I m divorced, I have a house with a set of presses, and now I ve got a boyfriend

Updated on society 2024-05-19
68 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Can you be sure you're not changing jobs? If you can change jobs, change to one that's more convenient away from home! When you get married, you can provide a house together, and 1200 is still relatively easy.

    If he is really good to you, there are no major shortcomings, personality, family responsibility, etc., you can show him your concerns and ask him what he thinks, and you have to consider how he will arrange in the future, etc., in short, you have a married life, why divorce should learn some of your past experience and lessons, marriage has to rely on both parties to run together!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Personally, I think the key to finding a marriage partner lies in the character of the other party. He is able to be loyal to his partner, has a strong sense of family responsibility, and has a stable job, which is already very good.

    Just because his current salary is relatively low and it is inconvenient for you to go to work, you are hesitant to accept him, which means that you do not love him or do not love him enough. If you pay attention to the material conditions of the other party, don't look for such a boyfriend.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Keep going, it's a little difficult, just stick with it. As for your boyfriend, you make it clear to him, I think he should be able to understand something. Maybe he will change jobs, so that the salary may be higher.

    Talk to your boyfriend. If you don't want your boyfriend to know.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maybe you're older and you're thinking too much! I'm 22 years old, and I'm thinking more about whether he really loves you and treats you well, and if so, then let's be together, and the day will always get better and better, and the teaching assistant can be turned into a professor.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The mortgaged house is very difficult to do now, it is recommended to stay in the house, and the difficulties will always pass. Besides, you've already got a mortgage, and it's not cost-effective to withdraw halfway. The mortgage will be replaced after 10 years.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If it's really good for you, you can survive the hard days, but I don't have a good impression of people in the countryside, and they are very feudal, and his family will hate you when they see that you are divorced, and if he helps pay the mortgage now, he can't tell whose house is in the future, and it's very troublesome, you have to think about it clearly.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    How old are you? How's it looking?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, dissatisfied feelings should be decisively rejected at the beginning, but since they have already held hands, let's insist on taking a look, maybe this is fate. Regardless of whether he is good to you or not, every man will be good to a woman when he is pursuing. The potential of a university teacher depends on his major and connections, to be specific, it depends on whether he can take on the subject outside, if he can take it, his income will improve quickly, if he can only get a teaching salary, then he will be very poor for life.

    In addition, the landlord can consider renting out the house with simple renovation and renting a house near the work site to solve another problem. As for the relationship aspect, it is still necessary to seriously consider and understand (especially the work potential of your boyfriend), and then make a decisive decision whether to continue or break up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Do you look for a man only to see how much money the other person has?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You yourself don't know which is more important to you, material life or spiritual life, and no amount of ideas from others can replace your decision.

    There are not many things in the world that have the best of both worlds, and it is like this to give up what you can give up for what you want.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You don't even know what you want, money or affection. Think about it carefully, what you need, and it's good to decide.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Two people are together to live and get through difficulties together. I wish you all happiness!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It depends on whether there is a real relationship between you!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    He loves you, and you don't hate him, and that's enough. Teaching assistants in universities are generally very promising, and they will be promoted to teachers, professors, etc., and they can make a lot of money if they lead projects.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The income of 5,000 a month, 1200, 3800 left, and the income of 3800 yuan per month is not loose, so you can only go to find a big money.

    I think you have been divorced, you should cherish love, love is the guarantee of marriage, just have enough material.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think getting married is a big deal, so let's take a good look at him! And I think it's not a big deal whether he has money or not, as long as he is willing to be motivated, maybe he is self-motivated, it doesn't matter if he is poor, don't be poor. Wishing you happiness!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is important to dispose of pre-marital assets clearly after divorce. The rest depends on the relationship between the two of you. Just like it. The conditions are not bad either.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's okay to call it, you should get to know the other people first, see if you're suitable for it, and then talk about the rest.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You don't have an idea, and neither do I. Tell you not to rely on anyone, rely on yourself. Everyone has shortcomings, if you decide to tolerate it, get along, don't waver, if you feel awkward, resolutely abandon it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Love is simple, marriage is very realistic ......The key is to see what kind of life you want to live, what kind of life he can bring you, and think clearly, you will know how to decide ......

