How can we take care of family affection and love?

If someone asks me, what do you care about the most? I will not be depressed "is family affection". And what about love?

I care too. However, if I had to choose between family affection and love, then I would choose family affection over love. Family affection is something that can never be erased, maybe you sometimes feel that your parents are a little too demanding of you, and your siblings sometimes don't understand you very well, but have you ever thought about their goodness, their love for you?

You just blindly ask others to do something for you, please think about them too, how much do you care for them? I once asked myself, when I realized that I gave so little, and got so much care from them, maybe you will say, that's what they should, but in this should also contain your should, but did you do it? I know how powerful love is, and I know how important family affection is, so I will make the right choice.

Maybe your parents can't be distracted to take care of you because they have too many things to do, then you don't hate them, if your parents can't take care of you because they have too many children, then you don't resent them, although they sometimes ignore you, but after all, you are their children, they love you the same, when you do something wrong, they may beat you and scold you, but they still love you. When you are wronged outside, it is your parents who stay by your side and comfort you in the end. Siblings are your best friends, you can tell them anything, they will be your best listeners, they will not laugh at you, they will not beat you, they will only find ways to help you silently.

Don't be disbelieving, you can pay careful attention to them, feel their love for you, don't ignore the people around you who care about you the most, and don't resent the people around you who love you the most. Love is the spice of life, life will be more exciting with him, you will not die without him, but when there is an irreconcilable contradiction between family and love, then I will choose family affection, there is only one parent, so I can't live without them, I don't know if my choice is correct, but this is my choice.

Family affection has the power to embrace everything, sometimes because love will conflict with family affection, some people will be very conflicted, I don't know what to do? In fact, the power of love is even more incredible, it can move the heavens and the earth, and it will naturally make the family emotional, don't give up family affection for the sake of love, even if you stay away for some reason, you will return after all. In a person's life, these two feelings are indispensable, and it is a pity to lack either one.

Don't give up.

Vary. As the saying goes: distant relatives are not as close as close, let alone burning love in love.

This is also what makes boys, girls and even men and women obsessed with dizziness. But love is time-sensitive, but family affection is lifelong and flows slowly. Love that can be transformed into family affection is already a comedy.

As long as family affection has been given, there will be a trace of thread that will always connect you, it is in the bottom of my heart, and it is a sincere heart that will hurt my relatives.

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

Love, like love songs, is the highest level of lingering. The most poignant thing is not revenge, but regret. The best love must have regrets. That regret turned into an aftermath, and I kept it in my heart for a long time. The most poignant love, you don't have to call the sky and grab the earth, just look at each other without words.

Disappointment, sometimes, is also a blessing. Because there is something to expect, there will be disappointment. Regret is also a kind of happiness. Because there are still things that you regret. Pursue love, and then discover that love has always been a thousand things.

Many, many people have said that what is in school can't be brought into society, that is, that kind of love dies when it leaves school. There is another sentence I want to ask, can a pair of lovers study together to go to graduate school? Can that mind really be put into a book?

There is a very simple way, the love that can withstand the washing of time is true love, and you will be cold first of this kind of love.

One year or two years later, you don't talk about friends, and the other party doesn't talk about friends, and then you still love each other deeply, that is true love (the premise is not that you want to break up, only because of study and work, temporarily separated for a period of time).

Because you've only been around for 2 years, how much pressure can school life have? After the two sides enter the society, they will experience what they have not experienced together, and how many new contradictions will emerge. Two years is not enough time to see through a person, let alone being in school for two years.

Have you ever heard of a seven-year itch in love, and my own love finally died in the seventh year.

You said a lot, and I got it. I am a person who has experienced it, if I let me tell you honestly: love is not permanent, and you will not find love again, marriage and love are two different things; Don't give up on family affection.

There are naturally reasons why adults disagree with things--- there are some things that don't want to hurt your self-esteem but don't want to make you unhappy for the rest of your life.

Actually, some things don't need to have a result all at once.,I suggest you listen to your parents' work first.,As for love.。。 Let time prove that I now think that love is fate, fate comes and goes... Naturally. But what about marriage! You have to think carefully.

The point is that your family doesn't accept your boyfriend, right? So you can ask your boyfriend to change a little bit, use dim sum on your career or study, let your parents see his responsibility and sincerity, let your boyfriend talk to your parents, and your parents will accept it. You can't make an effort alone, and you can't convince your parents.

Don't try to play with your parents, it's irrational. You reconcile with your parents, mediate between your boyfriend and your parents, and settle it calmly, why don't your parents agree? What should your boyfriend change?

What are your plans to get married in the future?

1. You are an adult, and you are in charge of your own family.

2. If you choose love, you won't lose your affection.

3. As long as you still fulfill your obligations as children.

I think it's not easy for your parents to raise you for so many years, elopement is a big blow to your parents, you can't use it, you can go to the field with him to struggle, don't rely on each other's parents' lives, work alone, and tell them with actions that you have grown up, so that your parents can't say anything. Stick to your beliefs, even if you elope, you have to fight with your parents often!

The only way is to communicate with each other, to prove, to try to impress each other in action, and if you love each other enough, work together.

For a person of your character, love and family affection are inseparable, and if you want both, you can only break this dilemma through continuous efforts. If that doesn't work, there are only two options:

First, it is the most likely to preserve family affection. After going through the low ebb of a relationship, you may choose a not so deep other half to live with in the future, which will be quite uncomfortable at first, get better for a long time, and finally forget it, and even adapt to the ordinary life of ordinary people. The truth tells us that human feelings rarely stand the grind of time and distance.

Second, preserve love. You're going to get a tormented love, and it's unknown whether this love will have a result. Because you have more conflicts that you may have to face, though only possible.

inner conflict over parental harm; the conflict between the two parties in the future love; future conflict between the man's parents and himself; Conflict when your love is not satisfactory and you do not receive emotional support from your parents. Love that can't get the blessing of family affection really depends on God.

Finally, there's one thing I don't know how to guess. According to you, your material life should be guaranteed no matter where you are, and the house and car are not too much of a problem. Under this premise, he is reluctant to go to your side because of your financial problems, and I would like to say that the love with material guarantees is not enough to make him give up something.

Also, I don't know what he did to do it, but I just saw you sad there.

Objectively, if a man puts in a lot less emotional effort than a woman, I think everyone will have the same choice.

I don't know what kind of love it is for both of you to love each other. But love not only represents love, it also has responsibilities and responsibilities. Voluntarily, involuntarily, to make the other party happy, to think about the other party, don't let the other party be alone in the embarrassment.

Think about how deep and true this love is, and whether you are willing to bear the wind and rain with you, I think you will have the answer.