How did ancient people show affection, and what is the difference between them and modern people?

Modern people can show affection and send a circle of friends, while ancient people did not have communication tools, and showing affection can only express mutual feelings and romance by giving each other sachets, belts, jade pendants, etc.

Ancient information was not developed, so if you want to show affection, only in that kind of crowded and lively occasion, you can properly express the sweet feelings between the two.

They would write love poems to each other, using love poems to express their joys, sorrows, sorrows, and thoughts. The woman will also give the man a sachet and show it herself, and then the man will always wear it to represent his love.

In ancient times, showing affection generally gave things to express affection, gave gifts to each other, and showed affection on the street in public, which is actually similar to modern times.

Ancient people generally did not show affection in public, they at most raised their heads, a smile, and an expression to convey their love.

I think the ancient people showed affection very well, and the difference between them and modern people is that they will show affection openly on the street.

I think it was more direct for ancient people to show affection, because there was no circle of friends, so they would give gifts to each other to show affection, which is also a very romantic thing.

Even if it's just coarse tea and light rice, I have to give you a hot one! The warmth of this love show! raised his eyebrows, Liang Hong of the Eastern Han Dynasty worked for people, doing manual work such as rice cooking.

Every day after work, his wife Meng Guang prepared dinner early, held it on a tray, raised it high to the height of his eyebrows, and offered it to Liang Hong to eat, and at the same time "didn't dare to look up in front of Hong", looking docile. This is also the story of the idiom "raise the case and raise your eyebrows". Nowadays, "raising the case and raising eyebrows" has been used to describe the respect between husband and wife.

Wang Rong, one of the "Seven Sages of the Bamboo Forest" in the Wei and Jin Dynasties, and his wife were also very affectionate. "The World Says New Words, Confused and Drowning" records: Wang Anfeng's woman, Chang Qing Anfeng.

An Feng said: "The woman's son-in-law, Yu Li is disrespectful, and don't return to it later." The woman said:

Relatives love Qing, it is to Qingqing; I'm not a secretary, who will be a secretary? Then he listened. Mrs. Wang often does not call Mr. Wang Rong directly, but calls him "Qing", just like today's "dear", which makes Wang Rong feel a little numb, so he uses etiquette as a cover, saying that it is not in line with etiquette to shout like this, and asks Mrs. to change her words, but Mrs. is full of words and says:

I call you dear because I love you, and if I can't call you dear, then who will shout? Yo Yo Yo, this love is no worse than modern ones!

Zhao Mingcheng and Li Qingzhao are like-minded, can be good at poetry and writing, and the couple often go out to each other, with poetry to meet love, and in addition, they also have a common hobby, that is, collecting gold and stone (ancient bronzes and stone tablets engraved on the text, calligraphy and painting). These cultural relics are not only exquisite art in ancient China, but also preserve rich historical materials. At that time, Daishokokuji Temple was the largest Buddhist temple in Tokyo, and there were often temple fairs where various goods were displayed, and there were also people who sold books, antiques, and inscriptions.

Zhao Mingcheng was there, and when he saw the inscription and painting he liked, he bought it. When I returned home, I carefully sorted out and appreciated it with Li Qingzhao. The couple made it the greatest joy of their lives.

Lu You was about twenty years old and married his cousin Tang Wan. After marriage, the couple got along and had a good relationship. But Lu You's mother was very dissatisfied with her daughter-in-law and forced Lu You to divorce Tang Wan.

Lu You didn't dare to disobey his mother's order, and he couldn't bear to break up with Tang Wan, so he set up another annex outside and met from time to time. The news reached Lu Mu's ears, and Lu You had to cut off relations with Tang Wan. Later, Lu You married another Wang, and Tang Wan also married Zhao Shicheng from the same county.

A few years later, Lu You met Tang Wan in the Shen Garden in the south of Yuji Temple, Tang Wan sent people to treat each other with wine and food, and Lu You inscribed "Hairpin Phoenix" on the wall.

Li Qingzhao recalled in detail the details of his life with her husband Zhao Mingcheng "gambling books and drinking tea" in "Jinshi Lu: Afterword", and its content is now put aside, it should be two people going to the library together, you take the test and I endorse the book, and I ask you math problems. The top students just want to tell mortals that love is not something you want to show, you can show off if you want to!

"The flowers bloom on the mo, but they can return slowly", a king's deepest love for his original wife is probably like this. The so-called lofty status of the mother of a country, and the so-called worry-free gold and silver treasures are not as important as the plain warmth and affection in these nine words.

There are several ways for the ancients to show affection, and many romantic episodes are not necessarily less than those of modern people. Although in ancient times, the status of women was not as high as that of men, many couples were mostly ordered by their parents before they got married, and there were even many brides who did not see her husband until they got married. But if the two meet by chance and like it because of some things, then it is not impossible for the two to form a good couple.

The romantic places of the ancients and modern people are not the same, they are either thrilling or calm as water. Just like the King of Zhou You of the Zhou Dynasty, in order to win a smile, he would rather light the beacon tower and attract many princes, but also let his beauties have a moment of joy. In addition to the thrilling, it is Du Fu's daily life of doting his wife, Du Fu is good at writing poems, and he is also good at expressing his love for his wife in poems, although he is a patriotic poet, but writing love poems is not inferior, in all the poems he has written, the number of feelings for his wife is the largest.

In addition, there are many ways to show affection, such as traveling with your loved one during the Lantern Festival, walking on the bridge and sending the lanterns into the lake with your own hands. Or visit the landscape, complain to each other on the way to the landscape, or have common preferences, and often speak together in a very elegant manner. The way the ancients showed affection was often simple and full of uniqueness, and they would express their strong feelings for the person they liked in the simplest way.

The ancients were romantic, and most of them did not consider the consequences. In ancient times, if the prince put this kind of romance into the beauty, it would inevitably lead to the decline of the dynasty and the people would not be able to make a living, let alone the emperor who was in a high position. However, this is not a reason not to give them romance, but compared with modern people, the ancients compared to modern people, if they are sincere to a person, they will devote themselves to the cause of love, so they will also be easy to relax the development of other careers, and it is easy to cause immeasurable disasters.

In ancient times, there were no romantic actions such as sending roses and dating today, showing affection and love are reflected in daily life, plain and bland, raising eyebrows, men and women weaving, writing family letters, and literati will write daily love into the article.

In ancient times, the most common ways to show affection were sending love tokens, singing to mountain songs, writing love poems, ......I think love poems written by the ancients are the most romantic way to show affection. "Exquisite dice An red beans, lovesick to the bones, I don't know" What a graceful verse this is, what a wonderful feeling!Even after thousands of years, it has not faded in the slightest.

There are people who travel together at the Lantern Festival, write love poems to each other, and some who visit the mountains and rivers together.