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It is possible to reach an agreement between the parties in the presence of a notary public, the contract. Impartiality on property rights. His son has the right to inherit forever, and legally belongs to the first heir, and no one has a good reason to keep his share alone. Hope to adopt.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You don't have a title, and if the title deed is the only one in his name, the house is his personal property, and his son can divide a part.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It is recommended that you buy it after you get married, so that no matter whose name is on the property deed, it will be the property of the couple, even if there is a house with yours.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    As long as you keep the proof that you have a share of the money, you can prove that the house has your share, but you may suffer a loss.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    As I understand it, this house was bought by the two of you after marriage, and whoever writes your name is your joint property.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You should write this into the agreement before you buy.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you buy a house after marriage, then his ex-wife can't divide it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Legal aid can be established, and there is no right to partition.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It doesn't matter if you sign an agreement beforehand.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In fact, if the two get along well, it doesn't matter if there is a house or who lives in the house, the key to the problem is the essence of this boy, why he couldn't afford to buy a house, why he promised to buy a house, and when he chatted, he also resolutely said that he didn't need to eat soft rice, why did it suddenly change after half a year, it doesn't matter if you have money or not, I think the most important thing for people is to be honest, if there is a problem in this area, it is not a question of whether you can afford to buy a house, I suggest you take a good look at it!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The house is not a bargaining chip for the start of a marriage.

    Nor is it a support for the continuation of the marriage.

    Find someone to marry, not to see if he has a house, but to see how many houses he can buy in the future."

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    After dating for half a year, I should know a lot, don't you know your family background?

    If you think your boyfriend has a big future, it's a matter of time before you get married or not, and the house is a matter of time.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It depends on your thoughts, is the house or the people important? If he's pretty good, you might want to consider not having a house.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's been half a year, it's estimated that the wood has been completed, it depends on what you think, but you must be a little unhappy when you ask this, it mainly depends on his attitude, you know whether it's good or bad

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Now that something has happened, find a way to solve the problem first.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The two of them went to the province together to find money to buy a house and do business at home, and my ex-girlfriend's brother is like this, and now he is married and buys a house. The main thing is that two people love each other and can endure hardships together. That kind of love is the most precious.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The experience I gave you is the same, but the path I chose is to go on, now it's good, everything is so called true love, she also cares about me, so I hope you have a good life and work together, I hope you are happy.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you really care about money, you can reject him, it's your right. It's your freedom to live with the kind of people you want. You know what you want to be happy, choose what you think is happiness, and don't care about other people's eyes.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If you love don't care about material things, if you feel that material things are more important than love, then separate and find someone rich, but the premise is that you don't regret it in the future, money can be proven together, but true love is really gone.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Specific analysis of specific problems, if you don't want to get married naked, it is mainly a question of whether you can buy a house in the future, that is, the development potential of your boyfriend, of course, only because you want to get married for other reasons, this is still a little different from your current boyfriend, everyone pursues different values, and sharing hardships is commendable, but suffering is not something that every woman will bear, not saying that it is not good, but it is not given.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Tell you,,Work together,You will find that in fact, there will be everything,,In fact, it's not difficult,,The difficult thing is to complain before you start,,Rich couples have been like this at the beginning,,It's bright if you survive,,Continue to look for what hasn't survived,

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Love will always turn into family affection in the end, and now we must consider the real problem!

