Nine years of feelings, how can nine years of feelings be let go

First, ask: Are you married? Have children?

Or will you get married in the future, do you want children? How healthy are the parents? Because you have broken up, no matter what the relationship is, you still have to continue to go through your life, then you have to plan and be responsible for your future life!

If you post this, you can see that you are a man who values feelings, but although it is good to be emotional, don't be emotional! I think it goes without saying that you know too clearly, your social experience and emotional experience are very rich, but now you are very entangled, so I will make a decision for you! ·· Sell the gold necklace, about 10,000 yuan, and lend it to her as a former colleague or friend (you don't have to pay it back)!

Hope it helps!

Brother, does such a large-scale help you feel appropriate? Of course, it is appropriate to provide the kind of help that kind of friend appropriately, but if you become a seller to help her, does it feel a little like that the baby is yours? I don't think she'll take it, she wouldn't have been.

Her current problem is that the child is difficult to raise? Expensive? None of this is a problem.

Don't look at them now that they only have 2 children, like before, don't they all come over well? It's not that there are no premature births, and they're all fine, so I'm worried that it's a little too much. They should be able to resolve it as a couple.

By the wayside, I'm curious why she gave you a breakup fee?

Does his husband know about your relationship? Do you have a wife? Of course it's good to help her, but what if you affect 2 families because of helping her?

I don't think that's the end

She is actually married and has children. If you want to help her, you have to think about her family!

Besides, what are you helping her for? Friend? Lover?

What do you want to get for her?

You are great! The most painful thing about a breakup is the memories.

Wouldn't it be weird for you to help him, people's husbands would mind if they knew that her ex-boyfriend helped him.

Summary. Feelings are not something that can be let go, and nine years will definitely have a great impact on you. First of all, it is definitely not easy to change the habit, but you can only really let go of it through time, and when you meet the right person again in the future.

How can I let go of my nine-year relationship.

Feelings are not something that can be let go, and nine years will definitely have a great impact on you. First of all, it is definitely not easy to change the habit, but you can only really let go of it through time, and when you meet the right person again in the future.

Well. Will the other party let go of the nine-year relationship?

The other party must not be easy to put down, after all, the habit is in**.

Everything I say and do is wrong, and everything he says is right.

I've always been accommodating to him.

This kind of habit is definitely not good, they are all accommodating to each other, and one person should not be allowed to blindly accommodate each other, otherwise, one day they will all be separated.

He will ignore me, but I insist.

Tell me to break up with him.

I think he also thought about it very thoroughly, and usually boys break up. I don't like it anymore.

If you love her, you will give her freedom, and there is no one right or wrong in the relationship. Talk to her once to see how she chooses, and respect her choice.

It depends on what kind of mistake you made, did she fall in love with someone else before or after you made a mistake?

A woman who is in love with someone else, what else do you think you can want? If you have an ambiguity with someone else, can you accept it?

I want to say a word, isn't this a place for investment and entrepreneurship, how to engage in such emotional things, fainting. Asking proves that you hesitated, and if you hesitate, it means that you know that it is irretrievable, so why should you ask again?

Even if you don't fall in love with someone else, you probably can't get it back, and once a woman's heart is decided, it is irretrievable. If you hurt someone else, then you have to do it yourself.

You have to know that sometimes it's not a fault problem, it can be a cumulative problem.

Upstairs is right, the key is this question.

People, it's like this, 0 0 sometimes it's just what you think.

It can only be said that you pushed her to someone else's side with your own hands, no wonder others. Think about yourself, what's the problem?

But in fact, I am very firm in my heart, I didn't fall in love with her, I really regarded her as a sister, and I was different from those who used pretenses. But she didn't seem to think so. A female classmate asked her:

Are you talking about Heng Sanlu love? She said no. Female classmate:

I think you seem to be in love, do you like him? She began to wonder what it was like to me.

One night during self-study, without the teacher, she secretly called me to the corridor downstairs, asked for a stool for a while, and then asked me if I liked her. I said no, I just treat you as a sister. The young me, completely unaware of what was going on, went back to the classroom.

In the days that followed, she began to avoid me and not talk to me. I didn't know what was going on, until a girl told me that she liked you, and you said you didn't like her, and she was sad. Then I started to panic.

I never thought that a girl would take the initiative to like me, and I rejected it. I don't know if I like her or not, I don't know what I should say to her, or avoid her.

The days were awkward day by day, and I began to feel uncomfortable, I didn't want to be like this, I didn't talk, I didn't say hello, I didn't meet, but I didn't know what to do. At this time, a girl who was familiar with her came to provoke me, saying that she liked me, I didn't like her, and she was very sad, saying that I was not a man and whether I had any responsibility. Maybe I couldn't stand this feeling, maybe it was the words that provoked me to work, one day, I asked her out, there was another girl at that time, and I said to her on the street, I like you, can you be my girlfriend?

Her face turned red and she didn't dare to look at me at all, so she ran away with a slight "um". We started falling in love.

I happily announced the news to my acquaintances, and they all said how she fell in love with you. I said you're just jealous. I don't remember if it was the second night, or the third night, but I got into a small argument with a male classmate who said I was going to talk bad about you to your girlfriend.

I said go ahead, how can your little trick shake our feelings. Then he really went, and then after school, she didn't look at me, didn't talk to me, didn't wait for me, strode to the bike garage, leaving me with a confused face.