The Art of Conversation, Why Should Conversation Be Artistic?

I don't know much about you and your leader (the president of the university), but as long as he is not a teacher who has taught logic classes for many years, it is easy to say. Huh

When I saw the logic teacher, I asked him, "Hello! He said, "How do you know I'm good?!" "Haha, just kidding

I have a good relationship with the teacher (the head teacher of the police academy), there must be a lot of graduation, and we often meet to eat, chat, etc. Sometimes I call him **, and ask him if he wants his daughter me? Oh thanks to him once talked to me, so that I have a different view of the teacher (especially the teacher who wears a police uniform very seriously), she said that I don't need to deliberately alienate him, at first I was very reserved, and then we talked about it Now we have a good relationship The main thing for you at the moment is not to put pressure on yourself, they are also ordinary people, you have to have confidence, it is very important to show your mat in front of him!

Don't be too restrained, trembling and talking, that's not necessary! You can talk about your common preferences so that you have a topic

Finally, I wish you all the best hehe.

It's a bit messy at first, but it doesn't matter, you just have to remember not to talk nonsense, the art of speaking is to be learned slowly.

When others speak, you have to listen with your heart, and you have to look into the eyes of the other person, ask your words, and you are it. Say "yes" and nod more. That's how it started from the beginning.

When you talk to him.

Just as if it's your son standing across from you.

I think he should be seen as a father.

If you're respectful of your father, I mean it's not cold and it's not overly intimate, but... Words.

Of course, it can also be seen as other relatives, elders.

I think my answer is different from the one above.

Just said mental preparation.

Because the above ones are already quite comprehensive.

Leader? You have to play yourself, have the courage to express yourself Although there is a bit of a level in identity, don't take this too seriously.

Soothe yourself. It is important to have a normal mind.

Don't ignore others.

The interlocutor should also pay attention to art, speak fluently and clearly as much as possible, and talk about the center of the problem, concise and clear, and logical, so as to attract the attention of the other party. However, some people do not pay much attention to the cultivation of this aspect, and they have countless problems in their hearts, and they even speak incoherently and incoherently, so that those who listen do not understand the essentials. I don't understand the truth of "don't speak rashly, but take it personally".

If others don't understand, they won't be able to understand your problem. So, be sure to think clearly about what you need to talk about before you talk. But no matter what, when talking to someone, you should respect the other person, let the person finish the conversation, and never show impatience, which will make the other person nervous, let alone know what to do.

The most taboo thing to talk about is to show off yourself.

Some people consciously or unconsciously use social situations to show off and show themselves. It is manifested as talking endlessly, and not giving others a chance to talk. In the conversation, he shows that he is knowledgeable, knowledgeable, boastful, untrustworthy, high-minded, and unpretentious, and his language always reveals that he deliberately belittles others in order to elevate himself.

When others disagree with some of his views or some statements, he will use harsh and harsh language to ridicule him and leave no mercy for others. In fact, such people are relatively shallow and ignorant, and they will not be welcomed. Bacon said:

The ostentatious are despised by the wise, envied by the foolish, flattered by the flattering, and at the same time slaves to the language of their boasting. Such conversations often end unhappily. In real life, such cases are not uncommon.

When talking, avoid snubbing others.

When talking to multiple people, pay attention to taking care of everyone and not snub others, which is by no means "not speculative and more than half a sentence", but etiquette.

In short, the conversation is based on the premise of sincerity, through cordial and simple language, elegant manners, to achieve mutual understanding and trust between people, and to establish a harmonious and equal interpersonal relationship, which will naturally contribute to the success of Hehanqinzuo.

Bad habits to overcome when speaking.

Remove noise. A common language problem that people make when they speak is the murmur of language. Some people have good conversations, but in their language there are many meaningless noises.

For example, the nose is always humming; or the throat is collapsing as if it is old and unsmooth, coughing gently; Or at the beginning of each sentence, a long "sigh" is often used, as if each sentence has to hesitate for a while before speaking; Or after finishing a sentence, always add an "um", as if every sentence is afraid that people will not hear clearly.

And so on, to be eliminated. These cacophonies make your otherwise good language as if the glass is covered with a layer of dust, greatly reducing the original brilliance.