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Recently, there is a very popular Japanese drama "Calm Leisure", we wrote about the heroine's good character some time ago, and some readers left a message saying that they wanted us to also analyze the behavior pattern of the male protagonist Shinji "I like each other very much but never show it, and I want to protect each other but hurt without scruples". >>>More

I think it's possible that her personality itself is like this, I have a friend who is like this, and her boyfriend has not yet dated when she is having an affair, she always behaves very enthusiastically, and then when they get together, they become more and more indifferent, but she doesn't dislike her boyfriend anymore, it's just that her personality is like this, she likes freedom, she wants to have her own space, she wants to say that she wants to find her boyfriend and then look for it, her boyfriend always cares, and he will feel very burdened and ambivalent if he finds her. Because I've broken up several times since then.

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After looking at your situation, I will briefly help you analyze it, you are an introvert, sensitive and thoughtful, what about the girl, she is also an introvert, not active, then you must have the initiative in love, you are a boy, people don't take the initiative, you have to take the initiative, the girl crosses the road and lets you hold hands, which means that at least she has a good impression of you, why let you sign if you don't have a good feeling, as for what you said that people give you the money to buy clothes, don't think about it, because you haven't determined the relationship, this kind of girl is very principled, not a person who loves to take advantage, this point through your description, Personally, I think this girl is not material, your vision is good, as for gifts, personal advice, don't buy valuable, too expensive people don't charge how embarrassing, didn't you say you don't know what to talk about? Then you can talk about the situation of both parties in WeChat, talk about your personal experience, family, first take the initiative to talk about yourself, and then ask her about the situation, for example, I like to play ball and read books, what about you, what do you like to do in your free time? And so on these are all you can understand, in the early stage, the situation of both parties is clearly understood through chatting, including people's preferences, knowing people's preferences, you can better make appointments to meet, give gifts and know what to give, so that the girl's good impression of you deepens, because what you do is done under the premise of understanding her preferences, for example, she likes to eat spicy, you take her to eat Chongqing hot pot, the girl is careful, she doesn't say it, she is happy, because you are very careful, increase mutual understanding through chatting, not have nothing to say, You can also slowly understand this girl through chatting, don't worry, as long as you are sincere, the girl has a good impression of you, careful, considerate, knows the warmth and cold, and is very motivated, let it come together, personal humble opinion, I hope it can help you.

It takes time to get out of a relationship.

A nostalgic man is a man who values affection. If you like him and value his people, then you can first reach out to him as a friend. First of all, make him happy. Then, he will slowly get used to you, love you, and fall in love with you. >>>More