Can t forget my ex boyfriend who broke up for more than 2 years, no one can replace me, what should

Updated on psychology 2024-05-05
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hehe, no way, people are like this, just like I can't forget my ex-girlfriend I've been almost two months Hehe, I've been using reason to suppress the subconscious and control my mind Although it's very tiring, but after all, it's much better than pain, hehe, if you love him, it's simple, the so-called love gives birth to hatred If you still hate him, hate him, and leave you ruthlessly, then you can get rid of him, but people are love-hate entangled, especially you women, so since you love him, why can't you wish him happiness? Think about what he's not yours anymore and what other people do, all their happiness, why can't you bless him, if you do that, your heart will be much calmer, but the most important thing is not to lose your reason for love, since there is an excuse to love him, there must be an excuse not to love him! What's more, you give up on him is also another excuse to love him, isn't it, let him leave happily, and let your mood calm down Slowly, even if you are not in love, it's better to find more friends or something, too, hehe, come on, believe in yourself, face love, sometimes you need to be strong, sometimes you need to be cowardly, because sometimes you need to be strong, never let go, but sometimes you need to be cowardly to let go, cowardly to avoid, cowardly to forget, hehe, be cautious, it's been two years now, what to do...

    Hopefully, you will find good answers.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Remember to dress nicely.

    A haughty turn.

    Don't let him see your haggard appearance.

    If you live well, he will regret it.

    Girls should always live proudly and reservedly.

    Let me tell you a story.

    There is a Nai He bridge in the underworld, and there is an old woman standing at the head of the bridge, named Meng Po.

    After everyone dies, they have to pass through here and drink a bowl of soup called Meng Po soup at Meng Po's place, in order to forget everything in this life and then go to reincarnation.

    One day a young man came, struggling desperately, refusing to drink the soup no matter what, and shouting hoarsely: "My love is indelible!" ”

    All the big ghosts and little ghosts who were watching couldn't help but be moved.

    Meng Po had no choice but to add something to the soup and forcibly let the young man drink it.

    After drinking the soup, the young man went to reincarnation. But what he looked like at that time, all the ghosts remember vividly.

    One day, everyone talked again, and asked Meng Po to go and see that person.

    Meng Po found the man, who by this time had already married and had children.

    Meng Po asked him, but he still remembered his indelible love.

    The man looked confused and said, "I only remember my wife in this life."

    When Meng Po came back, a ghost asked:

    - What did you add to the soup? ”

    -Time. "Feelings, when you first separate, are really heart-wrenching.

    But it will always pass, and there is nothing that time will grind evenly.

    The best way to forget a relationship is to start a new one.

    Throw away all the memories related to him, especially the things, life is limited.

    Your most precious youth is only 19 or 29 years old, and every minute and second in between is unique.

    It's gone, and it's gone.

    When you think about it when you are old, you find that you spent a lot or even all of the most precious paragraphs.

    It's all used on someone who can't be with you for the rest of your life, and you'll regret it.

    What you can't forget is not him, it's just the time and habits you spent together.

    Don't be sad. I can completely understand those former vows.

    You never know if the next street corner will hit the person who makes you breathe at a glance.

    Your life, your wonderful life, is not just him.

    The best part of life is the unknown.

    Go buy a new dress on a sunny afternoon.

    Walk on the shaded sidewalks.

    Eat a piece of chocolate.

    A smile in a good mood.

    Believe me. What belongs to you is just coming.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't deliberately forget the memories, let time dilute the feelings, in fact, he is already a guest in your life, he has given you a sense of happiness, but can not give you the happiness of a lifetime, the important thing is the present and the future, in fact, no one can choose to be strong or weak, if not strong emotionally, it will only fall into endless pain, the landlord can not forget him, because he cherishes his and his own memories. Every sincere heart is often hurt by being too persistent, so that he can't open his heart to anyone now, and he will close his feelings because he is afraid of hurt, so he feels that no one can replace him. It's still the cliché, if you want to open up, since you already have regrets, don't let them expand.

    Since love is frustrated, it is better to turn your energy to your career, and you will be happy and happy with your family and friends. Maybe when I am more mature, I will look back on this relationship and be proud of my infatuated self at that time! Those who can give their hearts have no regrets!

    May the landlord get out of the haze as soon as possible and regain his true feelings!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I've also encountered things like this, and you can't forget them, it may be that you haven't found someone who can give you real happiness! First: You may really like him, so you can't forget it for a long time, and second:

    Your real fit for your mr right hasn't come up yet. Third: I am too entangled in the past, I can't get rid of the past, and he is good to you!

    You have to think about it yourself, if you really like him and he loves you, keep in touch for a long time, show your mentality, so that you don't regret it. If you really choose to give up, forget the past and start anew! Make more friends and give others some opportunities as well!

    Otherwise, if you are too entangled, you will be very miserable! Hope you get rid of it sooner and everything will be fine!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In any case, one must not live in memories.

    Once it was, it is now, a memory lingers in your mind for a long time, maybe a lifetime.

    Look ahead, and in the distance you will find a better view.

    Try to get in touch with other boys!

