How I m going to go about the rest of my life

You're going to grow up fast. Be your mother's support.

Your life is obviously a lack of goals, lost the direction of life, deviated from the life trajectory set by your own subconscious, resulting in a sense of psychological guilt and repressed rebellious emotions, which is actually a natural inertia to adapt to the environment, so that you are lazy or even psychologically resistant to the change of the living environment, at this time you can not worry, first try to calm down your emotions, such as calm down and think about what you want to live in? What do I want to do? Wait a minute.

Then try to set a small goal for yourself, such as waking up early today, going out for a walk, not going online, calmly watching what others are doing, not thinking about anything, but also giving yourself psychological comfort and encouragement in a timely manner: at least I'm not surfing the Internet and sleeping now, right? This is a kind of progress in your talk, no matter what your friends say about you at this time, you can laugh it off, you are living for yourself, what are you doing, as long as it is positive and meaningful, you don't need to change anything because of other people's language, insist on a few days, you can try to read some books, do some exercise, and comfort yourself in a timely manner, is it better than yesterday, there is progress to have confidence, confidence is to be cheerful, slowly change the original life, don't be in a hurry, to keep flat and encourage your heart, Your life will change before you know it, and this is the psychological suggestion method, you can try it, but don't rush it!

Freezing three feet is not a day's cold. Your words are nothing more than a fuse. Don't blame yourself. Things have come to this point positively, hard work. Live the life you want. Let your parents have something to rely on in their old age.

It's the way it is, let it be and don't blame yourself.

Since it's because of you that they plan to divorce, you have to tell them to come back! Otherwise, you will be in ruins! If you do it, you have to take responsibility!

It's good to have thoughts, and if you think too much, you get tired.

It's good that you don't want to live for money, but the premise is to be able to support yourself, and on this basis, if you don't work and don't earn money, there's no problem. It's okay not to work for a month or two, don't let yourself stay unworked, after a long time, there will be inertia, and then there may be problems.

You're 23 years old, can't you find a good thing about yourself, something you like?

Your profession and your work, I think, are in line with your current situation, and you don't have to force change.

A hobby can be a simple hobby, and it doesn't have to be a career. For example, if you like to listen to **, you may not necessarily have the conditions or must be a **home, then simply appreciate **.

It's good to learn English and be able to communicate with a wide range of people, but when you get tired of learning English, it's a bit of putting the cart before the horse.

I feel that I can live without faith, I can live without hobbies, but I live happily and live for the sake of living, and it's not bad.

I think you will find your purpose in your life, or simply live happily. It's not a bad thing either.

Good luck!

Life is all about cherishing every day and living every day well!

Contemptible misinterpretation, if there is anything wrong, please forgive the landlord

First of all, I think the landlord you are mainly disgusted with people doing nothing, living in a rule that seems to have been set to death all day long, every day is to make money, raise children, raise cars, raise women, and in the end buy a cemetery for yourself, a life has no bright spots

Actually, you only see the surface, making money, raising children, raising cars, raising the woman you love, this is a meaningful thing, an era determines the definition of meaning, are you right? In a peaceful and prosperous era, the meaningful thing is to live at home in an ordinary way, with a bit of patriotic complex, and you can also continue to study, be a soldier, take exams, be an official, and live at home in a small family

You don't want to live for money, naturally money will live for you, life and faith are not a simple word, it is linked to the times, we might as well talk about it, Jobs and Dong Cunrui's life beliefs, Jobs's life beliefs of Apple's father is to be a good businessman, Dong Cunrui's beliefs are to sacrifice himself to blow up the bunker, and the times determine what kind of faith a person will be.

Thousands of words, but also hope that the landlord will return to reality, continue to study, work, continue to live an ordinary life day by day, if a person wants to do something meaningful, he must first gain a foothold in society, at least, based on the family, if he can't even take care of his family, the basic rules of life are broken, even if such a person does something meaningful, in my opinion, are all distorted, even if he goes to the sky to capture the dragon, down to the ground to ambush the tiger, is also a distorted person

I am part of your shadow.

Why do people live? Life is for "love". Everything in the world is inseparable from the greatness of love. Because of love, there is a colorful and vivid world. See what I mean?

People who comprehend life will not be confused in life, they will face the future very rationally, and they believe that God in their hearts is protecting us.

Learning is not a tool to earn money, but to improve one's values. Knowledge cannot be compared in terms of interests. Knowledge is endless, you learn!

Let's go for it! Use your eyes to see a whole new world. Trust me!

Knowledge is useful.

Having knowledge not only enriches your life, but also influences your next generation of children. Pass on your vast knowledge.

I'm telling you, it's "achievement", you know? A man's achievements, you can be in money, career, and life for people. As long as you like it, you can develop it well What do you want to learn English for?

Enrich yourself. Then you think about it. What about a year or two?

Able to speak fluent English How much others envy you Right? So, money is not everything, men have to focus on their careers, and they have to achieve success I, I have also been confused.

