What do you think is the reason why female returnees become leftover women?

The reason for leftover women is because they have problems with their emotional intelligence. I have two nephews, one is a kindergartener, a citizen of the United States, a Ph.D., and was caught up by a Harbin girl who went to the United States to study, got married, and had two children. Full of happiness.

Northeast girls chase after each other, get pregnant first and then get married, and cook raw rice and mature rice. Outsmart success. The other is a Ph.D. graduate from Shanghai Jiaotong University School of Medicine and a surgeon in the core department of Shanghai Ninth Hospital.

The personnel relationship was in Jiaotong University, and he was caught up by his younger sister who went to the United States to study as a graduate student, and got married and had children as quickly as possible, and most of the expenses were borne by the woman. The woman's parents do not care about the gains and losses. Buying a house in the United States and letting the nephew go to the United States is completely in the same way as the son-in-law, and the child has the nephew's surname.

The girl is beautiful, and the parents are generous. The daughter is also happy. This is a real example of what happened in my family.

They have been abroad for a long time, have good self-care skills, and their ability to deal with problems is also very high, which means that ordinary men are not worthy of them.

These returnee girls all have high knowledge and sufficient financial reserves, and at the same time, their abilities are very strong, so their vision is naturally high.

The vast majority of returnees have independent life experience, are relatively independent in mate selection, and are not at the mercy of their parents, so their own subjective impressions play a major role in mate selection.

Chinese men generally want to find the kind of people who are obedient and hardworking, but these returnees have their own independent thoughts, so they clash with them.

The standard that returnees will not put on their lips but will weigh in their hearts is an economic problem that sounds very secular but is very realistic. Regardless of their annual salary, it is difficult for returnee women to accept men with lower salaries than themselves.

Today's Chinese women are becoming more and more independent, both financially and ideologically, and many are exposed to the world and know what is better. While having higher requirements for themselves, they also raise their requirements for men.

The average American looks down on the old and the young, and even more despises extramarital affairs. Especially in smaller towns, men who have extramarital affairs lose face when they are known and cannot face their relatives and friends.

American men absolutely do not recognize that it is a woman's responsibility to raise children. No matter how much money you make outside, a dad who doesn't come home to dinner with his kids isn't a good dad.

High knowledge, wide knowledge, noble status, not easy to match!

The requirements are too high, the age is too old, and rich men like to look for pretty, and the younger the better.

American men are more mindful of their appearance. Even if you don't know how to dress up, you will try to go out neatly, most people are fit, and there will be no behavior of not taking a bath.

The basic family conditions are not bad, and they choose to be bright and beautiful when they are young and beautiful, but love is serious and takes time, and when they become saints, they still insist on not forgetting their original intentions, who will fall in love with you!

There are also a lot of leftover female non-turtles, and I think most of the main reason for them is that they don't meet the right people.

Arrogant and arrogant, unable to find an opponent, lonely and seeking defeat.

The better the woman, the fewer options there are.

Those with lower education than her can't look down on her, and those who are taller than her are married to 20 years old. Huaxin or an old man who is richer than her. The number that suits her is less than that of a panda.

Returnees are more independent, but they are not good, but they think they are good, and many personnel managers tell me that they like domestic college students.

Why men are afraid of older leftover women is the subconscious fear of women's love comparison, and the comparison of turtle women has expanded to the world, do you say that men are afraid or not.

After staying overseas for a long time, cultural awareness and living habits, only high-quality male turtles can match, but it is difficult to find!

It's not that they have low eyes, poor personalities, and low emotional intelligence, so naturally they are left.

Unmarried young people enjoy married treatment and can change frequently, so it doesn't matter if they get married or not.

As far as the old man knows, the main reason why female turtles are single is that they are too busy and have to rely on themselves for everything. As for the outlook on life and the worldview, they are still very positive.

She learned advanced foreign knowledge, supported herself by her own ability, and then became single and cared about other people's affairs.

I know a girl who went to graduate school in the UK, returned to China to work for two years, is almost 30 years old, and has been single all the time. Later, he went to Australia to study for a doctorate at his own expense and found a ghost guy to marry.

The eye is high and the hand is low, and you can't position yourself correctly.

People don't want to get married, there is nothing left, returnees, university teachers, have a house, a car and a deposit, and they are very happy to choose their own lifestyle!

is too good, and the three views are not compatible with most men in China.

It's a little educated, it's a little economic, it's a change of morality, it's all self-proclaimed gods, how can you look down on mortals.

I think it's because women are always picky that they become leftover women, and it may also be due to the following reasons, such as:

Many women in life have unknowingly become leftover women. Is it because of God's prejudice that they are ignored by love? In fact, not every woman who becomes a leftover woman has her own reasons to a greater or lesser extent.

Not because love doesn't patronize you, but because of some inner reason that makes your heart closed. Even if she meets someone who loves you, she will not easily accept the love of others. Naturally, such a person will not be easily moved.

So, in this case, over time, we can only watch the people around us fall in love and fall out of love, but we can't feel the feeling. We don't lack love, but we lack the opportunity to love ourselves. We can relax our requirements and try them when we encounter the right one.

Excessive pursuit of perfection and rarely obsessed with others, for a woman, excessive pursuit of perfection is a good pursuit of life, but if you take this as your standard for measuring your other half, I am afraid it will become a high threshold for your love. We must admit that everyone has shortcomings, and it is normal for a boy to be careless and lazy. These small shortcomings should not be a stumbling block between two people.

However, it is obviously a difficult situation for a woman who is extremely aggressive, so whether it is a high pursuit of spiritual or material pursuit, sometimes it can be a challenge for you, because only excellent people can find a good person, so if you want to get such a partner, you first need to be excellent.

Being so introverted that they are reluctant to reach out to outsiders, some women become older leftovers because they can't get out of their own individuality. They are too introverted, which makes them very shy and they don't take the initiative even when they meet someone they like. Many women don't even talk to boys when they are serious to a certain extent.

These are the reasons why women are single. How can they understand without contacting them? They always look timid.

Love doesn't come to you on its own. Naturally, you won't meet someone who is right for you. In this way, after a long delay, it naturally moves into a much older phase.

Such a woman becomes single because she is not active at all. In fact, every woman is different. Women should also have enough confidence in themselves.

Someone you like may also like you. So I think it's because women are always picky that they become leftover women, and it may be because of the above reasons, the above is purely a personal opinion.