Why can t my ex boyfriend talk to me properly

A person who has feelings for you will not feel comfortable being friends with you. You said that you have been breaking up for a while, but it is estimated that the time has not exceeded two years, and there is no way for people who have really invested in true feelings in a love to forget this relationship in a short period of time. After a breakup, people who can be friends with a smile and a lover will rarely really love you to the core.

If you're doing it for his good, don't keep in touch for a longer period of time.

My ex-friend and I have been separated for a year, and I still think about him so much that I want to cry.

I think your request is a bit excessive, most women are like you, they break up, and they still want to be friends with each other, and they want to get some feelings from the other party about themselves.

After a breakup, you can't be an enemy because you once loved. Can't be friends because they once loved.

It depends on who dumps whom.

If you dump him, he will be very sad and embarrassed to see you.

If he dumps you, he will feel guilty.

Like you said, I feel like you're dumping him.

If you don't like him anymore, it's best not to bother him.

This will make him even more sad when he thinks about the little things you were together.

If you like him, if you don't want to reconcile with him, it's better to stay away from him.

Don't bother him anymore.

Give him a time to turn around, he hasn't thought about it yet, maybe he can't think about it for the rest of his life, you don't ask too much, it's just that he doesn't really understand the meaning of true love, love is to make each other happy, not painful.

Your request is not too much.,He may be that kind of person.,Maybe there's some shadow in the psyche.。。

Then don't talk to him. Now that they are all divided.

You don't need him to get ideas about everything.

Don't be too clingy, either.

Do something that makes him pay attention.

Or. There is a thing of preference together.

It can promote the sublimation of your feelings.

Why bother...

He might have a new partner, and I don't want you to be there to interfere with him.

If you break up, don't have any extravagant hopes, in his opinion, don't contact friends if they don't have to do it.

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Let it pass! What can you do if you are friends? Just think so! It's better!

Since he can't accept it, let's be the most familiar stranger.

It's hard to be friends.

It's possible that his brother is interested in you, and he didn't dare to chase you because of his boyfriend before, and now he doesn't have to make a move.

In general, don't say anything about your ex to your incumbent.

Some people may feel that they should be honest in their relationship, so they should tell each other all their emotional experiences, such as their love process, what kind of person their ex is, what they and their ex have experienced, and so on.

It's just that a person will inevitably have some contrasts, especially when it comes to love. Therefore, if your current person really loves you, then it is inevitable that he will have a desire to be possessive and conquering you, and when the other party learns about your previous love experience, he will inevitably think a lot, and this state of thinking a lot will affect your future relationship.

A person's psychological space is limited, if you tell your current a lot of things about you and your ex, then when you get along with you, you are likely to unconsciously think of your past experience with your ex, that is, your current psychological space is occupied by your and your ex's past experience, and in the end there is less psychological space left for you and your current one.

For example, you tell your current position, you and your ex have been in a relationship for 3 years, lived together for a year, and both of them are almost getting married, and finally they are forced to break up because of their parents' opposition. Then your experience is likely to become a hurdle for your current incumbent to pass, because when you get along with your current incumbent, he may unconsciously think of what happened to you and your ex, and worry that you have really let go of your ex now?

Good evening, dear, and it is a pleasure to serve you. The ex-boyfriend said that it should not be reconciled. Under normal circumstances, it can be understood that there will be no reconciliation.

Why do teachers judge this way? First of all, boys are very rational. It's rare to think that two people are like strangers after a breakup, but in fact, boys feel that their ex is also their human resources and their social circle.

So the ex-boyfriend said that he would not reconcile. In fact, he originally wanted to take care of your dignity, and didn't want you to lose face, if he directly said that he would not reconcile, he was afraid that you would be sad and resentful of him. But since a rational man said such a thing, it means that he really wants to understand the matter of disharmony.

Summary. You've broken up, and it's normal for him to tell you badly, dear.

What does my ex-boyfriend mean when he says I'm not doing well with him?

You've broken up, and it's normal for him to tell you badly, dear.

The three words ex-boyfriend indicate the end of a relationship, so it's normal to say it badly.

The main ones have been separated for two years.

Has he been in contact with you again out of the blue lately?

Then the bad thing here may be that it is not as good as before.

It should be compared to what you said when you were in love.

1.If you have been in touch recently, it means that he wants to express that he may not be able to find the feeling of being in love two years ago, which is normal, after all, boyfriend and girlfriend have become former male and female round friends.

2.I see that you come to consult the teacher, you should still have an ex-boyfriend in your heart, so I suggest that you can get back together, but you really have to think about it seriously, after all, there are a lot of things that can change the early pure clan in two years, and you have to observe the changes between him and Lu Xian two years ago, your contradictions and the things you care about, have they changed now.

3.If you reconcile again this time, it is recommended to think more about getting married, and the house, car ticket and family Qi Bi nuclear state history should be considered more seriously this time.