Is modern friendship really fragile?

To make good friends, you must first be sincere to people and things, secondly, love friends more than yourself, and finally, you can be with the kind of friends who are happy and sad with you, and don't care about gains and losses. Understand these points: First; Understand the importance of trust for friends, as the old saying goes, "Those who believe in others will always believe in them."

It shows that if you want to deal with the relationship between friends, if you want friends to trust you, you must first believe in friends, and the real "sincerity" is the foundation of getting along with friends; Second: to be generous, especially when getting along with friends, we must be generous, as the so-called "people are not sages, who can do nothing" friends are also people, he will also make mistakes, we can not always grasp the mistakes and shortcomings of friends, to really do strict self-discipline, lenient to others, in order to really get along with friends, but also to make real good friends; Third: in the midst of adversity, we can see the truth, the friendship between friends is not maintained by sweet words, the real friendship is able to withstand the test of time and environment, usually only the flesh and numb touting, the friendship that is coming to the end of the catastrophe but flying separately is what we should spurn, the friend who can give us a practical support at the critical moment is the real friend, the person who pushes you to the fire pit at the critical time is a false friend, a real villain, and the person who can persuade you to rein in the precipice is a true friend, a true gentleman; Fourth:

Friendship should be maintained by feelings, not by money, gifts to maintain, as the so-called "thousands of miles to send goose feathers, light friendship heavy" can send you a simple blessing when you are happy, can give you a light greeting when you are troubled, such a friend is a friend Good luck!

Looks fragile But in fact, true friendship can withstand any wind and rain But I haven't met it yet I haven't found someone who is so precious and worth cherishing You cherish her She may not value you the same But at least you have paid for your friendship Even if the answer you get is not what you fantasize yourself yourself will not feel empty Too sorry Because you have paid No regrets about anything True friends will also feel cherished for a lifetime.

There are two kinds of friendship that are most fragile: one is the commitment of the weak and the strong; The second is the agreement to meet in Pingshui.

Let's talk about the first one first, the strong and the weak themselves are not two individuals on the same starting line, when the strong need you, it is easy to make friends with the weak, and once the use value of the weak is lost, such friendship will naturally not exist. On the contrary, it is almost impossible for the weak to make friends like the strong. Especially when the weak need help the most, no matter how many times you call, even if it is a gesture, the hidden compassion of the strong will not be you.

That's right, unless you're a beautiful woman.

Because, the heart of the strong is black and hard, and the heart of the weak is red and soft, and there is absolutely no real friendship between the two.

This kind of friendship is the least established friendship.

The fragility of the second type of friendship lies in:

When we travel, it's easy to make friends with strangers. Even the loneliest of people will meet a traveling companion on their journey. We know that this kind of friendship is fragile, short-lived, worry-free, and needless to be treated with sincerity.

He will not betray you, nor will he hurt you, nor will he ask you to borrow money, nor will he be jealous of you, nor will he complain that you are better off than him.

The same is the end of the world, but they are close to each other, you come to a strange place, and so is he, walking together, just to relieve the loneliness on the journey. You get to know him and get taken care of. He got to know you, and suddenly his dull life became interesting.

He had no friends in the first place, and being able to take care of someone who was going to leave soon made him feel that his life had changed, and he just needed someone who would listen to him and not be with him forever.

The biggest advantage of making friends on a tour is that we can share some of the costs.

We talked to the stranger sitting next to us on the long-distance flight, as if we were meeting late, but in fact it was just to pass the time, and even if we told him some secrets, you know, he will never pass them on to the people close to you.

Fragile friendship is the safest guarantee.

Two kinds of friendship, I like the second one. Even if it's a bit hypocritical, it's safe.

I don't think friendships between friends are fragile. There are many people who have asked the question: what kind of order will you have between family, friendship, and love.

Emotions can't be explained by rational thinking. But in my opinion, friendship does not carry the same responsibilities as family affection, nor can it be as colorful as love, it gives a calm gentleness. Friends can help you unconditionally when you are in trouble, stay with you to comfort you when you are in a bad mood, help you relax when you quarrel with your parents, and accompany you until late at night when you are out of love.

Maybe your friendship will have contradictions due to some external reasons, but that won't affect anything, as long as you take a step back, think about it from each other's point of view, and understand each other, I think your friendship will pass this test!

Many times our friends can't be with us for a long time, and most of the friends who were once good are now gone, and friendships are actually very fragile.

It's fragile, it's fragile.

I used to be stupid and naïve, and I thought that friendship was higher than the sky.

And then I found out that they were all me behind my back, saying bad things about me, in front of me and behind my back, I don't know how many times, they cried in front of me, you know, they said they didn't want to lose this friendship, and if I hadn't heard it with my own ears, I would have almost believed it.

If you're a funny person, one day you're tired and you don't bring them joy, and they're just going to think you've changed.

Since you can't bring you what they want to see, they're just going to stay away from you, and they're selfish, they just want to see what they want to see you, whether it's really you or not.

Friendship as an adult is much simpler, and friendship depends on what you wear, what car you drive, what watch you wear, what benefits it brings me, and then I decide whether or not to have a friendship with you.

At work, the boss is always the boss, and colleagues only like to gossip, and never think about finding someone who loves you at work.

