Is my girlfriend too stingy, my girlfriend says I m too stingy,

Updated on society 2024-05-07
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's a little strange that I haven't given anything away for so long

    You have to see how he usually treats you, how he cares about you.

    You yourself should be aware that true love cannot be measured in terms of material things.

    Maybe he's just a person who values emotions more than material things, maybe he doesn't pay attention to things, hehe.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't listen to the nonsense upstairs. There are girls who have been dating for so long and don't give boys things. There are two possibilities.

    1: Your girlfriend is not enlightened. Don't care about this 2:

    Girls are in financial difficulty. It is recommended that you ask this question or hint at her. It's not the solution for you to stuff yourself in your stomach.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Look at her mind, you can't blame her if she doesn't buy it, when you're in love, the boy just has to pay a little more, it's you chasing her, right? Of course, she thinks that you should please her, and some people just won't show it. Some girls may be really stingy, but as long as you love her, it doesn't matter, when you get married, the money she saves will be yours in the future.

    It's not bad to marry a woman who can live, and she is more budget-conscious.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This one is a bit weird.

    Generally, girls prefer to buy small things to give to their boyfriends.

    You can ask her as a joke for half a day.

    For example, if a friend receives a gift from his girlfriend, you can say, "I'm so envious, when will you give me a small gift, hehe."

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Communicate more with your girlfriend, don't ask her directly, think of some ways with your heart, such as you go shopping together, you see something, you have to show that you like it very much, and tell her that you like it very much, see how she reacts, you can respond at any time.

    It's simple, think about it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Does she care about you? Serving you a piece of meat at mealtime? It's a bit strange that I didn't send it for so long.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your girlfriend might be smarter, hehe. Generally, women who don't spend money on men are more sensible. The way she loves you may be different, or it may be a restriction of conditions, don't think too much. Comparisons are odious.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You're thinking too much.

    Love is never expressed in material terms.

    In the heart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Did you know that my brother's former girlfriend was such an "iron rooster".

    I paid it for three months, and I didn't spend a penny on my brother, and I didn't even say a word.

    My brother didn't care at the time, his family was in good condition, but this woman was very picky.

    You're just mentally unbalanced right now, and this feeling is suppressed, and you're going to feel depressed one day.

    You can jokingly say to her, "When can you give me something, I'll keep it like a baby" and see what she says.

    Men are not short of money, but women should not rely too much on men to buy things for themselves, and this kind of woman makes me feel very disgusted.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You really care about these material things, maybe.

    But it's the fact that she loves you is the main thing. Right?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You have to see if the conditions in her house allow her to buy you things, but you say that she hasn't bought anything, that's a lot of criticism, but if you love her, don't care so much.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. Hello, dear. If you really love her, you can try to change yourself and make yourself cheerful and generous.

    There are five ways to do this: 1. Help others. Helping others is not just to make yourself welcome, but because helping others is a virtue and will also make you feel happy.

    Helping others will also make you feel worthy, and it will also increase your chances of being with others, and let others feel your friendliness, and also increase the chance of letting others know about you.

    My girlfriend says I'm too stingy, hello, dear. If you really love her, you can try to change yourself and make yourself cheerful and generous. There are five ways to do this:

    1. Help others. Helping others is not just to make yourself welcome, but because helping others is a virtue and will also make you feel happy. Helping others will also make you feel worthy, and it will also increase your chances of being with others, and let others feel your friendliness, and also increase the chance of letting others know about you.

    2. Discover your strengths. Stingy people tend to be more introverted and quiet, it is difficult to find their own strengths, and they are always not confident enough. I always think that the person who is the focus of the venue is better, but in fact, you are wrong, you can only make others know you if you know yourself.

    Believe in yourself and tell yourself in your heart that you have a kind heart, calm and friendly, and you are really good.

    She blocked me at every turn.

    Why is it blocked?

    Is it because of something that makes you angry?

    And then you don't understand that the other party is angry, right?

    Look at people's mood, if they are in a good mood, they will chat with you well, and if they are in a bad mood, they will ignore me for a day.

    Have you asked what other reasons are?

    Or has the other party been worried about something recently.

    You can care more about each other.

    She has such an attitude towards me, why should I care about her.

    You know what happened between you that caused you not to speak.

    One day all of a sudden.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. Kiss. We'll be happy to answer for you.

    When your girlfriend says you're stingy, what does she mean about you? How much do you know a little bit as her boyfriend? Does she blame you for not being atmospheric?

    If you are financially reluctant to spend money and are very critical of her, then if she says that you are stingy, you had better correct it, after all, it is also appropriate to spend some money for your girlfriend. If she means that you are narrow-minded and not atmospheric, then you should also be open-minded.

    Girlfriend says I'm too stingy, dear. We'll be happy to answer for you. When your girlfriend says you're stingy, what does she mean about you?

    How much do you know a little bit as her boyfriend? Does she blame you for not being atmospheric? If you are financially reluctant to spend money and are very critical of her, then if she says that you are stingy, you had better correct it, after all, it is also appropriate to spend some money for your girlfriend.

