Growing up, no one seemed to like me, was it ugly or personality?

Updated on healthy 2024-05-25
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In other words, after reading it** The head of the building is very good and said that he is absolutely elegant and handsome! So Lou Lou said that the problem of appearance I think is not very possible, and the personality, I don't know what kind of character Lou Lou is, but when I saw Lou Lou, he said, "I don't usually like to talk, I like to sit in a corner".

    And I think the first possibility is that the girls feel more withdrawn (excuse me for lacking the words), and the girls around you happen to be sunny, and they don't see the sunny side of you.

    The second possibility is that someone likes Lou Lou But they are all crushes Lou Lou you don't usually talk to others Then other girls don't dare to pounce on you if they like you, pounce on them Now there are still a lot of shy girls.

    I personally used to have a very good friend I guess I used to be like Lou Lou I didn't like to talk to people very much, but I was very thick-skinned at the time, and I always leaned over to talk to him and said, Lou Lou If you really have a lot of ideas, you can observe the girls around you and see if anyone is talking to you, their eyes are flashing, peeking at you or something, haha.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Your personality is a bit dull, and people who don't like to talk will give people an uncomfortable feeling, so you better make yourself lively and cheerful.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Looks very individual, 18-year-old sky, pay attention to yourself from the outside to the inside, but this should have started at the age of 15, is it something that has happened recently, so that you pay attention to your appearance, almost no 30-year-old man will care about his appearance, so this is a psychological problem in adolescence, and it is very important to spend this period with a peaceful mind.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    LZ: I found out that I was in love with you......I'm not kidding......

    In Chongqing, not under Chongqing, we are developing.

    Hehe's a bit of a similar personality, and his hobbies are almost ......

    I'm usually a cheerful person, and I'm quite noisy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's super handsome. How could no one like it?

    It's because the girl is too shy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How can a person who paints be mentally ill? It's someone who is jealous that you don't paint well, don't care too much about other people's opinions, be so young, live a cheerful and happy life, don't always get bored, get along with friends more. And it's still very handsome to look at** Zhang.。。。

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You're a boy, okay, there is a girl you like who takes the initiative to chase after you, maybe she also likes you silently in her heart, just waiting for you to start first.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, you can take the initiative to talk to the girl.

    Maybe it's because you're too shy that you become.

    Not popular, try you to take your first step first!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm using a mobile phone, I can't see that**! But I don't think that's too important, people's handsomeness is mainly determined by momentum and talent! As long as you are capable and talented, girls line up to chase you!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You should find a guy to complement each other!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The landlord changed his personality and chased the girl from your house to the Mediterranean!!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, don't blame yourself too much, this is very common during adolescence and early adulthood. People have different likes and preferences, maybe the type you like is not the same as the person you have a relationship with, or it may be because you don't have enough commonality and attraction between you.

    Second, don't force yourself to pursue people who are not interested in you. If you keep chasing people who don't like you, it can leave you feeling frustrated and lost, while also wasting your time and energy. Instead, you can expand your social circle, meet more people, and try to get along and socialize with different types of people, which will make it easier for you to find people who have something in common and attractive to you.

    In addition, you can also try to improve your attractiveness and charisma, which is not to change yourself in order to make others like you, but to better show your strengths and charisma. For example, you can learn new skills and knowledge, improve your image and dress, increase your self-confidence, and so on.

    Finally, don't worry, love needs fate and time. I believe that at some point in the future, you will meet the right person and experience a beautiful love with him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When we were young, our parents taught us not to fall in love, and at this time we also abided by such rules and regulations, and we didn't dare to fall in love, which led to the fact that we didn't experience what it was like to like people since we were young, and we didn't know what it was like to like? When the time comes, the parents are anxious to let us get married, but how can we do such a thing when we don't even know what we like, and we don't have the experience of a person we like since we were young, what kind of experience is this?

    I have never liked anyone since I was a child, and even if I had such a feeling at that time, I was young and ignorant and did not understand what it was like, and it was impossible to tell my parents about this feeling, because we knew that our parents would scold us for not following such rules, which indirectly led to us not liking people.

    Until I like someone or something for a moment, but this feeling quickly dissipates, and even we don't have time to grasp this feeling.

    Even if we haven't liked someone, but because we have friends by our side to accompany us, there is no such thing as emptiness in our hearts, so we don't need a boyfriend or girlfriend to accompany us, if we have it, it will only make us think that it is a burden, we need to allocate more time to each other, but in this way, it is equivalent to a lot of our personal time has been reduced, and this situation is what we do not want to see.

    Not having a boyfriend or girlfriend has reduced our burden We have one less person in our hearts, and we don't have many experiences to like, and we still have expectations for love, but we don't even know what it's like to like it? I don't know what type of person I like, this is the most difficult thing in my heart, we don't have a certain standard, and if we don't have a standard, we don't have a goal, so that we can't experience the feeling of liking people.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This kind of mood is not easy to describe, it should be helpless. It's just that I'm not interested in the opposite sex, and the feeling of the same sex is normal, and it's time to be.

