What should I do if I love someone I shouldn t love 30

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    .Then keep loving. Love to the point of not wanting to love when you part. This peace of mind can make you no longer worry about it in the future.

    If you are separated like this, then you still want to love. Because you'll still want to regret it. So you continue to love.

    Love to death or alive. If conditions do not allow. Love that can change the mind.

    When you love so much that you don't know how to love anymore. The answer will come out on its own. Don't worry.

    Everyone has feelings at times. This is quite normal.

    Bless you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Long-term pain is better than short-term pain, and temporary pain will be exchanged for a lifetime of ease.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What kind of person is in love, is he married, then leave him, it is also the best for him, and if you really love him, you will leave him.

    If you are unmarried, you should grasp your own happiness. There is no do's and shouldn't in love, except when married.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Love is a sweet and sacred thing. Regarding love, I believe that many people have gains and losses. If you really feel that you love someone you shouldn't love, it will make you feel tired.

    In fact, there is a saying that is also very true: there is a kind of love called letting go! Right now you may be in pain.

    Maybe your other person or her is also in pain. Let's face it freely. When you get home at night, think about it, make up your mind to let go, and then concentrate on sleeping, and the next day you will wake up with the sun rising on time

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Go according to your heart. will go the right way. But don't let yourself regret it...If not, don't dwell on it. That's not the best way...Accept reality with relief.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What do you mean by someone you shouldn't love? As long as you are not married, you can love, love never exists should and should not be, only ask whether it is worth it or not, if she is not worthy, you will not be so distressed by her at all, it means that she is worth it in your heart. Since it's worth it, then what are you worried about, the opportunities are equal, as long as you are not married, you should use all your courage to pursue, there is no failure when you are young, even if you don't succeed, it will be a good memory to think about it later.

    Never give up easily, don't say anything to bury love deep in your heart, you will definitely regret it in the future. Go ahead! Take out your courage to overcome all difficulties and pursue bravely, I support you!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not your fault that you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, but it's a sadness.

    If you give up, it's hard to do it, because you've fallen in love with that person, and falling in love with someone doesn't prove the outcome, it can only say that you feel that feeling. Love is an emotion that you can feel, having love is not the same as having marriage, marriage is a real life to live.

    So, although you are in love with someone you shouldn't love, you have tried the taste of love, and it is your happiness to have love, and now, the only way is to bury it deep in your heart, and you have not discarded it, but just put it in the safest and most mysterious place that no one knows.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Loving someone doesn't have to be about getting her!

    Then bury your love deep in your heart!

    Then you will all be happy

    If you say it, maybe you don't even have friends!

    So you see what your relationship is deciding!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Clause. 1. Letting go of a person does not mean forgetting everything, that is, remembering this person and what happened to you, no longer sad and tearful, or indignant, but can smile calmly and indifferently. Clause.

    Second, do a job that enriches yourself and makes life busier, so that you don't have so much energy to be sad and sad. Clause.

    3. Life is always slowly losing.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In today's society, it's not like anyone can't live without someone, I think in the traditional thinking, no matter what the reason, since you love what you shouldn't love, you don't love it, and it's okay to separate. Although these words are easy to say in the mouth of an outsider, it is even more difficult for a person in the authorities to take this step, because not everyone is smooth sailing on this road of life, and there are no calamities for the gods to go down to earth, so what we have to do is to be strong, transfer love to other things, and finally get out of the predicament.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I advise you to give up, and the fruitless love will only be exchanged for scars in the end!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Stop losses in time. If you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, don't try to change or feel that you have the ability to change him, because you don't have this ability, at this time you must stop the loss in time to minimize the loss.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Bury this secret in the bottom of your heart, keep your distance from him (her), and gradually withdraw from the world of loving him (her), and from then on only talk about Fengyue with him (her) and nothing else.

    Love is an emotion that you can feel, and having love is not the same as having marriage. So although you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, you have tried the taste of love, and it is also your happiness to have love, and now, the only way is to bury it deep in your heart, not to discard it, but to put it in the safest and most mysterious place that no one knows, and bury it in your heart and never expose it.

    Others have happy families, and if you really take action, the consequences will be unimaginable. Because once the person has a family, he has a sense of family responsibility, and he has to be responsible for his family. You will be scolded by the world, this is the ending that no one wants to see.

    In our lives, we will meet the people you love the most, the people who love you the most, and the people who will spend your life together. But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person; The one you love the most often doesn't choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest-lasting, it's not your favorite or the person who loves you the most, it's just the person who appears at the most suitable time.

    How many people will you be in someone else's life? Love is a sad fairy tale, anyone who has read it, have more or less left regrets, when we read it, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything, if there is fate, time and space are not distance. If there is no fate, even if we get together, we will not be able to understand, so let's let everything go with the flow.

