Will a single woman expect a man to take the initiative to meet or chase her?

See how you're chasing...

Most women have vanity, and it is not difficult to catch up.

But there are also some realistic women, if they encounter such a situation, it is even more difficult.

Secondly ...It also depends on your family background and appearance, people always say that they will not judge people by their appearance, but from a practical point of view, most girls will compare their boyfriend's appearance in private...

In addition to appearance, polite, and enterprising men will be more sought after by women.

The above personal views are also withdrawn

No, the specific situation is analyzed on a case-by-case basis, as long as there is a feeling of the old to pursue.

Of course. I'm afraid that I can't say it, I should say that there will be a little shyness.

It is also divided into people, personal ideas are different, some single women will want to have a man to pursue, some feel that it doesn't matter whether they pursue it or not, maybe a little annoying. I'm afraid, I think it's impossible.

If it is a woman who has been injured in the past, she must be very vigilant, no one does not want someone to hurt you, you have to be more patient and careful, and more importantly, you must treat her sincerely.

I think it's contradictory, but it's also scared.

It should be said that most women like men to take the initiative to chase you, even if she doesn't love you, she won't blame you, I'm afraid it's a little girl!! Not a woman!!

When someone she hates chases her, she is afraid, and when someone she likes chases her, she looks forward to it.

Here's what I think.

First of all. Being single is a normal state of life, but some people are single for a long time and are unable to find a partner that suits them. Here are the reasons that can lead some people to be single for a long time:

1. Personality traits: Some people are introverted by nature and are not good at socializing and expressing emotions, which makes it difficult for them to form deep friendships or romantic relationships with others. Additionally, some people may also be overly critical and demand too much from their partner, making it difficult for them to find the right match.

2. Social environment: In modern society, economic independence and professional success have become the goals pursued by many people, which makes some people put work and career first, and have no time to take care of love and marriage. In addition, some people have a small social circle or lack of access to the opposite sex, which may also be the reason for long-term singleness.

3. Communication skills: Communication is the key to building a good relationship. Some people's poor communication skills or poor attitudes make it difficult to communicate and interact effectively with others, which makes it more difficult for them to find a partner.

4. Emotional problems: Some people have been hurt or psychologically traumatized in their past emotional experiences, which leads them to have a negative attitude when selling rocks to find a partner or avoid establishing deep emotional relationships, which will also affect their love success rate. In conclusion, being single is not a problem, but a way of life.

However, being single for a long time may affect an individual's emotional and spiritual well-being. If you want to change your single status, you need to self-reflect, find out where your problems are, improve your way of doing things, expand your social circle, improve your communication and expression skills, and try to actively find a suitable partner for self-confession.

Many people say that they are single because they are too ambitious. Of course, there are such reasons, but not comprehensively. The reasons for being single are very complex, and not being able to fall into a lead sail is simply a reason.

1.There are wounds and loopholes in the heart, and the lack is not healed.

2.Not able to handle intimate relationships well, not knowing how to deal with them.

3.I don't have a good relationship with myself.

Trauma and absence, most of which come from the original family, and the bad experience of the last relationship. Frustration makes people unable to extricate themselves, and the human heart is often not mental health, but more of a process of self-appreciation and self-recognition recovery.

Some people may be three to five months, someone will soon be able to move on to the next relationship, and some may take years. There are very few people who need a lifetime to let go, and this is the popular antidote to time.

A large proportion of people who are incapable of handling intimate relationships are resistant to dealing with complex emotions and have an avoidant attachment personality. It may be more about not being able to accept oneself and expecting to find a sense of security from the other person and make up for the shortcomings. In this way, the relationship between the two parties will have a very big burden of selling hail, and it is easy to go long.

A bad relationship with oneself often affects various relationships, family affection, love friendship, and social interpersonal relationships. Often such people will self-deprecat, unable to calm their hearts in the voice of the unexpected world. Either they seek attention by giving a lot of money, or they close themselves off for fear of being hurt a little.

In all relationships, if you can't face yourself, you can't feel happy, you get tired easily, you lose confidence in everything, you need to break the deadlock, break the existing thinking pattern, improve your life, adjust your time, and do something to regain your confidence.

This one requires courage to face and accept change. In the end, it's your own mutation that matters.

I hope that we are also responsible for ourselves when we are single, and two people are also responsible for both parties, happiness is very important, and we are also the center of the universe.

First, men prefer to conquer love and the world, and do not like to be controlled and managed, and they are tired of being conquered by women; second, catching up is not a sale, and one-way love is mostly cheap in the eyes of men; Third, a man knows what a woman's love looks like, for example, he needs to pay more, he should take the initiative to pamper and care for Mengqi, he should be considerate and warm, in the major matters between men and women, men should always take on more and be more responsible.