    Since I was a child, most of the boys who have been with me have been brothers, and a few have confessed to me, and I have developed into good buddies. When I went to college, everyone fell in love, I was very confused, I didn't know who I should like, everyone was interested in a boy in law, but I didn't feel it at all.

    I doubted that I was gay, but after being certified, my sexual orientation was fine. So, I can only comfort myself, maybe I just haven't met someone who makes me tempted, and I will have it later.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There is a person who feels like he has never liked someone else. It's like being alone, not going to love. When everyone else starts to fall in love, he is like no one likes it, I don't know why, they just don't like others, and they feel that their hearts are different from many people.

    No one makes themselves feel tempted, no one takes it to heart all the time, and no one even wants to talk together. No one wanted to make him their own. Even if it is a person who suits you in other people's mouths, it does not mean to like it.

    I don't feel empty in my heart, and because I don't like it, I don't seem to be under pressure, so I don't feel like I'm missing anything. Anyway, you can do whatever you want, without those troubles of love and non-love.

    I feel that I am also free alone, but because I feel that there is no pressure and I feel relaxed, I don't want to like others. I don't have to worry about it, I just do what I want, and I don't care what the other person thinks, because there is no one who is tempted to worry me. There is no sense of pressure, you don't have to think about how to meet the person you like, you don't have to think about whether you will chase someone, no one has made you tempted since you were a child, and you can't say that you don't have a favorite person, you can't say that you have no heart and lungs, at least you live an easy life.

    I didn't have a favorite person from childhood to adulthood, and even if there was such a person who had a good feeling, it wouldn't take a few days to forget it thoroughly. There is no need to contact, because I don't want to miss it either. Sometimes just because you don't have someone you like doesn't mean you won't like it in the future.

    I may have thought that there was something else to do, and I didn't think about it. So many times I feel that it is still early, there is no need to like others, there is no need for that, after all, people's thoughts are different.

    Of course, because fate has not arrived, life has just begun, and there is no way to say that no one likes you as before. As long as there is a suitable person with fate, there is still a great possibility of liking. We are not born lonely, there will always be someone who walks into our hearts, but the time is different, and those who don't like it just take a longer time.

    That also has the same benefits, you don't have to be sad and depressed because of love at a very young age.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This will become very insensitive, people are originally an amorous species, from the first, there is no person you like, you may be a person who lacks feelings, you have no feelings for the opposite sex around you, and even some of the opposite sex confess to you that you are not interesting, feel very annoying, a person is still a lot of people is like one more trouble, you have not liked someone means that you must not have been in love, because the beginning of a relationship is to like someone, But if you don't even like someone then you are equivalent to losing the right to fall in love, for a normal person from the beginning of the feeling of this kind of thing, may see a very favorite thing and want to work hard to get it, so you have to start to learn how to like someone, and then seriously talk about a relationship....

    Second, you may have liked it once but because you have had a shadow since that time, so you have been in that shadow and can't get out, resulting in you don't want to like anyone, in fact, emotional injuries are quite easy to recover and heal, maybe you haven't met a real person who makes your heart beat in an instant, if you meet such a person one day in the future, you will definitely not like it.

    Thirdly, maybe you are a person who is not very likable or you are a very cold person, because the kind of person who has a lot of friends around you may not have liked anyone, and sometimes it only takes a few seconds for people to like, so you have to work hard to like someone, and you will find that this feeling is really amazing.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    How is a goddess trained? Since I was a child, there has been such a question that has bothered me, because I am not a goddess, so I especially want to know the happiness and joy in my heart after becoming a goddess. To face the reality, I am not a goddess, and I have never experienced the privileges that a goddess has, but no one likes this experience since I was a child.

    Whenever I hear girls talking about the troubles that someone chases after them, they won't refuse to bring them troubles, I have to be broken in my heart, why is the gap between people and people so big, people are facing how to choose, they are facing how to be chosen, people are worried that so many people chase and don't know how to deal with it, and they are facing no one and doubting themselves. This is the truth that people are more popular than dead people. When others were in junior high school or high school, they could hear love words with affection, and they were stupid at that time and didn't know what love words were.

    When people let go of love, they think about what they like. In short, I can never understand what people are doing. If it goes on like this, other girls say that they see how handsome the boy is, but they don't think they are handsome, at that time, do you feel that you don't have aesthetics?

    Why not be on the same platform as other people. It's not that the brain is broken or there is no brain at all.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    From childhood to adulthood, if no one likes it all the time, this experience may feel that you are not valued, and you will not feel that you are not good enough.

    Not being perfect may be a little inferior.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Your attitude towards the person you like and towards others is always very different. I haven't liked anyone since I was a child.,No matter how tough you look when you're to others.,But when you face him.,Instantly become very gentle.。 I haven't liked anyone since I was a child.,Become very stingy.,It's easy to be jealous.。

    When you put a person in your heart, you always want him to be exclusive to you, and hope that he will not be close to anyone else of the opposite sex. I haven't liked anyone since I was a child, and whenever he gets a little closer to someone else, you get jealous and angry.

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