Is it that I love someone I shouldn t love, and whether I love someone I shouldn t love, what is the

Updated on psychology 2024-05-20
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You are not confident enough in yourself and always feel that you are smaller than her and she will not like you! You are afraid that you will not be able to face your once fiery heart after being rejected by her, and you are afraid of this feeling. So you don't dare to come closer.

    But I know very well that I like her very much, so I will be entangled and painful. At present, this is not the most uncomfortable for you, if one day many years later, you meet again, at this time when you confess to her again, she looks at you with helpless eyes and says: Why didn't you tell me at the beginning, in fact, you told me at that time, I was willing.

    Why did you hold it in your heart in the first place? Since you chose to hold it in your heart at the beginning, why don't you choose to hold it in your heart forever and tell me now? Why, why?

    I've become someone else's bride, and if you hadn't told me this, I'd be happy, but now I'm going to take it! At that time, you are not only entangled, but all kinds of pain, you will keep blaming yourself, you will be condemned by yourself for a long time, let yourself live in remorse, maybe you can get out of it, maybe you will not be able to get out of it for the rest of your life, and you will always bring this regret to your death. I don't think you want to do this, (but there is such a possibility) so you might as well face it bravely, not her, but yourself!

    Let go of all that you feel scared. Be brave enough to go to her and express your sincere love when the time is right! If you are rejected, don't give up easily, but find out the reason why she rejected you, and then analyze whether the two of you are possible after you find the reason.

    When all the efforts are still the same result, then give up completely, after all, you are still very young, the road ahead is still very long, there are many people you will meet, love is hard to find! At the same time, I should also wish her happiness in my heart, maybe in this case, you will be very uncomfortable for a while, but if you work hard, it will not appear as mentioned above. Because you don't regret and blame yourself.

    You have just received a small setback on the road of life, and your heart will heal the wound little by little with time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you don't let go of your regrets, you can try to contact them first.

    If you can settle this relationship, your income is good anyway, and you can consider giving up being a soldier and grasping the person in front of you.

    If you really don't have a chance, you will not lose an explanation to yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There are many beautiful women in the world, and they are all hidden.

    The law says that men are older than women2. What is Huyun, I'm older than her 3. There is also an American beauty Jin Yaya in Little Me 2.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you feel right, try to fight for it, and you won't regret it. Whatever the outcome will be, at least you've fought for it. The time of marriage is negotiable, the key is that you have to settle the relationship.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Which girl is not good at spring, which teenager is not good at love. ”

    If it's true love, be bold and love. Age is not an issue, distance is not distance.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Let's get to know her better, after all, feelings are developed together, love is not an age gap, as long as the relationship is determined, you can go to the army with peace of mind.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can try it、Age is not a problem。 Do you two love each other and care about your age? As long as he has a crush on you, you have a chance.

    You try to confess to him, and don't be discouraged if you fail, because this is just the beginning. People fail, don't give up because you fail. If he still doesn't like you, you can try to give up, because if love is forced, it's meaningless.

    Because two people don't love each other at all, it's completely pointless, it's just a waste of practice.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Tell her, after being discharged from the army, she is not married, and you have not changed your heart for her. Then start chasing.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can confess it first, just say it. If she likes you too, and you just didn't say it, wouldn't it be a pity that you just missed it like this?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't know how you felt when you chose to ask this question. But I want to say please don't leave yourself with regrets, okay?

    Since I feel that I am attracted to her, I have to work hard.

    Even if the ending disappoints you, believe that love is not forced.

    I believe that if you are a soldier for a while, you will be better.

    If she is also attracted to you, and you promise to like her forever, I wish you all the best.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you fall in love, chase it, it's just over 2 years old, it's not a big deal. It's not easy to fall in love with someone.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love if you want to, it's nothing, be bold to love, age is not a problem, the main thing is character.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's nothing when you're old, now that my sister and brother are in love, I love her and tell her, according to what kind of attitude she has, and then you want to solve it, you don't say how she knows, and it's not you who is uncomfortable in the end.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What's wrong with you, it's still your unrequited love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Height is not a distance, age is not an issue. Feelings are big or small. It's just that you have the maturity to recognize the difference between liking and loving? If you're sure you're in love, why not let go and love well?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When you meet someone you like, just say love and pursue it boldly, love doesn't care about age, no matter what the result is, you should still give it a try, otherwise you will leave regrets. It's true.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's not that you love someone you shouldn't love, it's that you don't trust each other. If you want to untie the knot in your heart. Ask both of you to take a step back and think about what is good for each other.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't think age is a problem, just ask her what she thinks (to you), and let it go, the opportunity is not waiting for you. (⊙o⊙)

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Confess first and see if she can wait for you, if you can be a soldier, it's not that you don't let the elephant come back first to get married.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You're still not very mature, and you'll know in a few years that you're not wrong, and she's not wrong.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Being a soldier for two years is a test for both of you. Worth.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You're right! It's the real society that's wrong! Let go and love!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Since you love her, be brave enough to chase her.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Love yourself, with love, there will be tomorrow.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you like it, you will try to chase it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No way. It's on the talk. Instinct is stronger than anything else.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Summary. Shift in center of gravity.

    Shift your focus to the people and things you need to be busy with and what you need to do. Do your job well, take care of your family, take care of everything around you, and so on. Fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, say a word you don't like to hear:

    Idle! Especially married men and women, if they put their minds on their careers and families, how can this kind of thing happen?

    Go with the flow of over-feelings.