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you love each other with all your hearts. No money, no house, that's not a problem. You have to weigh it with a scale: Love = > "Money and House." You know how to do it.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You mean you want to be rich! Then don't delay people anymore.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You can discuss with both parents and let the parents pay the down payment, and then the two of you will pay it back slowly.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's up to you, either change your boyfriend, or ask him what he thinks, and then work together.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    What's more important? What can money, a house and a car represent, the important thing is that heart.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It is recommended that you listen to a recording, which can also be said to be **"Listen to Ladies Well".

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Love really doesn't distinguish between each other, and true interests are the juniors.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    It's okay to get married naked, I'll get married naked, and I have a house and a car

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    My boyfriend's family is bankrupt and I'm still with him.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Hehe! You don't love him! You love money!

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Practical problems are always the first problem, you know? Think about it!

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Do you want to get married or do you want money and a house, or someone who loves you, or whatever.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    I don't know if you're **, but we don't need a birth permit to report a child (first child) here, unless it's a second child, even if it's divorced, as long as you didn't have a child in the last marriage, you don't need a birth permit, I work in the household registration office of the police station.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    It's better to make it clear now.

    What he says in the future, he will hate you.

    You say now that he's going to feel like you love him.

    If you say it later, he will feel that you are cheating on him.

    Be open to your feelings and let him feel that you care about him.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    I still suggest that you discuss it with his family, they will know about this matter sooner or later, and it will be more troublesome when the time comes, it would be best if they agreed now, if they don't agree now, it will be difficult to know later.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    It seems that his family must not agree, otherwise he would be willing to tell the family.

    If you are not very likely to live with your in-laws for a long time, at least in recent years, then be bold enough to get married, because your situation, as long as you two don't talk about it, it will be difficult to be discovered. You should do it yourself as much as possible and don't let his family interfere. In the future, if you know about this, it may be many years later, if you are good to them and have children, they will generally not be difficult for you anymore, even if you pass.

    You can see that he loves you very much, so try to face everything with him.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    I'm in the same situation as you! But the bad thing is that I had two children without getting married, only he knows about this, and recently his family urged us to get married, and my mother didn't agree! said that he was afraid that the man's family would know about it I discussed it with him, and he also said that it was better not to say it!

    But paper can't hold the fire... I really don't know what to do! Think about it or tell his family honestly.,See what the reaction is.,If it doesn't work, it's only a breakup.。。。

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    If you don't get married, your husband and your child, and then go through the relevant procedures after giving birth. However, it is possible to be fined a penalty, but the first child is not fined.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Dizzy. Your situation is the same as mine, but I'm the unmarried man, and my girlfriend is also divorced, I really haven't thought about it, and we're ready to hide it, but I don't know if I can hide it in the future, I'm sad to death. Hope we become good friends,

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    You can't tell his family, as long as you are happy, it's very troublesome for your family to know. Marriage ...got married and had children. Retroactive formalities and fines.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    Ask your boyfriend for his opinion, and if he agrees, it's okay not to tell his elders, or it's not too late to say it later.

  64. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    Tell his family, divorce is not an unsightly thing, you can hide it for a while, but you can't hide it for a lifetime.

  65. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    I think you should tell his family, after all, you can't hide it for a while.

  66. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    I think I still have to tell my family that paper can't hold the fire

  67. Anonymous users2023-12-07

    If you want to have results in the future, you still have to ask, the house problem, it is normal for your parents to ask, and it is normal for you to ask your boyfriend. Whether you care or not, you have to ask.

    After asking about the two results, he could afford to buy it, and bought it. You will fall in love in the future, maybe you will get married, or maybe you won't get married.

    His family can't afford it, so if you are together again, you will get married in the future, and each of the married men and women will contribute a little money to buy a house, or break up.

    Love is not utilitarian, marriage is always utilitarian.

  68. Anonymous users2023-12-06

    You love your boyfriend very much, but you have to take into account your parents' feelings and take care of your boyfriend, you can talk to your boyfriend and talk about your parents' opinions, because you always have to face these things, hide them in your heart, and there will still be conflicts after a long time.

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