What do you think is the reason why some people have been able to stay in love for decades?

It is that in marriage, you must have your own things to do, maintain independence, economic independence, spiritual independence, and live a good life by yourself. You can get through it together, and it's good to leave. has his own circle of friends, has the ability to learn constantly, and has the ability to control life.

In this way, no matter when we meet, it will never be without novelty. Maintain independence and keep in touch, there will always be surprises when you meet, and you should be able to feel the same feelings.

Loving each other, understanding each other, supporting each other, respecting each other, and having a little romance when necessary, it is not about spending a lot of money and a lot of thoughts, but the attitude of the other party and the needs of the other party. This is probably the reason why I can keep my relationship as before.

The two sides tolerate each other, tolerate more, work hard together, and fight side by side, only evenly matched love will last.

Although your lover cannot stay in the state of life forever in some ways, it is essential to live a life of "holding the hand of the child and growing old with him". After a man and a woman form a family, they each bear different obligations and responsibilities, learn from each other, cultivate common interests and hobbies, and are in a good state of stalemate. Sometimes a short parting will be better than the sweetness of the first acquaintance, and you can adopt a variety of lifestyles, such as traveling with your lover, or reminiscing about the good times of the first acquaintance, etc.

Marriage requires a certain degree of ritual, for birthdays, anniversaries, Valentine's Day and other types of festivals, the man should carefully arrange to accompany his wife, whether it is a gift or a flower, even if it is a simple meal out together, it can also add some interest to the boring life. It's even more perfect if you can leave everything behind on a day like this and go out and travel. In short, freshness, in the final analysis, is a surprise, this kind of surprise must be what you have put your mind to, why many marriages end up boring and boring, the left hand touches the right hand, it is boring, that is, in marriage, you have lost patience with your partner, and you are no longer willing to bother each other.

In a common life, husband and wife care for each other more and love each other in running the family together, sharing the ups and downs, and facing the ups and downs of life together. Love has always been there, but in the initial romantic and fresh love, responsibility, responsibility, the courage to share the wind and rain, and the warmth of relying on each other. The longer you are married, the more love you have.

Each other should constantly improve themselves, communicate calmly, leave some private space for each other, two people go out to travel together at least twice a year, and occasionally two people live separately for a period of time, as the so-called distance produces beauty, I think, so that two people may always be attracted to each other.

We have said over and over again that we want to marry love, and in the end we don't know what love should be like, it is a great fate to be able to live the same life as two people, we are looking forward to the good, but also hope to forbear, tolerate, and jointly maintain the hard-won other half, in the vast sea of people, it is not easy to create a life together. I owe you a pair of shoes in my previous life, and I will carry you a hundred miles in this life, for my own sake, maybe we should give up, maybe we should continue to insist, as long as we want, cherish it. There are thousands of ways to look like love, and the best look is nothing more than that, to put it mildly, I just want to make you happy, throw it around, but I can't throw you away.

Like each other, accompany each other, love each other for a long time, share weal and woe, and share weal and woe.

Mutual understanding, consideration, and trust, as well as love for each other as a catalyst.

That's not to say how good the relationship between two people is, but that they know how to give in and tolerate.

When to look at the southern snow, I have two white heads with plum blossoms.

There is also Li Shangyin's "Untitled", which has no colorful phoenix wings, and has a clear heart.

and "The Evil", I want to know you and live a long life. The mountains are edgeless, the heaven and the earth are together, and they dare to be with the king!

First of all, Ying Caier's personality belongs to the kind of big grin, and she is very bold in everything she does, and Chen Xiaochun is a particularly dedicated person, so the two of them can come together.

I think Chen Xiaochun and Ying Caier are still in love after ten years of marriage, as before, it is definitely not because of Ying Caier's arrogance. There are still unique features. The reason why two people can love each other for so many years, there must be a reason.

Maybe there is a reason for this, after all, being big and being big means being inclusive, which means not caring about a lot of things.

Because they understand each other very well and like each other's personalities, love is related to two people, not the character of one party.