In this world, only parents are the ones who love us the most, and you think that girls' friendships are fragile because you are not friends at all. Everything like eating and chatting together because of the same dormitory and the same class, I usually call them roommates. Think carefully about yourself, whether most of the words you say every day are boring and boring, repeated day and night.

For example, what to eat at noon, do you see the boy opposite, etc., it is like a bubble that shakes when drinking Coke, no matter how lively it is, it is empty after all. How can this kind of thing be friendship.

Not all relationships that seem good are called friendship, women love to deny friendship first, and then turn around and say that women have no friendship. It's not enough to belittle yourself, but also to envy the friendship of boys. It's true that women's friendship is too delicate, but boys also have boys' things, I've seen too many girls use the girls around them as a springboard before falling in love, and get along with the girls around them in general just to not show their loneliness, and never look back when they have a boyfriend.

Another thing is that there are a lot of people in the dormitory, and the habits of right and wrong are also different, and you think that you are innocent but you may also hurt others. In the end, the vicious circle has become a dead knot that can no longer be smoothed. It's better for you to change dorms.

Finally, I advise you, don't kill a boatload of people with a stick, there are many sympathetic feelings between girls in this world. We live in this world, and we know our own hard work and efforts better than anyone else. We are no worse than boys in any aspect except for physiology, put away the conclusion of your little family, there is nothing to compete for your life and death in this era, everyone is very busy, busy with life and busy working to earn money, this world is no longer an era when a group of women revolve around a man.

There will always be a lot of separation in life that you don't want to face, this is a necessary way for a person to grow, although it is a little cruel, but many things are unavoidable, the best way is to try to accept it, and adapt to its ......Maybe one day, you will find that friendship is just a habit. They are used to relying on each other, they are used to doing things together, they have similar hobbies, and they feel good together......Etcetera. Infiltrates your life and makes you ......Extremely nostalgic.

Even if they don't stay together. We want to be like this together. It's a beautiful statement.

But how many people have actually done it? You'll quickly make new friends and discover each other's shortcomings. And then the only thing we can do to get tired of it is to go with the flow.

Friendship is a plant that grows at will, and it needs to be cared for with patience and sincerity. As for this kind of problem, Yaya is also experiencing it now. I thought, we can try to get in touch in the future, although each other's lives no longer intersect, but it doesn't mean that there won't be new friendships, does it?

As long as you know for yourself, they have cried and laughed with you and left good memories, so what does it matter if they are estranged and separated? Huh: So I think.

You don't have to worry, in general, friendship is something that can be felt as long as it exists. Any person is unique and irreplaceable for a person! A friendship that you won't forget, if they feel your heart, they will definitely try to take care of it!

Not really, friendship is very tenacious, if there is friendship between two people, they will know each other very well, and the possibility of contradictions is almost zero, which means that the relationship between you is not to the point of friendship, it can only be said to be a good classmate, remember the definition of friendship, not all relationships are slightly better called friendship, don't take it too lightly, friendship is not so easy to find....

Actually, no, these are based on how the two people maintain.

If you don't maintain it at all, if you don't value it, then your friendship with her and him is of course fragile.

But if both sides have paid, cherished, and paid attention to, then they can withstand the wind and rain.

If you are sincere about your friends, friendship can last a long time.

The strength of the friendship is directly proportional to your own efforts, and even if the other person starts to have bad intentions towards you, they will eventually be moved by your sincerity.

The fragility of a friendship depends on whether the two parties who build the friendship really value the friendship. If both parties are dissatisfied with each other and often attack each other without defending, then the friendship is fragile. But if both parties can tolerate each other and maintain the friendship despite their own opinions, it will be a quarrel, and the friendship will not be so fragile.

Finally, I wish you and your friends reconciliation as before.

Friendship is fragile and needs to be cared for, you have to consider what your friend thinks, sometimes your casual words will make your friend angry and sad, so friendship is fragile.

Friendship is the kind of affection that can bring a warm word and a distant blessing no matter where you are; Friendship is the kind of care that encourages you when you are not satisfied; Friendship is the affection that reaches out to you without hesitation when you are in trouble; Friendship is the light that shows you the way and gives you light in the dazed and helpless night!

There is no second time in human life. Born in Si, grew up in Si, come to the world once, have an encounter, and be able to call a friend, it is really not easy! Life will be so brilliant and colorful, all because we have friends!

Friends can bring you joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness, and many moving stories are staged between friends.

I remember a sage once said: People come to this world to suffer! Since we are here to suffer, we must go through many tribulations, which requires us to face life with enough faith and great courage.

When you are not satisfied, or when you encounter difficulties, the encouragement of friends can give you confidence and motivation, and friendship is more precious. What is a friend? The premise is that there is a common language, as the so-called words are not speculative for more than half a sentence, and the common idea makes two people with similar interests walk together; Friends should also be a spiritual union that transcends material desires, a state in which you have me, I have you, and there is no desire or desire.

From a friend to a kind of affection, even if it is the only one in this life, it is enough!

How do you treat your friends and how do you value them? I think this should be a concrete manifestation of a person's values.

Friends are important because of the fragile side of people. People will feel lonely, they will feel empty inside, they will feel so helpless, all because they have too few friends. On the Internet, I have talked about the topic of friends with netizens, and I think the words of netizens are very reasonable:

A world without friends, dark and desolate!

Cherish your partners and cherish your friendship.