I obviously don t like a person, why do I still feel uncomfortable after rejecting him?

I don't think if you don't like a person, if you feel uncomfortable after rejecting him, it must be that you are used to him, and most people will have this problem in their heartsEspecially for girls, if a man has been chasing her, chasing her for many years and suddenly giving up, even if the girl doesn't like the boy, she will still feel uncomfortable in her heart, thinking that he has no determination to persevere, I feel that this kind of heart is still a little sick.

I used to have a friend, he was a boy, he was very fond of one of the girls in our class, we met in high school, and it has been almost ten years nowHe chased this girl for nearly five years or so, and in his sophomore year, that girl fell in love many times, and my friend was in the same city as this girl for this girl, and in the end, my friend himself saw it.

Mainly my friend, he is more dead-eyed, as long as he thinks that he will always do it, all our friends persuaded him, this girl is not suitable for him, but he just doesn't listen, when my friend got married, this girl is still very uncomfortable in his heart,In fact, this kind of emotion is quite understandable, that is, you are used to having someone by your side all the time, which is what everyone calls itSpare tirebar.

I have a male friend next to me, he has been chasing me, when I had a boyfriend before, he didn't say it, and after I broke up, he saw that I had been single and said that he liked me, I really didn't know that he was interested in me before,But I really treat him as a friend, but when I reject him, I still can't bear it in my heart, I feel that I am not so good, and I don't deserve his liking, it's such a psychology.

I know that I don't like this person, but after rejecting him, I feel like I've lost something, and I'm very uncomfortable because I can't let go of a lot of people who care about me, and if a concern is rejected, of course I will feel uncomfortable.

This has something to do with people's possessiveness, everyone has vanity, she hopes that there is someone watching her, everyone wants to be the focus of society, to become a goddess in people's minds, and suddenly there is such a person in front of her, but she has a sense of superiority in her heart, because someone likes herself, no matter who this person is? I'm still very happy in my heart.

After rejecting him, the other party will not come over to like him, and he will not pay for himself, and then he will not get a lot of care, of course, he will feel very uncomfortable.

This is the gap in the heart, the psychological gap, sometimes it will make people have the illusion that they like each other very much, but in fact, they still feel the same as themselves, they don't like it in the first place, it's just because of vanity.

Sometimes it has something to do with people's psychological habits, you are used to the other party's goodness, and suddenly there is no more, and your heart will be empty nagging, and when you get used to the other party not being by your side, you will no longer be empty nagging, so just give a few days to get used to it.

Show that you are a kind person. Rejection itself is a hurtful thing, he will be sad and sad, and you must hope that he can be happy alone.

Not liking him is not the same as hating him, rejecting one person may hurt the other, and many times we are reluctant to hurt someone.

Because many people enjoy being loved by others, once they refuse, they will always be a little unhappy after the previous state of pursuing you disappears.

I feel uncomfortable because something that belongs to me doesn't exist, and I'm a little disappointed, which is not a heartbeat, and I refuse it with peace of mind, so it should be that I can be friends after I break it up.

In my opinion, after all, it is the loss of a person who often revolves around me, and I will definitely feel lost if I lose that sense of centrality.

I think I feel very uncomfortable after rejecting him, which proves that you still have a little feeling for him.

Although I don't like him, I still feel uncomfortable after rejecting him, and I just feel a little sorry for him.

Prove that although you don't like him, you already like his kindness to you! It's okay, what's the matter, just get used to it! There's always going to be a process of adaptation!

It shows that you are a kind-hearted person, you are afraid that rejecting him will hurt him, it is normal to feel uncomfortable, since you don't like him to tell him earlier, it will hurt him much less.

Vanity is deep inside everyone, and whether we want to admit it or not, everyone loves the feeling of being pursued. Because this can make a person feel their own charm, but also can make the vanity rooted in the heart, greatly satisfied.

There is someone who has always liked you and has been pursuing you, but you have never agreed to the other person's pursuit. Although you don't like this person deep down, you don't hate this pursuit, and deep down, the other person is already yours.

This is actually the norm of a person, and people like the feeling of being pursued, and they also like this state of being sought after. But when the other party suddenly doesn't pursue you, you will feel that the love you once had for the other party has disappeared, and this feeling of having it but disappearing will make people suffer from gains and losses, and it will also make people feel a little difficult to accept.

This is actually a very normal psychological fluctuation, although you have not actually lost anything, but you feel that you have lost the love of the other person, you feel that your charm is threatened, and even you feel as if you have been hurt by the other person. But all this is just a psychological fluctuation in your heart, the other party doesn't know at all, and you have never given the other party a chance to be with you, otherwise it will definitely not end like this.

As described in the title, if you obviously don't like others, but you feel uncomfortable after rejecting their pursuits, this is actually a manifestation of a person's courtship. But if you like each other, then you should be with each other without having to put too much test, and if you don't like it, then there is no need to be sad after rejection, because you can't get together at all.

I don't think there's any need to dwell too much on this kind of problem in life. Only if you can clearly recognize whether you like someone or not, you can truly have the ability to pursue the happiness you want.

People always hope that they can be the one who holds the moon in the stars, but in fact, if you like it, you like it, and if you don't like it, you don't like it. No one can always possess the love of others and not give anything in return.

Go find the happiness you want, and there's no need to dwell too much on someone you don't like.