    There are always good people, there are always better ones, maybe they are around you, maybe they are watching you silently, but you let the memories lose their eyes, hehe! Let go of your mind and accept other boys, as I said, memories are memories, and the past is over, and there is no way to get back the life that has passed.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'll teach you a way to do it, as my previous psychologist told me.

    You take a blank piece of paper and write down 10 of his shortcomings every day until one day you feel that he has no shortcomings and can write again.

    Slowly, you'll feel like why I used to like such a bad person, and slowly you'll not.

    I miss him again.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't just hold hands, and don't let go.

    There is a reason for a breakup, or you are lonely, or he is lonely.

    But girl, please think twice about what caused you to break up.

    He didn't contact you anymore He has a life of his own A new girlfriend If you show up again it will only make the three of you miserable I understand your loneliness But I become an irrational headless fly for love I don't think you should be like that Find your new love Learn from the last love story If there is a guy who loves you silently Please give him a chance to confess to you You know, I am looking for someone who loves me, not someone I love!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I used to be as entangled as the landlord.

    When I really got into another relationship, I found that my previous decision (never to be in love again, the relationship was given to one person) was all hasty, not really not without one person.

    You really have to try to be with other people. Slowly, it will be forgotten. He now replaces the old one.

    I once swore that I wouldn't fall in love in college. It hurts so much. But when I met my current boyfriend, I was really moved, and I slowly forgot about him before.

    It's not me who cares. Girls are easily moved. As long as you are careful to date your current boyfriend...

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is no substitute, that's for sure, because no two people are the same.

    You have to try to accept others, try to love again.

    With another him, you should slowly forget about the previous one.

    Love, as if you had never been hurt;

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Once the sea is difficult to water, except that Wushan is not a cloud, this is probably how you feel now, this feeling is really hard, but if you want to start a new relationship, then you must not have the idea of finding someone to replace him, everyone is unique, no one can replace anyone, only if you completely let go, you will have the possibility of saying goodbye to single.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The past is the memory.

    People can't forget memories, which is a unique function of human beings, emotional animals.

    But human life is moving forward, and you may not dream of any person in the future.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you can't let each other go, be brave. There are only those in the world who can't go back, and there is nothing that can't be passed. Don't always live in memories, then you will be sadder!!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Two years. Any kind of person will make a huge difference. You can go back and look for him, but there's a good chance you'll find that he's not the same person anymore. Don't say that the sea of love will not be erased. Time is the most terrible**.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't know if it's better to say that you are naïve or young, people before the age of 25 choose to love themselves. After the age of 25, the average person is the one who chooses to love her. When you are 30 years old, you may choose someone who neither you love her nor she loves you. It's better to be realistic.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No way! A person's life will only be infatuated with one person! Let's let that beauty be hidden! Don't delay your youth!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You're living for yourself, not for your ex-boyfriend.

    All I can say is that you're infatuated.

    If you miss him so much, he may be in the snow.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Is there a possibility of recombination? Try to do it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's normal to be in a relationship, but there are many people who can't forget everything about their boyfriend even after they break up with him for a long time. In fact, many things cannot be forced for relationships, even if two people have had a very sweet time together, but after the breakup, they can't go back. When you usually have emotional entanglements with your other half, you should choose to face it with a more open attitude, and you can accept it calmly even after the breakup.

    Sober first of all, for the relationship is a very normal phenomenon, most of the reasons for the breakup of two people are because of the cracks in the relationship or some problems, at this time if we are still thinking about our ex, then we can think about some of the things that quarrel between us, or the main reason for the breakup. In this way, we may feel better, and for us our lives have nothing to do with him, and even if we can't forget him, we don't have any reason to go to him again.

    Forward believes that many people have a new life after many years of breakup, and they should not be obsessed with some previous things and can't forget, more should look forward, and live their own life is a better explanation of their past selves. Therefore, after we broke up with our ex-boyfriend for many years, it is a better choice to forget everything about him and live our own lives, and to carry out our own lives according to our own plans. Looking forward to a new life and developing towards a better future can make him regret it when he thinks of us in the future.

    Relieved that no matter what, our past is in the past, and if we miss it again, we can't change some of the past situations, at most, we just think about these things that make us regret. We can't change anything, but to a certain extent, we can become more relieved. When we feel that we can't forget our ex-boyfriend, we should selectively learn to accept it, and only if we can accept it, can we no longer have memories related to him in our lives.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I've broken up with my ex-boyfriend for many years, and I still can't forget him, I think since I've broken up, it's impossible to go back to the past, so let go from the heart, after all, sometimes it's not really that you love each other so you can't forget, many times it's because you're unwilling to forget him, life still has to go on, and the sun will rise tomorrow, so we should let go of what doesn't belong to us and welcome what we want to live, so it's time to forget it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I've broken up with my ex-boyfriend for many years, and I still can't forget her, there are many things that I can't let go, I can't forget, and I accompany people for a lifetime, if your boyfriend is still single, you can try to redeem it, if your boyfriend has a family, you can bury this relationship in your heart.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In this case, if you really can't forget the other party, you can also ask a friend to ask your ex-boyfriend if he is single now, or if he has already talked about friends, then you have to learn to give up slowly. Then go to find the other half who really belongs to you, and if you are still single, you will see if you have time to meet with him to talk about the reunion.

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