Because of his ex girlfriend. If you want to break up with me, can you get it back?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-07
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let's calm down for a while, let him choose by himself, it's his fault to dwell on the past and hurt the current person, missing you is his regret, although you like him, but you also have your dignity, if he really wants to break up with you because of his ex-girlfriend, then you don't need to lower your posture to stay, don't take men too seriously, aren't you yourself also important? If he doesn't have you in his heart, then you can just let go, let go of him, and more importantly, let go of yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You're doing it right. Don't break up first, both of them calm down for a while.

    First love is the most unforgettable, and it will feel very sad to think about it occasionally. And it's not like forgetting.

    As for you, don't take this too seriously. His ex-girlfriend is already in the past tense, and she has a life of her own. Now it's your boyfriend who thinks of her for a while, and instead of going to find his ex-girlfriend.

    You have to believe in yourself and believe in your boyfriend. Aren't you unwilling? Then don't talk to him about his girlfriend in advance, and don't mention the dream.

    Everything goes with the flow. Because love depends on fate, you can't force it.

    If he insists on breaking up with you because of his ex-girlfriend, then you can let it go! Such a man will ruin you, and definitely never deserve your love!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't mention it to him too much, usually send him some concerned text messages, even if you meet in the name of a friend, chat with him more, don't lose your temper during this period, I believe he still loves you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It should be that he really feels so sorry for his former girlfriend! That's why there is a deep presence of her in his memory! You'd better let go of the man who will only live in your memory.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The ex-girlfriend is her own mother. You're a stepmother... You are good to your son, but people still think your mother is good.

    What does this kind of man want him to do... Dump him...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Anyone who meets their lover who is not good to them will recall the person who was good to them.

    I believe your boyfriend also feels that it is impossible to be with his ex.

    But people are like that.

    He wants you to be as good as your ex-girlfriend was to him.

    You've only been dating for 2 months, and it's the run-in period.

    If you like it, take it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Can be redeemed ยทยท

    Since you have him in your heart, you have to fight for him, let him forget the past, and love you well.

    In this, Xiao Mo blesses you to be happy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Respect him, and even more so yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hey, that man deliberately wants to capture you, you know, he wants to arrest you to death.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The above is very true, my mother is my mother, and I can never compare to it, don't be obsessed, be good to yourself, really, sisters.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What was your first reaction after a breakup?

    In general, you want him to come back to you, right?

    But at this time, the other party has deliberately left you, and if you ask him to do what he least wants to do, then the other party will definitely not give you a look.

    If not, you may ask him to come back.

    If the request doesn't work, it may end up begging.

    If you use this logic for low-profile recovery, it is certainly unlikely to succeed.

    Even if you succeed, your posture in the future will be low.

    It's like we're on our way. When I meet you, I often go to sell flowers and pester you to buy some flowers.

    In fact, a bouquet of flowers is not expensive, about ten or twenty yuan, which is not as cheap as you buy a cup of milk tea.

    And children are indeed very pitiful, selling flowers outside in the wind and sun is indeed worthy of sympathy.

    But you just don't want to buy his flowers. Why?

    One is that you don't need to spend much.

    The second reason is that the way he pesters you is really annoying.

    You could have spent this amount of money, but when he struggled so much, you refused.

    It's the same with recovering people. So the more you pester him, the more reluctant he becomes, even if he doesn't hate you that much.

    After the breakup, we want to save our ex-wife. In general, there are several actions.

    For example, tell the other person that you love him very much. Are you so cruel? Don't you want me?

    In other words, I love you so much that I don't want to leave you. What's wrong with me?

    You point out that I can change it. For example, we have been together for a long time and finally got to where we are today.

    How can we say breakups and breakups and so on? Some people even go directly to the door of the other party without their consent, and the company will block the other party from the door.

    Or meet for various reasons, or even self-abuse.

    I know you'd think that everything you're doing now is because you love this person and don't want to lose him, but it's quite the opposite.

    This kind of behavior of yours is like the flower seller mentioned above, which will only make him hate you more and more and resist you.

    Speaking of recovery, in fact, I think it's understandable that most girls break up.

    How does it feel to break up? It's normal to be sad, struggling, or complaining. No one can easily let go of those who are loved.

    But then again, girls always want men to talk to them quickly.

    However, when a person breaks up, he prefers to be quiet for a while, which can lead to.

    One chases the other, the other runs away".

    At this time, if you continue to chase him with high pressure, he will inevitably feel bored and resistant, and your recovery difficulties will inevitably increase indefinitely!

    Before you recover, you must first understand that a breakup is just a state of your current emotional expression.

    That doesn't mean he won't change his mind, and it's not that you won't have a chance.

    So, don't rush and deal with the problem emotionally, that will destroy the "hope" with your own hands.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Girlfriend breaks up, do you want to get it back? It depends on your own intentions, if you are very nostalgic for this relationship, then try to save this relationship, if you are not particularly happy together, then there is no need to redeem it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I broke up with my ex completely out of voluntary negotiation between the two parties, so I have no regrets, because the two people are not suitable, and there will be no possibility of getting back together, I think the two people should get along with each other to do the following, which is more conducive to the maintenance of the relationship!

    1. Rely on each other.

    Since two people are together, if they want to get along for a long time, the most important thing is to trust and rely on each other, if both people can't trust each other and rely on each other, then being together will only make each other very tired. We are looking for someone to be able to face all the storms together, not all the storms are brought by the other party.

    2. Understand each other.

    It's true that there is no empathy in this world, but we can understand each other. When two people get along, they need to think about each other and don't impose their own will on each other. Only by understanding and tolerating each other can two people get along better.

