I m 22, why can t I find a girlfriend

Your troubles are understandable, and you are not alone in this confusion. Of course, this is also the result of natural selection. Now I want you to think about a few of the questions I have for you, yourself, whether this is what you want.

1.What are you looking for the opposite sex, sexual needs, comfort of the soul, out of envy of others, in order to get married and cope with your family. 2.

Many people are like this in your current conditions, those handsome guys, beautiful women and the like are owned by a small number of people, but this does not mean that you have everything, you have to ask yourself what expertise you have, advantages, and how to play. This is the most important thing, when you struggle and can be responsible for yourself, you will naturally have the opposite sex in your social circle to be deeply attracted by your charm, this is a matter of attention, and when you have a point of light, it will shine at any time. 3.

Do you have the current ability to support the cost of dating, all kinds of expenses are necessary for you to capture the girl's heart in the future, those so-called as long as you are sincere, are empty words, there is no material basis, what can you really pay for each other, is it like blocking bullets for each other in the movie, it is now a peaceful era, and the probability is very low. Come on, I also have a girlfriend, and she is very beautiful, we have been together for more than three years, I love her, but I don't just say it, I won't take love as everything, I have to have my own career, I have my own deeds, so that I am qualified to love her. Hope the above words are helpful to you.

Now it's very realistic for girls to not know what adverse effects they have, and besides, if she wants to, her family may not be willing. You are only 22, men focus on careers, and when you have a career and money, you can't find anything! Besides, you didn't work hard to chase a girl, you only saw the scenery with girlfriends, and most of other people's girlfriends worked hard to chase them.

Wish: Happy every day.

Not then. Your fate will always come.

And add that you're too ambitious, right?

I think I can find the reason for it myself.

Name a few of the many reasons why you can't find a girlfriend.

1.No stable job: Men who do not have a stable job, girls are the first thing not to consider, after all, finding a boyfriend to marry is to form a family to live, and there is no fixed stable life, so girls will definitely worry that their future life is not guaranteed, so they will naturally not choose.

2.Have bad habits: such as gambling, drinking, smoking, these three, girls will always have one is disgusted, or even all three at the same time, because these three may have quarrels at any time, and there are unpredictable consequences for the relationship between two people, so girls just hope that their partners are not gambling, not drinking, not smoking, if you are involved in one of them, it is likely to be the reason for being disliked by girls.

3.Flowery: When a girl is looking for a partner, she will definitely not go to a man with a flowery heart, unless she is just playing.

Even if the flowery man is conquered by himself now, it is difficult to guarantee when he will start to attack again, so the girls dare not take risks, and no one wants to become an abandoned woman in the future, so the men must get rid of this bad problem.

4.Weak type: Many boys are more delicate than girls, walking with small steps, making girls feel that they have to be a female man to take care of you, just ask how to accept such a psychological gap for girls, regardless of body size or strength, it should be the advantage of boys, no one wants to marry someone as a bodyguard, so girls naturally will not pay attention to this category.

5.Won't care about people: Girls hope to be cared for and cared about by boys, so if a man is the kind of hard character who doesn't care about people, girls don't like to approach, think that you are not careful, gentle, and not good to her, so they will naturally stay away from you, so boys must change this character if they want to find a girlfriend.

6.Selfish: Selfishness is actually a habit that is difficult to correct, so if a man is very selfish and thinks about everything for himself, but never thinks about girls, then girls will definitely run away.

For example, two people go to dinner together, and the man pretends to have something to do with ** or text message, and asks the woman to pay, so how can the girl think about him.

7.And the main thing ... It's too ugly.

Be confident, enrich yourself more, and be yourself.