Can you afford to fall in love with a man who is 5 years older than you?

Updated on society 2024-05-19
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, you yourself understand the truth, find a mature, older than yourself can take care of yourself. But I still want to ask, is there anyone like you who is willing to accept the small? Some little men are precocious and very good at taking care of people, but as soon as 30 passes, women will look old, and you will not be able to keep up physiologically.

    As the friend above said, "There will definitely be a generation gap between 3-5 years old, not now, and one day it will definitely pop up". There are also outside the list, there are many sisters and brothers, other people's feelings, and marriages are very good! Look at it according to your own situation and see if this man who is 3-5 years younger than you is worth it.

    I'm a sister and brother, and many of my friends around me are.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Well, I've experienced that too. Although there is not much difference in age from him, it is also the feeling of this way. Then I accepted it, only to find out that I didn't like him at all, it was just a good feeling, and I didn't feel it.

    I'm annoyed when he's pestering me. It's up to you, my friends advised me not to talk about it, and I don't want to give up. I was disgusted within two days of agreeing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The old fox is all tempered, and he can afford to get hurt.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Emotional matters, of course, your own feelings are the most important.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you like it, keep it, and if you're afraid of the west, give up early, and ask yourself....

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Look at his character, you have to grasp it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is no problem at all, as long as you truly love each other, as long as your values match. How do you ask this question because you have someone you like, but because he is four or five years older than you, then please feel free to fall in love. In love, age is not a problem, and it is only a boy who is four or five years older than himself, so it can be said that this is a very suitable age to fall in love with himself.

    From the economic aspect, if a boy who is four or five years older than you is a person with a normal career, I believe it will not make you have too much financial pressure.

    Maybe you have some concerns, but my principle is that if you like it, you will fall in love, regardless of age, whether ugly or handsome, rich or poor. But the key depends on whether the person's character is good or not. Observe his character carefully.

    He also had to seriously think about why he fell in love with a girl who was six years younger. He will also linger in his mind whether you are reliable or not. So let your parents and relatives help you with the staff.

    I hope that you and I suggest that the relationship should not be determined too early. You're the girl of the flower season. There's a lot of time and space to choose from.

    Find a boy who is two or three years older than you.

    I will like it very much, and I will be very down-to-earth, very free, and natural. I don't have to worry about doing everything wrong, and I don't need trouble, my ex is five years older than me, and when I see this topic, I think of him, first of all, in terms of economy, he may be more prosperous than his peers, and his standard of living and quality may be better. Of course, this is also a division of people, some people have 10,000 in their pockets and are willing to spend 100 on you, and some people only have 100 but are willing to give you all of them.

    And then in terms of ideology, it is said that there is a generation gap between three years old.

    At the age of five, it's two, and he may be more work-oriented, not as romantic as his peers, and he doesn't have a lot of time to play with me, he will take me to improve, tell me what to do when I want, tell me some truths that I never knew before, and teach me how to behave. It's up to you, five years older isn't a big deal.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's a feeling of being happier, and now I'm 5 years older than myself, in fact, I'll be absolutely tolerant of myself, and I can also take care of myself very well, so I'll definitely feel happy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Going into a relationship with a man who is five years older than me, I think it may feel like being protected by a big brother. Fei Chaochao himself does not have a sense of security, and sometimes he feels inexplicably unable to communicate, because of the age gap between the two of you, sometimes the thoughts will be different. So there are good and bad feelings.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think it's a very happy feeling to be in a relationship with a guy who is 5 years older than you, because guys older than you will know how to take care of girls better.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Falling in love with someone five years older than you should be a feeling of being pampered, a man who is five years older than you should be more mature and stable, and you should love your girlfriend more, so if you can meet a man five years older than yourself in life, it should be a very lucky thing to fall in love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It feels better to fall in love with a man who is five years older than him, because he has more experience, uh, he may have been in love more, so he will understand all kinds of little surprises in your life, and then be able to accompany you for a long, long time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you are five years older and fall in love, in many things, he may think more thoughtfully than you, and he will protect you from getting hurt.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Falling in love with a man who is five years older than himself, this kind of man is more concerned about people and is very mature, sometimes he doesn't need to think too much about himself, it's very warm.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It is a particularly good feeling, feeling that the other party will treat themselves as a child, and no matter what kind of thing they do, the other party will support them and take care of themselves.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think it's actually normal for boys to be five years older because they are lazy, just like your namesake, so falling in love should be no different from a normal couple, they are all passionate and noisy in love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think that a boy who is five years older than himself falls in love, it should be about the same year, the gap between the two people is not so big, it is acceptable, two people from many aspects, it may also be from a perspective to consider the problem, so for love, two people as long as they like it. No other problems.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, relatively speaking, boys are about 5 years older than girls, so boys will pamper their girlfriends more. Girls will also feel happy and warm.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Fall in love with a man who is five years older than you. In fact, this is also very normal, and it is impossible to have special feelings. Because the two of you aren't much older. Maybe you'll be more dependent on him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    A boy who is a little older than us can give us a lot of different feelings, and can also guide us in all kinds of difficulties in life and work, and setbacks can bring us a relaxed mind.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It should be a very happy feeling, because such a man will be more mature.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Feelings are experienced with the heart, and in a relationship, if two people can respect each other, tolerate each other, and understand each other, then this kind of relationship is actually true love. Love knows no age.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The age difference before really made me very insecure, and the five years older actually made me a dimensionality reduction blow for a little kid like me who was not as old as the actual psychological age, that is, if he wanted to hurt me and deceive me, I couldn't even find out, let alone fight back.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I'm also pondering this question, but the question is, is there a big difference in their mental age? If it were me, 5 years older than me, I would see if he looked young and matched, and if he looked very old, I wouldn't choose,

