Men keep mentioning divorce, but why don t men mention divorce after they mention it?

I'm a man, but I'm not married, so I'm going to analyze you from a sentimental point of view, hoping it can help you a little.

Personally, I think that for a "person", there are two things that must be possessed, one is responsibility, the other is conscience, and if you lose any of them, you can't be called a person! First of all, you have to ask whether he or you have these two qualities, and if anyone lacks one of them, I think the problem is mostly in this person.

If he is a man in charge, or a man with a conscience, he will not say such words casually, once this situation occurs, there are only several possibilities: first, you treat him badly; Second, he "found a new love"; 3. The husband and wife are not in harmony. In either case, both of you have a responsibility to shirk.

It is absolutely impossible to blame a simple individual for the emergence of this kind of thing, but it is a question of who plays a leading role, you only mentioned "men always mention divorce", and I have no way to understand the problem, in fact, you said, I am not good at understanding the problem, the problem of husband and wife, the most understanding is the self.

As the saying goes, "I'd rather demolish ten temples than one family", of course, from my point of view, I hope you can calm down and find out, what is the reason for his words, only by finding the reason can you prescribe the right medicine; If you can't figure out the root cause of the problem, I suggest you find your best friend of the opposite sex (simple friend) to talk to and ask him to help analyze it. (Don't, don't look for friends of the same sex, the same sex thinking is basically similar, it will only add fuel to the fire, it will not solve the problem, and the opposite sex can think about the problem from different angles). If the reason shows that it can be improved through communication or other work, it is the best, everyone talks openly and honestly, and the handling of the deal should not be delayed, but it must be rational.

If it is shown that the maintenance of the relationship between husband and wife is only a constraint on everyone, you will choose it yourself.

From falling in love to getting married, to living as a husband and wife is never easy, and it must be cherished. Of course, this has to start with your own inner feelings. Think about it and analyze it.

In addition, I would like to mention some practical things from some of the things I have seen myself: if you have children, you have to think about them no matter how you choose, but don't let them be the only bond you have together, feelings are the most primitive foundation; If he has transferred property or other similar behaviors such as concealing property, then you should pay special attention to it and cut through the mess quickly (don't specifically check the accounts, so it's okay).

The understanding is very superficial, I hope it can help you.

If you really want to divorce, you don't need to mention it, always mentioning it can only mean that he is dissatisfied with the woman, and communicate with each other to find out what is wrong with him.

You didn't make it clear why?

Article 31 of the Marriage Law: Where a man and a woman divorce voluntarily, the divorce shall be granted. Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office. A divorce certificate is issued when the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties are indeed willing and that the issues of children and property have been properly addressed.

Article 32: Where a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted.

1) bigamy or cohabitation of a person with a spouse;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they do not change;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

There may be several reasons why a man mentions divorce and then does not mention it:

1.Inner conflicts, confused thoughts, complex emotions that cannot be expressed.

2.I don't know how to express my true thoughts, I feel that my emotions are not easy to control, I am afraid of verbal harm, and I am unwilling to hurt each other.

3.Unable to accept the outcome of the divorce, his mind is confused, and he is afraid that his decision will bring pain to the other party, so he is reluctant to express his Jane Lu feelings.

4.I still love you and don't want to get divorced, but I don't want to hurt you without a stool, so I don't mention it.

5.If something goes wrong with the relationship, there may be no love, so the man doesn't want to divorce anymore.

6.He hasn't thought about it yet, and he doesn't want to get a divorce, so he doesn't mention divorce.

7.He may feel that you still love him and he doesn't want to give up on you, so he doesn't mention divorce.

In conclusion, divorce is a complex matter that involves many factors. If a man mentions divorce and then doesn't mention it, then he may be in one of the above reasons, and the specific reasons need to be further communicated and understood.

1. The heart is already desperate.

If you often belittle your husband, such as often saying that your looks are not good, your career is not good, etc., it will damage a man's self-confidence and self-esteem. At this time, the man filed for divorce, which means that he is desperate in his heart and does not want to live together.

2. Tired of quarrelling.

If you spend most of your time in quarrels during the process of getting along, then most men can't stand it at this time. Therefore, the husband's filing for divorce shows that he has had enough of this quarrelsome life.

What are the reasons for a man's divorce? Is it because there is a junior? Although every day is a small thing, it is not crazy for a long time.

No wonder men aren't crazy. What man can endure a man who reprimands him every day as a slave. Reason why a man files for divorce is 2:

It's good for a wife to be too suspicious of her husband's jealousy and let the man know that you care about her, but being overly jealous can be called vexatious. For the days of chasing wind and shadows, day and night information, men don't want to live. She would follow me out and not have complete personal space for the man's wife, which was scary, so he still took care of his wife alone.

The reason why the man filed for divorce is 3: his wife Hongxing is out of the wall. Whatever the reason, 990 percent of men will get divorced for the first time.

And some men will behave generously and go out of the house. Even if he is reluctant, he will come this far, because there is hardly a man who does not hate the woman who cuckolds him. Reason 4: Reason why a man files for divorce is 4:

The wife always quarrels with the mother, leaving the man at a loss and in a dilemma. For a long time, the most hurt and frustrated people were men. One is a woman who wants to accompany her for the rest of her life, and the other is a woman who gave birth to me and raised me.

Some men have made a lot of efforts, but their daughter-in-law doesn't pay for it, so they have to divorce. Because you're going to ask two people who will fall into the water to save whom, and if you really have to make a choice, it should be their mother.