What should I do if I can t find a girlfriend when I m 30 years old! 10

Don't you still have your right and left hands?

If you bloom, butterflies will come.

I can't find a girlfriend, it's just three reasons, the first is that I don't have money, the second is that I don't have a career, and the third is that I have money and a career, but I am very good. You first have to find the reason for the search and motivate yourself, and then go to the right medicine to change.

If you don't have money, you won't flirt. Let's go on an honest blind date.

Why should I be afraid of 30? In fact, it is essentially an ordinary person who is afraid of aging. Old means closer to death.

A few. It means getting ugly, dulling the head, and getting worse in the body. So what is a 30-year-old woman going to do?

Don't find a random man to make do with because of age and family reasons, no matter how anxious you are to get married, you have to see the other party's character and all aspects of the situation, understand this more, get married hastily, and you have to swallow the bitter fruit yourself.

If you do make a change, you must do the following:

1. Whether the social circle is too small. Due to the efficient operation of modern society, people do not need to communicate widely to have a good quality of life, which leads to a significant reduction in people's desire to communicate, reducing communication can reduce energy consumption, but at the same time, it also causes difficulties in choosing a mate, so it is necessary to improve the success rate of mate selection and expand their social circle.

2. Whether the personal requirements are too high. For example, I know some female friends in their thirties, but they can only be regarded as general friends. They have decent jobs and high incomes, but they are middle-to-low in appearance, and they think they are talented women but their tastes are actually mediocre.

Their criteria for choosing a mate are generally high, dignified, decent work, income cannot be lower than themselves, age is slightly older than themselves, it is best to have no marriage history and no children, and they can make themselves happy if they have a good taste.

3. When it is time to take the initiative, you should still take the initiative. Belief needs to be fought for by yourself, you can not be the first one, but to guide others to make the first person, maybe you will abduct a boyfriend home! Therefore, the right initiative may bring you unintended consequences.

4. Maintain a good attitude. Take it easy, don't be bitter and hateful, look up at the sky, hum Zhao Lei, and burst into tears, as if you will be eaten if you don't have an object. You have to believe that there must be someone as bad as you waiting for you from a certain angle of the world.

Love is a luxury, and ordinary us are not worthy of being useful. Mating is easy, but love is difficult. It is said that our parents' generation is much simpler, do they really understand love?

It's just a matter of living. If one day, I suddenly die without children, but there are many regrets, I think, I don't regret the choices I made in the past. For myself at that time, it was the best.

My sister is thirty-three years old and has no partner.

If you can send me a private message, I'm single too.