This is mainly because men don't like this scattered woman, or they don't have feelings for this woman, so they don't want to be with each other, even if the other party takes the initiative to pursue him, he will choose to refuse Chong Dabei.

Men always want to live alone, and men are very concerned about the past, which is hard to forget.

Some men would rather be single than be with the women who chase him at the Lord's feast, because these men are generally machismo, and in his eyes they think that love is a man chasing a woman.

Taking the initiative to pursue girls, it may be very hard for boys to feel that it is very hard to return to the basics, and this boy is more passive than leaking, especially this boy is very selfish. He feels that it is very hard to fall in love, and he is happier when he is single.

1: The economic conditions are limited, and the interaction with others is not confident enough, and the other party is worried that the other party will not look down on him.

A person who is not so financially well-off will often be less confident in the process of getting along with the opposite sex. They always feel that no one will look up to them, and even if they do, they dare not accept it. Because I don't have the confidence to manage this relationship well, I don't dare to enter into marriage easily.

Marriage requires a certain material foundation, and such a foundation is not available for the time being, so many people always want to work hard and earn enough money first, and then think about love or marriage. Otherwise, your conditions are too poor, and you will only be hit. That is to say, many people are not in love not because they don't want to be in love, but because they don't have money.

Many people don't get married, not because they don't want to get married, but because they can't afford to get married.

Two: Life is too casual, so that the opposite sex does not dare to approach.

Some unmarried young people are sloppy and sloppy. Hair is always shiny, a week's worth of dressing can remain the same, and the desk is like a garbage heap. Such an image makes many people of the opposite sex shy away.

Perhaps in the years of singleness, there have been so many people of the opposite sex who may become partners. But in the end, the ambiguity disappeared in the exquisiteness of single young people. Most of the people who have been single for many years do their own thing and will not do more for the people they like.

Three: Be more selfish and don't think about others.

Selfish people, good friends, and shirts are very few. People who have been single for many years may be used to being alone, so they will not care about imitating others on big occasions. But if they can stop the pace of self-satisfaction, observe more people and things around them, and understand the needs of the people around them, they may be able to get out of the circle of self-confinement and make friends with more friends of the opposite sex.

If there are more friends of the opposite sex, will the girlfriend be far away? Women want to be loved and cared for, and when a man shows his boyfriend power in the social arena, it will leave a good impression on the woman. Often many stories, or matchings, start with a good impression at first sight.

If you have been single for many years, don't be selfish in the world, think more about others, maybe you can get a good marriage.

1. Maintain self-esteem by actively choosing to be single.

Some people may be very eager to fall in love in their hearts, but because the conditions of their brother are not good enough, or because of their inner inferiority, they will feel that they can't find a person they like, or they are not able to get out of the single smoothly.

But directly exposing the state that you want love but are not able to get love will hurt your self-esteem, make the people around you feel that you are useless, and it is easy to be laughed at by the people around you.

Therefore, in order to avoid such a situation, it is a good way to protect yourself by actively declaring that you want to be single for the rest of your life.

In this way, others will not feel that they can't find the object, but that they don't want to find it. Relatively speaking, it is better to feel better about yourself.

2. Fear of being hurt because of love.

Love is not only the good part, but also the possibility of harm. And everyone's imagination of love is different, some people will think that love is very beautiful, and some people will think that love is terrible.

If your family of origin is unhappy; If your parents' marriage breaks down early; If your former love has brought you a lot of harm; If most of the people around you are unhappy in love, then you may treat love like a flood beast, and it is not surprising that you end up choosing to be single all the time.

How a person perceives the world is determined by the perception formed by his or her own upbringing. So if your existing perception is telling you that being in love is scary, then people may actively choose to be single in order to protect themselves.

3. There are things more worth pursuing than love.

Love is a very important existence, but it is not the only important existence. There will be different emphases at different stages of life, as well as personal ideals and goals, etc.

For example, for some people, scientific research is the most important thing in this life, and other things are irrelevant, and they can give up; For example, taking risks is the meaning of life, and nothing else matters; Others are revolutions, religions, beliefs, and so on.

If there is one thing that you can fight for for a lifetime, and it is more meaningful than love, then love may also be something that can be given up.

For people nowadays, love has long been not a necessity of life, so not falling in love, not getting married, is one of the choices in life.

If you are longing for happy love in your heart, but you feel that you are not worthy or dare, then you can actually improve yourself through psychological counseling or other ways of personal growth, and finally achieve the beautiful love you want.

The reason for the slowdown may be their imitation character. Always passive, unwilling to take the initiative. Another reason is that they feel that girls are more difficult to chase now, and they are afraid that if they can't catch up, they will lose face.

The pressure is too much, there is no energy, no strength, no time to ,...

Because of the fear of being deceived.