Growing up, I haven t been in a relationship, what does it feel like?

I think it's normal that I've never been in a relationship, how can it be so easy to meet the right person for me, so it's not a strange thing that I haven't been in love. I haven't been in a relationship since I was a child, and I think most of them will have the following feelings.

1.It's a shame to say. When everyone around you is in love, but I haven't been in love once, it's really embarrassing to think about.

But this is not a matter that can be solved in a hurry, it is really not easy to find a suitable person to fall in love, and I am not willing to compromise, I have to be responsible for myself and others, so I can't compromise no matter what. It's a shame to be ashamed, and quietly wait for the right person in your life to appear. <>

2.Don't dare to go home, don't dare to call Mom and Dad. If your boss is not too young but has never been in love, then the seven aunts and eight aunts will start to be anxious, so you have to pay attention to whether there are suitable candidates around you, and then let you go on a blind date.

Parents are even more anxious. Seeing that others are the same age as you, the child can play soy sauce, and I am even more anxious, so I asked when you can bring someone home as soon as I said a dozen ** sentences, and the parents are really too anxious.

3.I'm in a hurry. Seeing that I am about to become a leftover man and a woman, can I not be in a hurry, go to a friend's wedding, imagine when I can get to my wedding, I am really anxious, and I am really in a hurry to find a partner.

4.I think it's good to be single. If you have been single for a long time, you will slowly like this feeling, one person is really good, don't think about the feelings of another person, do what you want, and be relatively free, will not be restricted by anyone, if you want to go**go**There will be no shackles, and there is nothing bad about being single.

It's really not strange that I haven't been in love since I was a child, and if you don't want to fall in love, then stay single, anyway, with friends.

I don't think I've been in a relationship, probably because I haven't met the right person. There are a few girls in our dormitory who belong to the type of good girls, and they have never been in a relationship since they were children and have been in college. Every time I ask them why they don't fall in love?

They always say, "What's so good about being in love?" Seeing that your heart is broken when you cry and the sky is falling apart when you quarrel, I don't have the heart to fall in love.

But I think that from childhood to adulthood, we must fall in love, experience the taste of being pampered and pay without regrets. There are very few people who marry their first love, so we need to use a relationship to allow mistakes, cheating, and breakups, and if you haven't experienced any of these, you may be missing a very important piece in your life.

Of course, I don't think I've ever been in a relationship, so I'm probably mistaken for gay. Well, this should be a reasonable inference, after all, there are so many gay now, at least one out of ten. There is a girl in our dormitory, because she works in the student union, and she often deals with elementary school girls, and every time she comes back and says, "I picked up another elementary school girl today, it's so fun", we always look at her with a very strange look, you know.

People who have never been in love are very simple, and when we say a few pornographic jokes, she will always ask us with a confused face: "What do you mean?" When someone goes out to find a boyfriend and doesn't come back all night, she will ask very naively

What are you going out for a big night? ”

Hey, people who have never been in love have a very positive outlook and pure thoughts. What kind of face does this give us, the old drivers and rotten girls, to stand in the world? So, for those who have never been in love, it's going to be Tanabata soon, so hurry up and get rid of the single, for the sake of world peace!

I think what I feel the most is that when my friends fall out of love, I don't know how to persuade them. I remember one time my college roommate fell out of love, crying very painfully in the dormitory, and the rest of our dormitory was comforting her, I said at the time, I have been in love for a year, is the relationship between each other really so deep, is there really love to die and live? Others say to me, you haven't been in love, you don't understand!

Well, I really don't understand.

It's like I don't understand why couples can fight for two or three hours, what is it and what are you talking about? And every couple around me wishes to be together all the time when they have a good relationship, and they have to fight when they are not together, and they are talking about breaking up when they quarrel, but I don't see that they have a couple who really broke up. People who have never been in love just don't understand the small doorways between lovers.

Every time I see the couple next to me showing affection, I feel that I should be in love, but every time I see them arguing, I will be glad that I am not in love, and I will feel that I am very good alone, I can do whatever I want, eat whatever I want, and don't have to worry about each other's feelings.

There are so many couples under the dormitory every night that I don't know how to compare it! Drop my girlfriend off at the dorm room after class. Then they poured out their love for each other inseparably.

People who have never been in a relationship don't understand why they are in a small campus, why they send their girlfriends to the dorm where she has walked countless times.

People who have never been in love seem to have seen through the emotional stories of all people in love, and think that they will not break up when they quarrel, but in fact, we don't understand anything, and we don't know what they are doing with each other.

In my opinion, people who have never been in love are not really growing up, because there are many things that you will know after you are in love. Falling in love, a turning point in life, there are many things that you will only know after falling in love, because the beginning of a relationship means that you are tied to another person, and you are no longer a simple person.

First, in love, in fact, the most important thing is sincerity.

If two characters love each other, they should be honest with each other, if they blindly deceive each other, they will only make the relationship irretrievable. Disappointment is a thing, even if it is made up for later, it will not help. Someone who truly loves you will help you overcome difficulties and warm you with love.

Second, when choosing an object, you must not only look at the appearance, but also pay attention to its connotation.

There must be something worth learning from the other person. Love is something that promotes people's progress, not a burden that drags down the lives of both parties. The other person must have a self-motivated heart and must have the generosity to tolerate all your shortcomings.

Third, only after falling in love do you know that love is indeed the right thing.

Door-to-door pair: Both parties maintain the same frequency resonance, which is the king to maintain an emotional relationship. Love is a long-distance run, and in the process of long-distance running, it is inevitable that the speed will be fast and slow, and it is impossible to guarantee that two people will be synchronized at all times.

If there is a person who has been running ahead for a long time, sooner or later he will get tired. Over time, there will be less and less common topics between you, and the relationship that continues will taste like chewing wax. In order to avoid this situation, in the long-distance love run, one person needs to pull the other person to let both parties grow and progress together.

Fourth, only after falling in love do you know that love is a value exchange.

There is really no love for no reason in this world, and if two parties can come together with each other, there must be some aspect that brought attraction to each other at that time. In a relationship, the value that both parties can provide to the other person is also different, which may be spiritual, such as a certain emotional value that makes the other person happy or excited; It may also be material, for example, if you have a car and a house, you can bring the other party to the hall to have a sense of security and superiority. Whatever value can be provided to the other party, it is a near-equivalent exchange.

All in all, love is a matter of two people, since they are in love, the next step is the process of getting along, and the process of getting along requires both parties to manage with their hearts, support each other, and work together to maintain a good intimate relationship and build a happy and beautiful family.

True growing up doesn't depend on whether you've been in love or not.

It varies from person to person, you are a boy or a girl, different people have different situations, and you can't generalize.

People who have not experienced hardships are not considered to have really grown up.

People grow up....

Every shed and pure chain has something to go through for every age group.

Love is also among them.

If you haven't been in love, you may have regrets.

Fate has arrived....Or the shed will understand.

Good luck in the new year!