You reject a person you don't like, but you feel a little uncomfortable in your heart, it means that you still have a place in your heart, although you may not like to take it on the surface, or it is difficult to accept him, but deep down there is still a place for him, so after you refuse, then you feel that he may no longer have contact with you in the future, and have anything to do with it, but you have some feelings of gain and loss, so it will be uncomfortable.

This is because I have inadvertently fallen in love with each other, and it is also because I have violated my heart.

Personally, I think it's because the other party really likes you, but you cruelly refuse, and at this time you will feel a little guilty in your heart, so you will feel uncomfortable.

A person always hopes that others like him, even if you don't like others to take you to enjoy this, others like you feel less than how much a person likes you in his heart, and there is some discomfort.

It may be that this person is very good to you, although you don't like him, but you have some dependence on him, so it will be very uncomfortable.

Maybe I still like each other very much, that's why I'm so uncomfortable, and if I really don't like each other, I definitely won't be so uncomfortable.

If you reject someone you don't like, you will still feel a little uncomfortable, afraid that the other party will be hurt in your heart, and you are afraid that you will miss someone who is good to you.

Because you may enjoy the feeling that the other person likes you, you will feel a gap and disappointment if you reject the other person.

Rejecting someone who likes you, but feeling very uncomfortable in your heart, this is possessive, and it is possible that while he likes you, you are also quietly liking him. It's just that I didn't realize it for a while, and I also felt pain when I rejected others, maybe I felt that this relationship was about to be lost, and I was afraid that this relationship would be fleeting. As a modern person, you should not be bound by traditional concepts, even if you refuse, you can chase the other party back, and you must seize the opportunity.

Once you miss it, maybe the other party's heart is not here, it is rare to meet someone you like, you have to learn to cherish it, so let's find out more about it!

One, rejected the person who liked you

Some people are emotionally rational and will consider whether to accept the other person, even if they know that the other person likes them very much, it is difficult to take that step. This is because I already have a clear premonition of the future, and I can also know that it will not last long with the other party, so I have to use a quick knife to cut off the relationship, which is the best way for each other. There are some people who are emotional and would rather break up later to be together, at least they don't miss each other, and they also work hard for this relationship.

It is indeed difficult to speak up when rejecting others, for fear of hurting others' self-esteem, and it is difficult to say it, but it is inevitable that I will feel uncomfortable in my heart.

Two, what's going on?

There are two main reasons, the first is that you like him too. may not be able to accept the other party for various reasons, and after really rejecting the other party, there are some reluctance and want to try to be with the other party. The second point is possessiveness.

Since the other party likes you, he must be revolving around you all day long, rejecting him, and then he will retreat from the difficulty, and he will not always be around you, and there will inevitably be some sense of loss in his heart. If it's the latter, it can only be said that you are too greedy and can imagine the other person as an ordinary friend, and you won't be so uncomfortable.

In short, since you have refused, you should decisively say goodbye to the other party, instead of being indecisive and breaking the thread.

Maybe you're used to his liking for you. After refusal, you are afraid that he will leave, and you will not be able to adapt to the life of no one at once.

It is possible that you have already liked him unconsciously, but you haven't understood it too much, so you will be very sad.

Personally, I think you like this person very much and care about this person very much, which is why this situation occurs.

First of all, it shows that the other party's sincerity has moved you. Emotional problems in the world often confuse everyone, and other people's love for themselves is often a thing, sometimes even if you don't need to say it, you can feel it in your heart, but you can't reply to this matter one by one, but when others do pay their hearts to feel for you, and give you the time and vitality you invest, you will see and be more moved. You will thank Him from the bottom of your heart, so it will hurt you to reject Him.

On the one hand, I feel that refusal will make others sad, but if I don't refuse, it is clear that the damage index value is higher, so I have to refuse as soon as possible.

On the other hand, it is very happy to know that some people like themselves, and refusal means expecting others to find a more suitable person, and they don't have to spend their time on themselves, and it is certainly uncomfortable to lose a fan. That's why I feel sad. But sad is sad, for people who are not suitable for themselves, or politely refuse, to minimize the damage, reduce the time consumption and emotional consumption of TA.

After all, it is often very easy for people to become obsessed with the pampering of others.

First, since people are vain, as long as some people chase them, even if they are not your favorite, the feeling of being chased by others still makes you think it is very useful. After you reject him, the feeling of being admired by others is gone, and if you get used to this feeling, you will indeed feel uncomfortable after suddenly not having it!

Second, you are a kind-hearted person. There's a good chance you don't like this boy very much, but it's not boring! After you reject him, you may feel that it is hurting him, it will make him uncomfortable, and you attribute this to yourself, and subconsciously you will feel that it is not very good for him, so you will be uncomfortable!

It's not that I don't like you, I'm too fond of you. It's not that I flirted with you and rejected you when you confessed, I just couldn't control myself from wanting to get close to you, but I knew too well that you didn't love me.

They were like a thorn in my throat, so hard to swallow that I couldn't spit it out. How do I deal with someone who doesn't treat me well? Besides, I love this person who doesn't love me so much.

That kind of emotional dissonance can only help me to produce pain, tears, hatred, and dissatisfaction. And these pains, tears, dissatisfaction, hatred, will one day lead people to two opposites.

Someone confesses to you that he likes you, but you refuse him, saying that you don't like him very much, I don't think we have anything to feel bad about, if you are very unhappy in your heart, you can tell him, we can be very good friends.