. Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist If my answer can help you, please give a 5 star, thank you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Vanity is deep inside everyone, and whether we want to admit it or not, everyone loves the feeling of being pursued. Because this can make a person feel their own charm, but also can make the vanity rooted in the heart, greatly satisfied.

    There is someone who has always liked you and has been pursuing you, but you have never agreed to the other person's pursuit. Although you don't like this person deep down, you don't hate this pursuit, and deep down, the other person is already yours.

    This is actually the norm of a person, and people like the feeling of being pursued, and they also like this state of being sought after. But when the other party suddenly doesn't pursue you, you will feel that the love you once had for the other party has disappeared, and this feeling of having it but disappearing will make people suffer from gains and losses, and it will also make people feel a little difficult to accept.

    This is actually a very normal psychological fluctuation, although you have not actually lost anything, but you feel that you have lost the love of the other person, you feel that your charm is threatened, and even you feel as if you have been hurt by the other person. But all this is just a psychological fluctuation in your heart, the other party doesn't know at all, and you have never given the other party a chance to be with you, otherwise it will definitely not end like this.

    As described in the title, if you obviously don't like others, but you feel uncomfortable after rejecting their pursuits, this is actually a manifestation of a person's courtship. But if you like each other, then you should be with each other without having to put too much test, and if you don't like it, then there is no need to be sad after rejection, because you can't get together at all.

    I don't think there's any need to dwell too much on this kind of problem in life. Only if you can clearly recognize whether you like someone or not, you can truly have the ability to pursue the happiness you want.

    People always hope that they can be the one who holds the moon in the stars, but in fact, if you like it, you like it, and if you don't like it, you don't like it. No one can always possess the love of others and not give anything in return.

    Go find the happiness you want, and there's no need to dwell too much on someone you don't like.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You reject a person you don't like, but you feel a little uncomfortable in your heart, it means that you still have a place in your heart, although you may not like to take it on the surface, or it is difficult to accept him, but deep down there is still a place for him, so after you refuse, then you feel that he may no longer have contact with you in the future, and have anything to do with it, but you have some feelings of gain and loss, so it will be uncomfortable.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is because I have inadvertently fallen in love with each other, and it is also because I have violated my heart.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Personally, I think it's because the other party really likes you, but you cruelly refuse, and at this time you will feel a little guilty in your heart, so you will feel uncomfortable.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A person always hopes that others like him, even if you don't like others to take you to enjoy this, others like you feel less than how much a person likes you in his heart, and there is some discomfort.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It may be that this person is very good to you, although you don't like him, but you have some dependence on him, so it will be very uncomfortable.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Maybe I still like each other very much, that's why I'm so uncomfortable, and if I really don't like each other, I definitely won't be so uncomfortable.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you reject someone you don't like, you will still feel a little uncomfortable, afraid that the other party will be hurt in your heart, and you are afraid that you will miss someone who is good to you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because you may enjoy the feeling that the other person likes you, you will feel a gap and disappointment if you reject the other person.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you don't like a person and reject him, you will feel uncomfortable. It shows that you are a person with a soft heart, and after rejecting others, you will care a lot about what others think, such as: if you say so, will he be very angry, will he be very sad, etc.

    Thus putting pressure on oneself to influence one's own judgment and the outcome of one's own choice. So don't care too much about what others think, you don't like him in the first place, and being with him is not the right choice.

    The right way to reject a person: tell him your options tactfully but bluntly. For example:

    Sorry we don't fit, but hope you can find a better partner. But if you don't express it clearly, the other party will think that he still has a chance, and he will pursue you more hard, and get the result of your final rejection of him, he will be more sad and will suffer more negative psychology.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe your heart is too soft, thinking that this will not hurt him, so you will feel uncomfortable.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You are a simple, kind person, you know that if you reject someone, he will be sad, and you will be unhappy, good and good! It is recommended that you feel more about the real society and human nature, many times, many people and things are involuntarily. Have a great day!

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