There are some things that I realize, but I don t know where to start, I don t know how to solve the

If you don't know how to solve it, ask for help. After all, a person's strength is small, but together it is a Zhuge Liang.

Since some things have been realized, those who should be corrected must face them positively and actively correct their mistakes.

If you have this awareness, then you can slowly deal with it one by one. After your efforts, you will definitely be able to solve everything.

Then don't be in a hurry to do it first, take it slowly, figure out the idea before doing it, or find someone to help solve it.

This shows that you lack the ability to do this, and you can turn to your relatives and friends to help you solve it together, rather than facing it alone.

It is to have a hunch and know the possible results of development, but without wisdom, it is difficult to solve it. Therefore, we should study more in ordinary times, and we must have an overall view when problems come.

You have to ask more friends and colleagues, everyone can figure out a way together, there is a lot of power in people, don't be bored by yourself, but do things badly, listen to everyone's opinions, it is beneficial.

You can learn some experience from your elders, or you can check on the Internet how to deal with similar incidents, depending on what is going on.

There are some things that you should do right away if you're already aware of them. Solve from the root of things. Get to the heart of the matter and solve the problem.

There are many things that are difficult to do, so you are aware of it, so try to do it.

Now that you have been aware of it for so long, you will slowly interpret many things, and as long as you think about it carefully, you will realize the shortcomings and shortcomings.

It's too emotional, don't always wander over everything, people, you have to look forward, when you come out of this relationship, I'm sure you must think it's nothing.

When you are aware, then start from this moment, maybe you don't know so you start with what you are best at.

If that's the case, be sure to calm down, so there's usually a conversation at home to find the perfect solution.

You should still solve some of the problems you are facing according to your true thoughts.

Then make a list of all the things to do. Make a division according to whether it is urgent or not, and if it is something that must be done, then start acting first.

Make a list of things and prioritize them, starting with the things at hand, little by little.

Make a list of things you need to do in the near future, make a list, start with the urgent, simple things, and work gradually, don't try to do everything at once, which will put too much pressure on yourself.

I think you should first set a goal for yourself, and then work hard to achieve the goal every day, so that you can gradually change the direction of your efforts, and you will become better.

Then you should sort out your own thinking and know how to start doing it.

Don't waste any more time, one day you will regret that you wasted so much time today.

Many people, like you, don't know what's wrong with them, don't know what to do, have a good future, and life is confused. I think it's all up to your own heart, you don't know yourself, listen to your inner voice, ask yourself what you want to do, what kind of work you want to do, ask yourself what kind of person you want to be, ask yourself what kind of life you want to have. I believe that everyone will encounter this inner obstacle, whether it is at the beginning or in the middle of life, but as long as you can always ask yourself more and think more, you will find the answer, which is the most effective way to see your life and goals, and it also serves as an encouragement.

In addition, you can talk to the people around you, family members, etc. to communicate your troubles, when I encounter your troubles, in addition to thinking about it myself, I will occasionally ask my family, and sometimes some thoughts and suggestions from bystanders will enlighten me.

Let's go out for a walk ... Scatter your mind.

How old is it and has its own current standard?

Let's defeat it with the core of 'seeking truth from facts and being down-to-earth'. First of all, it is necessary to establish a correct concept of tolerance and humiliation, change cognition, honor, and status. To gain or lose face, we must have a correct understanding and attitude.

We must know that "failure is the mother of success", and we must sum up experience from failure and cover the truth from setbacks. In order to be self-confident, self-loving, self-reliant, and thus eliminate vanity. Secondly, we must grasp the scale of comparison, learn from good social examples from real life, absorb the essence from those celebrities who are down-to-earth, not vain, and strive to forge ahead, strive to improve their own personality cultivation, and be a 'realistic and non-self-righteous person' in progress and growth

Personally, I think the best response to this impulse (which many of us have) is to develop a skill that is relevant to the individual. Choose something that you are forced to practice because you enjoy the activity, or something that you have a gift for, or both.

You must never choose something based on pleasing others, supporting yourself financially, or any other "useful" reason. There are other activities you can do to achieve these goals.

What you're looking for sounds like a personal legacy to me. You want to contribute something that no one can create in these 80 years of life but you. In the grand scheme of humanity, everything has been done, nothing will last forever, and uniqueness does not matter.

But we won't live forever. There are limits to who are alive today, and there are limits to the possible experiences, the ways in which they dress up before life, and the ways in which they can express themselves.

Knowing that Homer wrote The Odyssey did not stop Shakespeare from writing the plays, the spoken tales of his time. Van Gogh did not think it was worthwhile to paint pastoral scenes, as Giorgione painted them during the Renaissance. Einstein was not discouraged by Isaac Newton's genius.

Each generation needs to see its own version, created by its own people, living in a particular time and place.

Leave something for others that is unique to you. Eventually, it will be recognized. Humans are nosy, curious, and in love with the past. Don't get too attached to being recognized in life. Historically, it is highly overrated.