My daughter wants to divorce Dai Yizi, I want to divorce and bring a daughter

Let's be separated for a while, calmly think about how to go in the future, it depends on whether there is any relationship between you, if he is not willing to divorce, he still cares about this family and children, and is not willing to destroy this family, just forgive him, the key is whether you still love him, are you willing to leave him, is there still any affection between you, if there is really no affection between you, he doesn't even care about the family and children, and he really can't go on, just agree to divorce, if he doesn't want to divorce, Go to the court to apply for divorce, after the divorce, you have to live better than before, or find a man who loves you more, let him regret it, if you are not happy, if you are not happy, then let it go, if you are reluctant, if you can't let it go, then cherish it, the key is what kind of result you want, a woman is either ruthless, ruthless to leave, or endure, cruel to yourself, or you have to be generous, to learn to tolerate, the most important thing between husband and wife is trust and tolerance, But the premise of tolerance is that there must be feelings between your husband and wife, and he is not willing to destroy the family, to grasp the degree, if he doesn't even want the family, there is no need to tolerate Ha, because he will have to inch in, which may be more difficult, but you have to endure Ha, as for how to do it, the key is what kind of result you want

Why Divorce? How old are you? What is your profession?

Hello, taking into account the conditions, the economy, life, habits and other decisions.

Marriage should meet three needs, 1Biological. 2.Psychological. 3.Sociality. When a need is lost, a marital crisis arises.

It can be said that no marriage is perfect, and those marriages that we think are perfect are just that each ignores the flaws of the other. When you are unable to understand or ignore the other person's shortcomings, the marriage time is directly proportional to the accumulation of contradictions. The best way to resolve conflicts between husband and wife is sex, sex is the lubricant of emotion, and it is closely linked to emotion between husband and wife.

I thought that your conflicts were caused by a lack of sex, and that if you want to restore your feelings, you should live together often. If the conditions for living together cannot be met, divorce is recommended.

Women, especially after becoming mothers, will pay special attention to the daily life of their children, so if they take care of their children after divorce, they will not worry about whether the children are fed all day long, whether they sleep well, whether there is anyone who can take care of the children, and they will be more at ease when they take care of their children, and generally mothers will take care of their children more carefully than fathers.

2.There is a reliance in the heart.

The child is a piece of meat that falls from the mother's body, from now on, everything this mother does is for the child, once the child is lost, the hope of life may be dashed, and the child will have a goal in life, more hope, there will be a companion in life, and the child will have a greater sense of security in the mother's heart.

Whether a woman is lucky or burdensome to bring children after divorce is hard to hear but very realistic.

3.Children can be seen every day.

When a mother misses her children very much, if she does not take her children, she will become a time limit and a number of times to visit her children after divorce, which will increase the mental burden of her mother, and there are many divorced families who will not let her mother see her children, which makes mothers very heartbroken.

Whether a woman is lucky or burdensome to bring children after divorce is hard to hear but very realistic.

Disadvantages of having children.

1.Remarriage is not easy.

It is not easy for a woman to divorce and remarry with children, and some men will worry about spending more on the woman's children in the face of a woman with children in a second marriage, and a woman's mind is more spent on the child, and it is difficult to fall in love with another man, which will affect the relationship.

2.The economy is tighter.

After all, the mother's work salary will be much less than that of men, and as women grow older, the elimination rate of society is greater, even if the other party will pay some child support, but the child's tuition, living expenses, make-up fees, etc. are not small expenses.

Whether a woman is lucky or burdensome to bring children after divorce is hard to hear but very realistic.

3.Not a lot of time.

A divorced woman needs to work and take care of her children, even if the mother will help take care of the children, it will make the mother physically and mentally exhausted, and the children need the companyship of the mother more, and the children after the divorce are more sensitive and insecure.

Whether a woman is lucky or burdensome to bring children after divorce is hard to hear but very realistic.

Nowadays, there are more and more children in divorced families, and parents should be cautious when choosing marriage, because this is a responsibility, and being responsible for themselves is also responsible for their children.

Divorce is the last hole card at the end of the relationship. Before that, see if there are any other cards that can be played, the above four points I only see that you have a man who has a relationship with each other and loves.

So I thought it would be better to talk to some friends who know your situation.

More analysis will be recommended. Don't reveal your cards lightly.

There is no love and no sex is predestined.