Can t let go, can t forget, I m not a bad woman!

Updated on society 2024-04-14
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First of all, I want to say that I admire you very much, you can face your love bravely, and do whatever it takes to love you, even if you are already in love. This kind of spirit is not something that can be experienced by those who do not know what love is, but only those who know the so-called ethics and morality.

    However, this is enough, you have already given too much for your love, you are still young, and there may be more worthy of your love waiting for you in the future, and there will be a happier life beckoning to you. Why bother? Reading what you wrote, I really feel my heart hurting.

    It hurts for you as a young, brave and confused girl. Let me tell you a story, in a great desert, a lost traveler collapsed due to lack of water, but the desire to live made him want to crawl forward, he needed water! At last the traveler found a small spring under a small hill that was almost dry, and there was not much water in it, and he had reached the bottom after only half a sip, and he was not reconciled, and dug down with his hands, but he never saw even half a drop of water that could sustain his life.

    He lay there forever. Buried in the yellow sand, he would never know that after climbing that small hill, on the other side, there was an oasis.

    I, add me if you can, I sincerely hope that you can get out of that man's shadow!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Few women in the shadows can live happily for a lifetime, most of them end in tragedy, why not broaden your horizons, the end of single love is miserable, from what he told you again and again to leave you should be able to get the answer; There are better ones waiting for you outside, think about it, you are older, you are not as young as now, it is too late to regret it, sigh, an infatuated stupid woman.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Alas, when I saw you, I thought of my former girlfriend, who was also in love with a married man, knowing that he was hurt, and he was desperate, in fact, the bystander was clear, you still hurt yourself in the end, and said that you don't get angry, he loves your body, not your person, and just wants to find freshness in you, you are not a bad woman, just a stupid woman. Be well, good people.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I do not express any opinions.

    You'd better figure it out for yourself.

    Why are people so fragile now?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Alas. You're in the same mood as me right now, it's been five or six years since I broke up with my girlfriend. But I still can't forget him, I know it's wrong, and I'm reluctant to let go.

    Some fate is destined to be lost, some fate will never have a good result, you don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love him well.

    But a problem like yours will hurt a person one day. It's not good for anyone.

    If you don't love someone, let go so that others have a chance to love her. If someone you love has given up on you, let go of yourself so that you have a chance to love others.

    There are some things that you like no matter how much you don't belong to you, and some things you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, there are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love become a kind of harm.

    It's not worth it to be sad for a man who doesn't like you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This love lasts forever, and if only someone did this to me

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Man, the most failed species created by God This love lasts forever If only someone did this to me You're not a bad woman, you're just a stupid woman.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hurry up and find someone to marry and have children, the child's innocent face will make you forget all your troubles, just ask, can't mother's love surpass your love for him?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hi, I'm not big! Just a sophomore year of high school! I didn't study hard when I was in school, and now I'm opened by school!

    My girlfriend also broke up with me yesterday! The pain is not very pleasant! Don't look at me as I'm big!

    It's true! Now children don't necessarily think about it much more than you don't think! But in the end it didn't work!

    She's still gone! To be honest, I also want to live with our future, really, very well, but the truth is that no one can stop it from coming! Seriously, I shed tears for her!

    This made a lot of my buddies scold me! Fact, you have to go! You can't say what he's doing and just say death or something!

    He probably won't take it to heart! Since he doesn't love you anymore, it's useless for you to say anything! It's really --- a child's opinion.

    Here I am, my name is Peng Jun, if you are interested, please take a look.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Man, the most failed species God has ever created

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe giving up is also another kind of beauty.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is no right or wrong in love, only human morality tells you right and wrong, your own mistakes can only be borne by yourself, take my words, and strive to change your life, things may not be so difficult.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You don't need a reason to love someone.

    You don't have to force him, as long as he doesn't get in the way of your life.

    Then let him love you.

    Loving you is his right ......

    You can not accept it, but you can't make him not love ......

    Be Yourself Don't feel like a bad girl......

    Nobody is bad!

    Maybe you'll find out when he leaves, but you still like him a little bit!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After leaving, I don't think I like it. It's called habit.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Maybe you don't like him in your heart.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Depressed It turns out that sometimes being liked can be helpless.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Ask yourself, can you really let him go? If you really can, you can use n methods to get him to put you down, such as changing all numbers and cutting off all contact with him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Your ode is really asking for your own suffering, someone else has a boyfriend, why do you have to confess.

    This girl said that you really want to be angry, I think she is playing ambiguously with you.

    Girls are very sensitive when it comes to feelings, and if a guy likes her, she will be able to detect it very quickly.

    If she really doesn't like you, she should quit when the time is right, but he doesn't.

    I will only tell you when the problem is unavoidable.

    You'd better let it go, good girls are everywhere.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Let it go! Eating from the bowl and looking at the pot. Forget it!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The main problem is that the contradiction is in him and not you, don't put too much pressure on yourself. The contradiction between the three people and even the three families was caused by him, he wanted it all, he would not be able to get it all, he was too greedy. Three people, and even three families, were hurt by his uncertainty.

    He can make a decision, why put this responsibility on you, let you decide whether to go or stay, if he really loves you, he should solve the past, if he doesn't love you enough, if he still cares about you and is good for you, he has to give up his selfishness and let you go.