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    As long as you love each other, age is not an issue. The obstacle is that the family may object.

    Married men and girls at the age of five Note:

    1.Physiognomy.

    If the man is five years younger than the woman, and the man is a dog and the woman is a snake, then the relationship between the two may not last long. In order to keep the marriage long, it is necessary to separate appropriately. If the woman is a pig and the man is a dragon, and the woman is five years older than the man, the two of them should pay attention to their fortune.

    2.Communication.

    In fact, the married life of two people.

    To run it yourself, it has nothing to do with the zodiac signs and the five elements of numerology. If the woman is five years older than the man in a marriage, the two must find the right way to communicate. When deciding on something, listen to the man's opinion more.

    3.Personality aspect.

    In terms of age, the mature age of women is earlier than that of men. If the woman is five years older than the boy, there may be a situation where the woman is too mature and the man is too naïve. For the sake of a long-term marriage, it is recommended that the two change their personalities and consider each other more.

    Summary: The above content is the relevant situation of the marriage of a female and male five-year-old, I hope it can help you. In fact, as long as the two truly love each other, the age gap is not a problem. Marriage needs to be managed, and building a marriage with heart will definitely reap a happy relationship.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    As long as these two people really love each other, it is suitable, age is not a problem at all, the age gap between the two is large, and parents may be the biggest obstacle between the two. If both people are very young, such as one is 15 years old and the other is 20 years old, such an age gap is still very large.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In fact, it's not much older, as long as two people love each other, age is not a problem. If there is an obstacle, it may be that the families of both sides will object, the girl is 5 years older than the boy, and the family may not be able to accept it, and they all hope that the boy will find a younger girl.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    However, if a girl is five years older than a boy, she needs to worry about her own life after marriage, because a younger boy is generally not very good at taking care of people, and a girl needs to take care of him, which is equivalent to having a child at home.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The girls are five years older than the boys, and I think it's okay, not a big gap. Obstacles are those that may come from all sides of society and from each other's families.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The age difference between women and men who are 5 years older than men is not suitable for marriage, and finding a marriage partner should still conform to the laws of nature, find a man and a woman, or the age difference is not so big to be happy for a long time.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The obstacle may be the words of the people around you, but I think that if you have a good relationship, you don't have to care about age at all, and it's good to be happy and happy together.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I don't think it's appropriate to be together, after all, there is a lot of age difference. And it's girls who are older than boys. The father's parents generally do not agree, which can be the biggest obstacle.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's not suitable, because boys are originally relatively late-blooming, that is, very naïve, and no matter how old you are, it is equivalent to you raising a son instead of a husband.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    In fact, if you only get along with the two of you, it's not much of a problem, but your parents may have opinions.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's suitable to fall in love with someone who is 5 years older, and the two of them can talk about it and get along well. The advantage of a 5-year-old man: The man has a mature personality, can stabilize the home, and can deal with it calmly if there is an urgent matter, so as to make people feel at ease.

    The disadvantage is that the man is mentally mature, higher than the woman, and there is a lot of generation gap among them. So it's very appropriate to fall in love with someone who is 5 years older. Love is an intimate relationship that a person can establish autonomously, voluntarily and freely in the course of life.

    The meaning of falling in love is to let yourself and the person you love and love admire each other, care for each other, be able to understand each other, help each other, and look forward to being able to keep your promises and keep your love forever.

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