Maybe there is such a reason, the main thing is that the two people are very suitable.

If you find the right half, you can naturally last for a long time, and you will be tired of dividing and combining, so it is better to be together for a long time.

is because Chen Xiaochun is loyal to love and has no scandals.

I think it's probably because it's really one thing down one thing, so even if they are all bad-tempered people, they can still love each other for ten years.

Of course not, because one of them is laughing, the other is laughing, one is making trouble, the other is also laughing, and this is what love looks like.

First of all, I would like to wish the two elderly people good health and then be able to spend decades together. Then I think that the relationship between grandparents is really enviable, because I think this kind of relationship can stand the test of time, so I think that if you want to ensure the sweetness of love or maintain the stability of love, there should be the following three factors.

The first point is that I think two people want to be able to ensure the sweetness of love, and I think two people should respect each otherIn this way, he can make his other half feel that he is respected, and he also loves himself enough, so in ancient times, people often described two people as having a good relationship between husband and wife, saying that these two people respect each other like guests, that is, treat their lovers as if they were guests, and not regard their lovers as outsiders, but simply refer to respect.

The second point is that if two people want to get along well, they must have enough trust in each otherI think anyone who chooses to marry you is because they feel that you can give me a sense of security, which is the biggest reason for getting married, love alone is far from enough, so I think if you want to go on with your lover, you have to give your lover enough trust and security.

Thirdly, I think you should still commit to the same hobbies as your loverIn this way, you can keep the other party fresh to yourself, and you have to be very good to your lover, like falling in love at the beginning, I think a lot of people now, when they fall in love with girls at the beginning, they are very good to girls, but when they are together, they are the same, but they are still good, and after getting married, they have changed their appearance to girls, which can be said to be bad. I don't think boys should be able to do that.

Two people must tolerate each other more, understand each other, and think more about each other no matter what happens.

In my opinion, the two of them have been together for decades, and they should get along relatively smoothly when they get old.

There is always someone in life who tolerates each other and doesn't have so many worries.

Usually it is the firewood, rice, oil and salt of life, and the most important thing is to tolerate each other and consider each other more.

I think such people must care about each other and be able to tolerate each other's shortcomings.

Don't wash the curtains too often, and then some decorations, in fact, don't have much effect, use less decoration, just be concise.

The curtains should be cleaned regularly, and then a good cleaning agent should be used when cleaning.

Don't wash the curtains all the time, you can wash them once a month or two. When washing, it is better to pour some color protection and brightening agents.

You can take a vacuum cleaner to suck the curtains in a few days, and wash the detergent every month or two months so as not to destroy the color of the curtains.

Be sure to master the time of cleaning, and clean it every once in a while.

When cleaning curtains, be sure to soak them in white vinegar or baking soda to make them cleaner.

The curtains can be removed and cleaned after a period of time.

Ten years later, there is still the first warmth.

It means that friends who have known each other for ten years are still so friendly, they are friends for life, and they should be cherished.

Yes, it's true, thank you.

Of course.

Because of love, because of knowing how to cherish, because of tolerance and understanding, understanding and understanding. Because each other is working for each other to be the best version of themselves.

So, did the elderly holding hands on the street also touched you?

I don't know how to express it, it may be impossible to be in love as before, but there must be people who have been in love with each other and supported each other. Sometimes it's easy to get nothing if you ask for too much, and when it's time to be tolerant and understanding, you should be appropriately tolerant and understand the other party. This is the way to get along for a long time.

Saying hello to the leader in the morning is very simple ......A "good morning" is enough.

As for the feeling of the first ten years, ......Don't show ...... in the morning helloLet's talk about it when we have a chance to communicate feelings.

I go to work every day, I see each other every day, I have old acquaintances, what do I feel like ten years ago! Just say, "You're early!" Hello! Good morning! Or ask, "Do you have any new tasks today?" And so on, and go to your post.

Definitely, the most basic courtesy.

Say hello, is it that hard?