I'm a girl.,Maybe the way you look at the problem is different.,When I first went to college,I was even more confused.,Sleep every day until you wake up naturally.,Of course, I didn't count the money and count the cramps in my hands.。。。 Every day is tasteless,,Later, I didn't want to go to school.,I don't think there's anything to do.,So I asked for leave to go home.,Stay at home for about a week.,Gradually, you will have a sense of responsibility.,In fact, in the end it's still your own goal.,,People in this life.,Both come and be safe.,Peaceful.,Happy.,Find a person who wants to love each other for a lifetime There is a family with its own living habits,Interests,And then reproduce.。。 But all this can't come out of nowhere, so you need to work, and you need to enrich yourself with work. , So people must not be negative, now confused, in the future, they will definitely encounter things that make them enlightened, have confidence in themselves, face life optimistically, and vent when there is pressure. Got it?

Matter is the most basic! After learning English, would you like to go to the countryside to become an English teacher? If only I didn't!

If you want, then quit! I would rather earn enough money to run a school in the countryside. Times are changing, we must face up to modern life, raising women and children is the obligation of every man, and it is also a kind of return to parents.

As for car maintenance, it is a kind of show-off in a man's heart after success, and after so many years of hard work, it finally pays off. Faith? From wanting world peace to family harmony, how many people today will be desperate to pursue their so-called beliefs.

Nowadays, some monks are also for money, but I still want to say that the times are changing. Are you going to learn Sanmao to go to the Sahara? I want to, but I can't imagine.

You should be an author and write a few books like Bai Ruosong. Doesn't Bai Yansong also live for his parents and family? Or like Haizi, write some messy poems, Haizi lives for himself, but the ending is tragic!

People have to live for themselves, but they also have to think about others, in fact, the two are not contradictory. Plan for the future, marry a gentle and graceful son, and have a smart and lovely child, this is not a kind of happiness. Only your own heart is satisfied and happy, and everything around you is beautiful!

Gave me my own thoughts, hoping to help you get out of the confusion!

To be honest, it's hard for your question to copy-paste some answers because there is no right answer.

Don't idealize yourself, be realistic.

Personally, I think you should continue to work hard, not only for yourself, but also for your family, and for the sake of society, don't be so confused, you should try to do something you like and then do a job you like, work hard, and struggle. What do you think.

A crisis of faith at the age of 23? Well, CCP propaganda is of little use to you.

Since you don't know what you're living for, why don't you make "finding the meaning of my life" your goal in life?

I can read more books, study religious philosophy, and do a lot of things.

When you're tired, you need to go back to the starting point and think about it.

Self-improvement Tragic comedy on its own.

I suggest you do charity, how meaningful it is, right, hehe.

You can feel that you are now forever separated from life, so that although you have everything that others envy, you seem to have lost yourself. No one can really enter your world, and you will always be lonely and confused. I don't know exactly what you've been through in the past, but it's been a very profound part of your life now, and you're feeling a lot of pain yourself.

If you can, go to a specialized counseling agency for counseling, a good counselor can help you get to know yourself and rebuild your relationships.

The house, car, and wife are all the reasons that affect you, pay attention to adjusting the personnel around you.

Do you think I'm going to believe it? I don't think you have anything to do with this emotion.

Maybe you find a little bit of love in your life, dissolve your deliberate hatred, and try to treat the world with an optimistic and positive attitude, and it will slowly get better.

Now that you know what your problem is, it is advisable to see a psychoanalytic psychologist.

I think it's too much pressure on yourself, you can talk to your wife about your feelings and ask her to help you share it, which is actually a way to release stress. I don't think you really want to share it with real people, but you can share it online just like you do today. Every day is a new day to see the positive and happy side.

A depressed day and a happy day are both a day, so why not choose a happy day. Hope you live happily!

Let's go home and have a look. Make a ** before you go back.

The world is full of wonders.

You're already happy in your life, it's a bit of a no-brainer. Hating anyone is a reflection of some aspect of your immaturity, let alone your parents?

Even enemies should love them, let alone parents.

Even the sinner knows to love those who love them, and if you can only love those who have loved you, what is there to boast about?

Everything is in mind, and the boat to the bridgehead is naturally straightforward, and you can't think about it too much.

When you're thinking about it.

Time did not stand still for a moment.

Presumably you're in trouble.

Can't find a workaround.

Or losing direction to the purpose of life.

Lose yourself.

People have this time.

If there are no bumps.

How will life go on?

The thorns in the road of life are the way we grow.

Be brave and face everything.

We can grow.

In other words, we can move forward on our own path in life.

There is no such thing as a smooth sailing life.

Right, put your mindset right.

Isn't it a good thing to encounter difficulties?

There is always a solution to the problem.

It's just that many of the times we are emotionally disturbed.

Think far. Think big.

Find someone you like to fall in love, if it doesn't work, you can play around, take a walk, or you go to a remote place in the motherland to teach.

Everyone has to go through the low tide of life one by one, you have to have confidence in yourself, you will go out sooner or later, it's just a matter of time, a lot of pressure in middle school is all gone at the beginning of college, people have no motivation, you can increase sports, or participate in some school club activities, more exposure to the outside world, you will be fine,

Hello, this friend, in fact, people will always have things that attract themselves, you might as well think about it, what things are more attractive to yourself, indeed if you force yourself to do things you don't like to do, I believe many people are not good! Think about it!

The vibe around you influences you.