    The so-called person who should not be loved, either has a girlfriend, or is married, no matter which one, as long as you love, you are a third party, and the third party is immoral. So no matter how strong your feelings are, you can't be free from the constraints of morality and do whatever you want. Think about it, the person you fall in love with, he has already given his love to others, even if you have him, it is not a complete love after all.

    So why don't you pursue a true love?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Answer, from the description of the analysis, since you have understood that you should not love the person, it means that you need to give up as soon as possible, the other party is not your true love, there is no need to delay your time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Leaving is the best option, and looking back after a while, it's not true love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Since it is someone who should not be loved, then the other party either has a family, or family reasons are not suitable to walk together, so it is best to bury love in the bottom of your heart, be a third party who intervenes is immoral, and be accused of being unhappy, besides, why should you have a person who belongs to someone else, you should get a complete love.

    Try to turn love into appreciation, and love anyone spiritually, but actions often don't allow it. But spiritual love is very painful, so it is better to transform this love into a kind of appreciation, admiration, maybe you can become a pure friend or even a confidant, which is also the most valuable wealth in life, of course, this requires a certain realm and enough luck.

    I believe that most of the friends who are trapped in bitter love and unrequited love have deeply experienced the pain of this feeling, and from another point of view, the pain of love is not a kind of happiness? At least understand what love is, love is already lucky, beautiful, and when you are old, you can smile indifferently when you think of all this.

    There is always another person worth loving, don't hang from a tree anymore, and those who can't find a suitable object are often stubbornly pretending to be a person in their hearts, and they can no longer see the benefits of other people. Since it's impossible to pursue the one you love, it's better to let go and discover new worlds and new people, aren't feelings cultivated because of long-term contact.

    True love is to try to give the other person freedom and happiness, and if love interferes with the other person, if you don't get it, you will be unwilling or resentful. Love is to let the other person live the life they want, and if the intervention affects the family life of the person and the person, then stop it as soon as possible.

    In addition to love, there are still too many things to do, so don't blindly fall into the quagmire of love and can't extricate yourself, life should be colorful, to love, but also to have a diverse life. Look at this relationship from a higher perspective, cherish it, collect it, and then still do what you have to do.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Since you know that you are in love with someone you shouldn't love, you should stop the precipice, decisively clean up your emotions, and don't let your feelings continue, which will only make you more and more painful.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Friend, you said it yourself, you fell in love with someone you don't love.

    Let it go, I mean give up your own thoughts, talk to her well, and tell her clearly when necessary, always be friends, that's all, you can treat her as a sister in your heart, and slowly get along with her as a sister, you must be patient, whether it is for your own psychological thoughts, or for her, believe that you can use time to repair the results that you think are not very good.

    It's okay to be friends or sisters, but you have to make yourself, and you have to help her get around with the boys around her, and when she finds out that the boys feel better about herself than the girls do about herself, you will succeed.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Follow your feelings, and ignore the world's eyes

    Maybe your hesitation will regret it for the rest of your life, it's good to love, it's good to feel it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Please think about your parents and think about your future. After all, China is not so open.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Well, love if you are not afraid of death. Actually, it's impossible. Because his sister is also a part of him, you have to accept her sister when you marry him, and he has no problem, but, with a wisp of ins and outs, you find that you are too undetermined and immature, right?

    Oh, be firm!! Otherwise, your marriage will be bitter and your children's happiness will be greatly reducedThink twice before you act, you must think twice.

    If you choose to continue, then you need to be prepared to solve these problems and the problems that may occur in the future when you have children, or in the future.

    If you're not that wise, it's best to give up. Needless to say why...

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Donor, turn back to the shore....Don't sink anymore.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's hard for this relationship to come to fruition, and if the two of you have to be together, you have to be determined to face any pressure and difficulties, and it's hard to have a good outcome in your particular situation.

    But then again, if you don't have a road, step on your own road, and if you both have the determination to rely on each other to support each other to solve all kinds of difficulties and pressures.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Listen to me, give up, it's easy to give up someone who loves you very much, it's painful to give up someone you love very much, and it's even more painful to fall in love with someone who doesn't love you Give up on him and let yourself live a freer and more wonderful life!! 1

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This kind of thing, cut off as soon as possible, or everyone is very tired

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You can try to forget him (her) and try to restrain yourself, true love is to give him (her) happiness, if the other person is currently happy, you can't ruin the happiness of others because of your own thoughts, the real is not based on the pain of others.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You shouldn't have this kind of thought, and you can't cause trouble to yourself invisibly, so let's be mature.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Control your mind in time and stay away from trying others again.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You say that you love people who shouldn't love people, and your heart is full of scars.

    So, basically, the results will not be too optimistic. Now that you're aware of it, let's stop it in time.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Learn to give up, think about the other person's badness, pay more attention to other people, and do more things that make you think about the other person.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Don't continue to love, in the end you will not be able to extricate yourself, and if you can break it, you will break this thought.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    When it is broken, it is broken! Better a finger off than always aching.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    The dream wakes up, otherwise it becomes nervous.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Just love and don't do anything.

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