    Above, I'm talking about him, and now, I want to say to you, woman, be kind to yourself, don't be dazzled by appearances, see clearly, does he really love you? Is he the one who can give you peace of mind for the rest of your life? Be responsible for yourself and be strong in making the decision that is best for you.

    Maybe it's to put it, maybe it's to stay, stand in an objective perspective, give yourself a calm time, and think independently.

    May you find the answer to your happiness and give yourself an outlet.

    You're not a bad woman!! You are kind, you will be happy!!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think you're a bad woman, he lied to you! He's a bad man!

    Let it go! Fruitless! He can lie to you like this, or he can lie to another person when he has you!

    It doesn't happen by accident!

    Do you think you should learn the lesson of this time, is it that you have given your feelings too easily to have such a demerit!

    Go find your happiness again!

    You're not happy right now!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you choose to break up now, it will be too unfair to you. If you choose to continue, it may intensify the conflict, so it is better to calm down and let it develop. Watch and see what happens.

    If your boyfriend does love you, he'll give you an explanation. If you don't have fate, then a breakup is inevitable. If you push your boyfriend too quickly, it may exacerbate the conflict, such as your boyfriend choosing to run away, or not thinking about it, etc., which is not the ideal result.

    You tell me. Best wishes!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Seriously, I don't think you're bad, but self-preservation for love. Get what belongs to you.

    This situation of yours is of his own making, and while he has it, he comes to you again, and finally hovers between the two of them, and he doesn't want to give up. The difficulty of making a choice has brought you to the present dilemma.

    So, the root cause is his lack of determination and indecision, so you have to talk to him, either you give up on that side completely, or you can choose to leave.

    Personally, I think that a man is responsible for everything he loves the woman he loves, so he should choose to cut it off with that side. You can also slowly understand his stress** and help solve it slowly, so that you can be together!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I just talked to my boyfriend yesterday about my ex-girlfriend.

    It's been almost half a year since he chased me.

    But he has never been separated from his former girlfriend.

    When we were eating out together last night, the woman kept calling him**, and then I asked him, only to find out that he hadn't broken up with the woman yet.

    I think we have similar problems.

    Yesterday I told him very clearly, you are not good for any of us, you can only choose one of the two, I can bear any result.

    Before I deal with this kind of thing, don't meet, and don't talk to ** I feel that I didn't put pressure on him, but just told him very clearly that I can't accept this kind of thing and let him make sure by himself.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    1. You need to determine if you really want to be with him (think about other factors aside), 2. If so, you can list the dilemmas you face3 and come up with solutions to them.

    4. List the consequences of resolving these difficulties.

    5. Based on the above questions, analyze whether it is worth continuing like this!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Let's give up, I've been talking to my boyfriend for 4 years.

    The feelings are also very deep.

    His feelings for you may be true love, but it is impossible for him to give up his girlfriend who has been talking about him for 4 years, and if he loves you, he should not hide you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Let go and let yourself hurt for a while is better than a lifetime!!

    This society is very realistic, love is very fragile in front of the oil, salt, sauce and vinegar of life!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Don't have such thoughts, if you really want to blame anyone, I don't think I should blame you, I can only blame him, blame him for being too careful, blame him for stepping on two boats with one foot.

    Whether you want to continue or quit now, I think only you can decide, because others don't know your situation at all, if you really love him, he really loves you, then of course you don't have to give up and can't give up, because it's not easy to meet a true love; If he doesn't love you anymore, or just has a little nostalgia for you, I think you should let it go, because then in the end you will lose more and you will receive more damage.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You are a lucky girl, congratulations, you said you should quit, I think you are immature in this kind of thinking, you love someone but are not responsible for him, do you say you are doing the right thing? If you really love him, he really loves you, you should stand on the same line with him and face these things together. Instead of thinking about these things at this time, what do you think?

    Honesty is the premise for people to be able to interact together. You should cherish the good boy you can meet, and as for the problem of borrowing money, it is easy to say that there are always more ways for people to do more than these things. I wish you a happy love and a lover who will eventually become a family.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You're not bad Is he bad, he's honest with you? At the beginning, I had to say that he had a girlfriend of four years, and now he is honest with you because he can't hide it.

    He was asked to deal with it, and he made the mistake. You don't have to bear it, it's a choice that must be made.

    Although I personally feel that a marriage without the blessing of your family is unhappy, it also depends on how you feel about your love for each other. The Duke of Windsor renounced his kingship for the Duchess of Windsor, broke with his family, and even left his hometown.

    You have to protect yourself and love yourself. Let him take care of it.

    I suggest that if this kind of man doesn't handle this matter well, don't do it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's better to let go, it's good for all of you, it will be painful for a while, but letting go is also a kind of love.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    This man is boring, he doesn't want the house, he still doesn't love you enough, I advise you to leave as soon as possible, otherwise you will be the one who suffers in the end. I've seen that I'm about to get married, and suddenly I fell in love with another woman at first sight, and the man handled things very well, it depends on whether he has the determination, and at first the family was also against it, and the man stood up and said that no matter what he gave up, he could just recognize the two of them, and the matter was dealt with in less than half a year. Both of them now have sons, and they said happily.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    There is no contradiction, he is a selfish man, he will not give up the "future wife", he can't change his family's decision, your current role is just a second wife, if you are willing to be a second wife, you will continue, he said that he wants to marry you, he is coaxing you, woman, don't be stupid, there are conditions why do you care about him. You're not bad now, and you don't know if you continue to develop like this in the future. Be decisive.

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