    3. Be tolerant of each other.

    When two people are together, you should not only appreciate each other's strengths, but also tolerate each other's shortcomings and shortcomings. Everyone has their own habits and shortcomings, so don't just blame others. Two people are together to help each other and constantly improve themselves.

    No matter what the other person has lacking, we must tolerate and accept, and then we will work together to change.

    4. Respect each other.

    If you sneak through their phone today, and they also peek at your phone, and they don't respect each other, it will inevitably cause a round of quarrels. Everyone has their own space and privacy, and knowing how to respect and protect each other's privacy is the greatest respect for each other, so that the emotional life can be more harmonious.

    5. Praise each other.

    Anyone likes to be praised by others, because it is an encouragement and recognition of the other person, and no one does not like to listen to good words, and complimenting each other can promote the relationship between the two very well.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    My girlfriend's ex-boyfriend is looking for her to get back together, he says yes, and then he breaks up with you, and you want to save the relationship, I don't think it's possible, because your girlfriend doesn't put his mind on you, he prefers his ex-boyfriend.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    His girlfriend's ex-boyfriend asked him to get back together, he said yes, and then he wanted to break up with himself, what about this kind of girlfriend, there is no need to redeem it, because he has always had her boyfriend in his heart.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    My girlfriend's ex-boyfriend asked her to get back together, he said yes, and then he was going to break up with me, I don't think you need to insist on this kind of girl, so you should wish them that they will find a better girl.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think the breakup can be reunited, but even if it is reunited, it will not be like the beginning, it will always be a little awkward, the breakup is obviously not in love with each other, I don't want to contact you anymore, why bother to be strong, he is uncomfortable when he sees you, maybe people have new friends, after all, time has passed, letting go of others is letting go of yourself, now you should think about whether your relationship still needs to continue, whether it is suitable to be together. If you don't think it's necessary, then completely disconnect, you can't break the silk lotus, and there is no point in stalking and fighting, it will only make things worse and worse.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Well, my girlfriend's ex-boyfriend is looking for her to get back together, she says yes, and then she is going to break up with you, which means that he hasn't forgotten that her ex-boyfriend still loves her ex-boyfriend in his heart, and you can let it go.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It can be seen from the other party's behavior that she has not really forgotten her ex-boyfriend, in this case, it is recommended that you do not redeem it, because the woman's heart is not in you at all, it does not belong to your own feelings, let go as soon as possible, and your happiness will come soon.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Then you should also have a good time with him, and ask him why he chose his ex-boyfriend, his advantages are in**, and your history is in**, why did he choose his ex-boyfriend and give up You can only improve yourself if you know this. There is also the possibility of redemption.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The situation you are talking about, it is obvious that your girlfriend is an irreplaceable person in front of her, and her ex-boyfriend is looking for her to seep and reunite, and she shouts that Liang immediately has the same file, you can't keep such a girl, your heart is not on you, I advise you to give up.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You can communicate well and talk more about the good things you have with your girlfriend, so that your girlfriend feels that you are more suitable than his ex-boyfriend, so that she will not be separated from you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Since he had promised Sun Ju to get back together with his ex-boyfriend, I think he had thought about it and felt that his ex-boyfriend was more suitable for him, so he returned to him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    What else is there to undo about this, she hasn't forgotten about her ex-boyfriend at all, you're just a spare tire. Stop the loss in time, this kind of girl has a bad character, and you can't be happy if you're really together. Let's find your own happiness.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Relax the criteria: to increase the probability of finding the other half; Too many rules and regulations, not only limit the potential other half, but also imprison their own hearts, in fact, there are not so many perfections and coincidences, more of a tolerance and patience - no matter how beautiful the gem, it also needs to be polished. According to one mathematician's estimate, in the same region, 5 million women.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If your current girlfriend's ex-boyfriend is looking for her to get back together, and then she agrees, and wants to break up with you, if you really can't let go at this time, you can try your best to redeem it, but it shouldn't have much effect, and it's best to let yourself let go of this feeling in style.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Then you also told him, you love him very much and don't want to break up with him, your ex-boyfriend is now coming to you to get back together, and there will still be a lot of conflicts and misunderstandings when you are together.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    can't be recovered, which means that he has never forgotten that his ex-boyfriend is with you, but just spent this unhappy time. You should also think about it, stop being obsessed with him, he doesn't have you in his heart.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    As soon as her ex-boyfriend asked her to get back together, she agreed, which means that she hasn't let go of it and still loves him in her heart. Tan Huai is with you, she just wants to find someone to accompany her and accompany her out of the last relationship, but she doesn't love you very much. So in this case, there is no need for you to redeem it, it is better to let go and find your next period of happiness.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If the other party really has such an idea and such a decision, he will talk to the other party first, and if there is no result, forget it, the most important thing is that this girl is a bad person, and she doesn't particularly cherish the feelings.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You can sue him for the absence of the bureau, since your ex-boyfriend is looking for you to get back together, then I can do the same, otherwise it will be too unfair to me, I have given you something less, and I will double my efforts for you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    He doesn't like you that much, so why should Zixin redeem it Her ex-boyfriend came to her, and she left with her ex-boyfriend, which means that she doesn't like you Or that she doesn't like you that much, and argues that she doesn't like you that much, and argues that she doesn't like or doesn't like that much, why do you want to keep him by his side and carry the book Sakura.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    My girlfriend's ex-boyfriend asked her to get back together, she said that she could break up with you and then break up, then there was no need to redeem it, since she chose her ex to bless them, even if you redeemed her, she still thought in her heart that her ex would not be with you well.

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