    If she means that you are narrow-minded and not atmospheric, then you should also be open-minded.

    She just blocked me at every turn.

    Dear, what caused you to say you were stingy?

    I lent her 100 money, and people blocked me, and I said that if you block it, you will block it, and give me the money first, and people will say that I am stingy.

    Dear, she's your girlfriend 100 dollars not worth looking for her. Then she'll really call you stingy. Boys should be generous.

    Why haven't I seen the weather in person with her in the past few years?

    I'm not sure how generous things make me magnanimous.

    Haven't you met, dear?

    Are you dating online?

    She blocked me at every turn, am I so comfortable, she won't be happy if I ask her for money, I haven't seen it for more than 3 years before.

    First of all, you see the problem very profoundly, can grasp the main point of the matter, say that we are stingy is not too much, of course, thrifty housekeeping is also a difficult and glorious task to live at home in the future, say that people are stingy, to divide what people, to what things, no matter how stingy they are, it is not too much to be stingy with themselves, the man who picks the door is the most real, and the person who is desperate to show himself in love is even more untrustworthy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. Hello dear, if your girlfriend always says that you are stingy and stingy, you should reflect on yourself, is it really like what he said? If you are stingy and stingy, just for your better life in the future, and your stinginess is not aimed at him, then you should explain the actual situation clearly with him, obtain his understanding, and work together for a better life in the future, after all, you need to buy a house and a car after marriage and some other living expenses, you need to lay a good foundation at this stage, talk to him well, and you will be able to gain his understanding.

    My girlfriend says I'm too stingy, dear, hello, if your girlfriend always says you're stingy and stingy, you should reflect on yourself, is it really like what he said? If you are stingy and stingy, just for your better life in the future, and your stinginess is not aimed at him, then you should explain the actual situation clearly with him, obtain his understanding, and work together for a better life in the future, after all, you need to buy a house and a car after marriage and some other living expenses, you need to lay a good foundation at this stage, talk to him well, and you will be able to gain his understanding.

    She blocked me at every turn, I borrowed 100 money from her, and I said that it was okay to block me and delete it, and if I transferred my money first, people would say that I was stingy.

    Dear, if it's just 100 fast, there's no need to look for what she wants, it costs money to fall in love, and 100 yuan is really very little.

    Hmph, you know a.

    Dear, then why does he often block you?

    It depends on the mood of others.

    If people are in a good mood, they will chat with me well, and when they are in a bad mood, they will block me.

    Dear, then she is so moody, you should have broken up with him a long time ago.

    Do you think it's wrong for me to ask for that money, it's too much of an attitude towards me.

    Dear, you're right, I support what you want from him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes and no. Because I'm a girl, I also like to look good, and the young lady will even share it with my boyfriend, "Wow, this girl looks so good", completely for the purpose of sharing. When my boyfriend happens to meet the type he likes, he agrees with it, and I'm very happy.

    But! If one day the two of them have a good conversation, and he suddenly sends me a white-skinned, beautiful and long-legged **, telling me that this is good-looking, I will be angry. Suddenly it's not particularly angry, it's a little bit angry, really a little bit.

    I wonder if he doesn't like my type of girl.

    I don't think the problem is stinginess. Anger is due to a sense of security and self-esteem. The long-distance relationship itself is not secure enough, not to mention the beauties who pay attention to such **.

    It can't be said that he is not dedicated to your feelings, after all, he can't touch these beauties. What you're worried about is that his heart is still alive, what if he meets such a beauty?

    If that happens, it's simpler, isn't it? Touchstone. You don't have to worry about it so much. As for whether this is a must-have for men, I think it's an exaggeration, it is true that there is a preference for beautiful people of the opposite sex, but it is not in any case that such a concern is given.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think we should break up! In life, there are not a few cases of boyfriends scheming about their beloved women, women will feel that these men love money more than themselves, what should women do when they encounter such stingy men?

    Under normal circumstances, most men are still very generous to their girlfriends, give a gift to the banquet booth during the holidays, send a red envelope, invite their girlfriend to dinner, accompany their girlfriend to go shopping and buy clothes, take their girlfriend on a trip, as long as their girlfriend is happy, they will be happy to spend money and time to please their girlfriend.

    It's a pity that not every man in this world is like this, and some men are really very stingy. Many stingy men are created by the family life environment since childhood, and it is difficult to change in a short period of time. While picking on their girlfriends in terms of money, they will be reluctant to pay more for women and love because of their small energy.

    Therefore, it is suitable to find a person who is the right person and can share the same consumption concept with you. It's not that stingy men don't love you, but they love themselves far more than they love you, not only do they not want to share the burden of life, but they also hope that their girlfriends can make more money to reduce the pressure of their lives.

    If a man who is really responsible, even if he has no financial ability, he will only be frugal to himself and will not let his girlfriend be wronged with him. When dating a stingy man, don't expect to be generous to you after marriage. If the requirements for living standards are too high and exceed the financial strength of your boyfriend, you really need to do what you can to last for a long time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If it's too much and you can't tolerate it, just break up.

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