    To say that you forget a person quickly, or to say that you want to let go of someone quickly, is not comprehensive. Unless you don't love, unless you don't have emotion, you may never forget that person for the rest of your life. Besides, the more deliberate things are, the more unforgettable they will be, so it's better to tell yourself naturally:

    Between not forgetting and letting go, it's just a time difference. When you hold on to this belief, your emotional transition will pass quickly.

    Someone who shouldn't be loved.

    Shift your focus to the people and things you should be busy with. Do your job well, take care of your family, take care of everything around you, and so on. Fall in love with someone who shouldn't call Qianling love, say two words you don't like to hear:

    Idle! Especially married men and women, if Zheng Qi puts his mind on his career and family, how can this kind of thing happen? 02 Going with the flow of emotional over-the-top is to say that you forget a person quickly, or that you want to let go of a person quickly, which is not comprehensive enough.

    Unless you don't love, unless you don't have emotion, you may never forget that person for the rest of your life. Speaking of regrets, the more deliberate things are, the more unforgettable they will be, so it's better to tell yourself naturally: between forgetting and letting go, it's just a time difference.

    When you hold on to this belief, your emotional transition will pass quickly.

    Hello. I just love someone I shouldn't love A few months ago she sent me a private message to me She was too active She made me fall in love with him After a few days of training, she held the old man by herself and rolled out I also fell in love with her It's hard to forget.

    For people who have a bright future for themselves, my advice is to break up as soon as possible and don't ruin your future because of a relationship. Some people may have just experienced love, and they regard their feelings as the whole of their lives. The righteous party team leads the oil to the wind and discusses the white discussion, and the book is customary.

    In fact, in our lives, love is only a small part of it, and more is our own career, whether it is men or women. Can learn more water or change the finger nine, take the wind up to a thousand sketches. Some girls may think that they have nothing after breaking up, but in fact, they still have a lot after breaking up, and they can only lose everything if they fall deeper and deeper into this quagmire.

    Letting go in the face of undeserved love is precisely the best means, sometimes we are faced with the sea of incomparably painful sea, only to look back and find the birds and flowers on the shore. Start a new relationship and look back at the previous things, Langshan is simply a joke.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The song is titled "When I Wake Up".

    "When I Wake Up" is a classic Chinese pop song written and composed by Li Zongsheng and sung by Chen Shuhua, and it is also the title song of the first song in the history of Taiwan's record industry to sell more than one million ** ** "Tell You and Listen to You".

    It has been covered by singers such as Yu Chengqing, Wu Bai, Lin Yilian, Faye Wong, Liang Jingru, Zhou Huajian, Dick Cowboy, Gao Shengmei, etc., which was popular on the streets for a time, and was another milestone in Chinese pop songs.

    On December 12, 2010, the song won the "Chinese Golden Melody Awards" 30 Songs Award in 30 Years.

    Song Lyrics:

    You say you're in love with someone you shouldn't love.

    Your heart is full of scars.

    You say you made a mistake that you shouldn't have done.

    My heart was full of remorse.

    You say you've tasted the bitterness of life.

    Can't find anyone to trust.

    You say you're frustrated.

    and even began to doubt life.

    I knew it was inevitable to be sad.

    Why do you want to be in love?

    Because love is always inseparable.

    Why care about that little bit of warmth.

    You know, sadness is always inevitable.

    At every time I wake up.

    There are some things you don't have to ask right now.

    Some people you never have to wait.

    You say you're in love with someone you shouldn't love.

    Your heart is full of scars.

    You say you made a mistake that you shouldn't have done.

    My heart was full of remorse.

    You say you've tasted the bitterness of life.

    Can't find anyone to trust.

    You say you're frustrated.

    and even began to doubt life.

    I knew it was inevitable to be sad.

    Why do you want to be in love?

    Because love is always inseparable.

    Why care about that little bit of warmth.

    You know, sadness is always inevitable.

    At every time I wake up.

    There are some things you don't have to ask right now.

    Some people you never have to wait.

    I knew it was inevitable to be sad.

    Why do you want to be in love?

    Because love is always inseparable.

    Why care about that little bit of warmth.

    You know, sadness is always inevitable.

    At every time I wake up.

    There are some things you don't have to ask right now.

    Some people you never have to wait.

    Background:

    In November 1989, Li Zongsheng made the second **"Tell You, Listen to You" for Chen Shuhua was released, this **is a Chinese** classic work, and it is the first one in Taiwan's **history to sell more than one million**. ** In "When I Wake Up from a Dream", "I knew that sadness was inevitable, so why bother to fall in love!" ”

    This is Li Zongsheng's work that directly points to the key point of female ** love, he ruthlessly exposed this sad contradiction in broad daylight, if everything was known earlier, there would not be so many people who should not be loved, and there would be no regrets, but this world is full of regrets and contradictions.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.

    It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.

    It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.

    This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts, and true love is to know how to cherish when you can love.

    True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

    Because, letting go is having everything...

    When you cherish it, please love it well.

    When you let go, bless well....

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There is no right or wrong in love, only whether it is suitable or not, willing or not, happy or not. When you can't be together anymore, it's not that she didn't choose you, it's not that you abandoned her, it's that happiness didn't choose you, happiness didn't choose you, and love didn't choose you. So don't be troubled, don't be sad, you should bless each other and hope that each of you will find your true love.

    If you feel pain when you lose the other person, then it proves that you don't love her at all, you just want to possess her, and you will only suffer when your possessiveness cannot be satisfied. When you love someone, what you should think about is not what the other person can give you, but what you can give her, can you give her the affection she needs? Can you give her joy and happiness?

    Can you be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness? Only this kind of love is true love, and only this kind of love can be happy.

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